1. Its against the Perfect-will of God in going into any carnal relationship before Marriage.

Many has falls into snare of sexual immoralities due to this fact. As a born-again Christian, you're not expect to act or decide's as the same way with the world.

As a man, whenever you fully aware of the purpose of yielding to God's perfect-will, which can't never decieved or dissapoint, the next is to go ahead and does the neccessary marriage arrangement.

I know, am too fast.
Alright,THIS MY ADVICE ACCORDING TO GOD'S STANDARD WAY BEFORE MARRIAGE.

1. As a young man, whom had prayed for God's to REVEAL unto him, his perfect-will in marriage.

You are to watch and continue in praying. Inform your pastor and fellow brethren and leader's to help-you-out in prayers, including fasting.

The scripture instructed us, to WATCH AND PRAY. During the era of watching (SCREENING) and praying. God will difinitely open your eyes through revelation.

ONLY if you're Honest and dedicated unto God's command. Dedicated means,"YOU BEEN HOLY AND RIGHTEOUS"

You're advice to continue waiting upon the Lord. The ways of the Lord are not the ways of men. The Almighty God can NEVER reveal his perfect-will to Sinners. God's perfect-will, are only reveal unto those that OBEY and SERVE him in FEAR and TREMBLING.

2. When this revelation had been revealed, the next stage is confirmation. This when you present the name of the young damsel to your pastor or any committed brethren or leader for confirmation from above.

As we knows that God CAN-NOT LIE, and the scripture also said,
The confirmation or withness of two or more people is counted as TRUE.

3. After the confirmation had been made and seem to be right with your revelation. The next stage is INTRODUCTION. Make yourself known to the family of the young damsel. By proposing to her.

This stage is when the demons and evil forces of darkness tend to imposed serious attacked. Because, they hate to see humanity abiding by God's perfect-will. They will wrought an attack, stiring-up SEXUAL URGES within.

Therefore, is very important to be very careful. In term of sleeping under the same roof with her. You must NEVER allow such to happen. NEVER allow her to sleep over-night in the same place with you. This stage is called COURTSHIP.

For the perfect-will of God to accomplished. You must fast and pray fervently. I will rather advice......Don't meet or have any conversation in SECRET or ALONE with her....all your conversation should baised through Phone-call or letter-writting. Pending the time, when all neccesssary arrangement are in placed.

Moreover, during this stage,
YOU DON'T HAVE ANY BIBLICAL RIGHT OR PROOF TO BREAK-UP THE RELATIONSHIP OR COURTShIP.

The only BIBLICAL RIGHT, whose the Lord had commanded, is when she is found in the Act of FORNICATION.

With this proof, you're obligated to sent-her away. But you're left to decide, and made your own decision, as Joseph did.

Although, I strongly believed with bold of faith, That God's can NEVER LIE, he knows the best for us. He knows our BEGININING AND END. He will never allow his son, whom waited upon him for his PERFECT-WILL be ASHAMED

This why i imploy those, who're into courtship, To always be in mode of praying and fasting. The enemies are not happy, when you're following after God's will.

Therefore, if the issue of fornication arise, As Man of faith and believer, You're expected to handle everything with spiritual knowledge and understanding.

You're expecte to determine, if it was intentionally, temptation or Set-up by enemies within. You're expected to be sensitive in spirit. Be conscious and vigilant. possessing spiritual forsight, and not been a carnal minded BABY CHRISTIAN. You're expected to be ready for Spiritual WAR. Not to act foolishly or carnally.

Before you took any delicate or serious action with her when caught in this terrible act. The Lord would had REVEALED it through revelation.

And you're now expected to act WISELY. Because, pressure will be mounted on you, likewise evil counseling from friends. Family and relative will also tends to opposed your action in retaining her. But THE COUNSEL OF THE LORD SHALL SURELY STAND AND HIS WILL SHALL BE DONE.

4. This is the final stage, where the BRIDE PRIC is been paid. And if you're bounyant enough. You can go ahead with WHITE WEDDING.

I remember, a brother, opposing this option with me, some few months ago. He believes that white weeding must take place, before any formal reunion.

No, itsn't mandatory. White wedding is forms of Show-biz. God is only concern about the DOWRY PAYMENT, And Nothing else.

After this stage, be ready to face the EVIL FORCE and ANCIENT DEMONS, that had been assigned, to WRECK and DESTROY your marriage life. Be ready for SERIOUS BATTLE and PRAYER.

Every marriage has up and down trials, and aren't always sweet or honey. But need God's intervention and Always live by prayers. Because Satan is the most patient element. Be ready For him.