is there any impact by getting married to un educated person or can you marry un educated person

Chances are an incredible one in a billion, but i guess i can. Only problem is that where i come from, only one person cannot marry a woman, the entire village marries the woman so the choice will be out of my hands by the time family members chook their interests, let alone when extended family and villa members step in

kaaz:

is there any impact by getting married to un educated person or can you marry un educated person

SOOR I DONT GET YOUR POINT

whitelexi


SORRY I DONT GET YOUR POINT

kaaz:

whitelexi
SORRY I don't GET YOUR POINT

There is a 1 in 1billion chance that I'd personally consider it if the person is nearly perfect in all other areas of civilization. But like i said earlier, the choice of whom u marry does not rest with u alone, because she will be scrutinized by family, friends, and community. . . So that can also have a huge impact if she's illitrate.

whitelexi:

. . . But like i said earlier, the choice of whom u marry does not rest with u alone, because she will be scrutinized by family, friends, and community. . . So that can also have a huge impact if she's illitrate.

I would not allow the person whom I want to marry to be subjected to the third degree by anyone I will marry who I want to marry

whitelexi


I DO AGREE WITH YOU


BUT IN THE OTHER WAY IF A GIRL IS NOT EDUCATED AND I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT HER EXCEPT FROM NOT BEING EDUCATE I THINK I CAN TEACH HER FEW THINGS ON MY OWL

Busy_body:

I would not allow the person whom I want to marry to be subjected to the third degree by anyone I will marry who I want to marry

All of una with this western culture sef Well, apart from being married lovers, my wife will have to be accepted by my family at the least, it is the benchmark of long lasting marriage relationships, not the divorce culture we know over here.

_{Yes, I be real african man to the marrow}

whitelexi:

All of una with this western culture sef Well, apart from being married lovers, my wife will have to be accepted by my family at the least, it is the benchmark of long lasting marriage relationships, not the divorce culture we know over here.

_{Yes, I be real african man to the marrow}

Having a mind of one's own, and no being legless and spineless like you is not a western culture Just don't let Uju see this your character flaws na, otherwise she will

Busy_body:

Having a mind of one's own, and no being legless and spineless like you is not a western culture Just don't let Uju see this your character flaws na, otherwise she will

Of course you can have a mind of your own and still make silly mistakes in the end, besides when you're in love, you're foolish 90% of the time. What the old folk see sitting, we cannot see when we climb a mountain. I'd definitely like my family to approve of any girl i bring home. However, I already know they'll disapprove of Uju cos na fight we go dey fight throughout our stay at home

lol

whitelexi:

Of course you can have a mind of your own and still make silly mistakes in the end, besides when you're in love, you're foolish 90% of the time. What the old folk see sitting, we cannot see when we climb a mountain. I'd definitely like my family to approve of any girl i bring home. However, I already know they'll disapprove of Uju because na fight we go dey fight throughout our stay at home

You think

I think it depends on how you want your relationship to be. Some guys really like the oga status of things like they really want to feel like the knowledgable one in the relationship.

For me sha, I think education is important, because it's been such a big part of my life and it's very important to me so I want a guy who can relate to me on that level, like when I say something, he knows what i'm talking about and vice-versa. I don't think I would marry someone who was completely uneducated but I mean never say never, I guess.

@ topic

I hate ignorants as they don't even know they are ignorants, making you want to cut off their head after you have sewed their mouths. They have a serious and contagious disease called STUPIDITY and the more you are exposed to it, the more you are likely to be infected.

Uneducation is different from ignorace as michelin89 puts it. There are many educated people that are very ignorant and unnecessarily proud.

Uneducation may only affect income. However, there's also a yardstick for the level of education. Men like Bill gates, and co don't have college degrees but are more educated and make more money than some with Ph.ds

OBVIOUS:

Uneducation is different from ignorace as michelin89 puts it. There are many educated people that are very ignorant and unnecessarily proud.

Uneducation may only affect income. However, there's also a yardstick for the level of education. Men like Bill gates, and co don't have college degrees but are more educated and make more money than some with Ph.ds

What concerns education and money? They are separate things. An educated person with or without money is a step ahead someone who is full of money and doesn't know jack.

I'd go with whitelexi on this;
Considering Nigeria's culture ,the family members do have some say on who you marry and its alwayz good for one's partner to have a good relationship with one's family members.
You can't always be right and sometimes when you are in love,you make funny decisions.

is it necessary your parent av to like your girl?

:d

If he has manners,and b4 we get married i will home tutor him my self.

Ujujoan:

You think

I reckon, dont u?

hot chic:

I'd go with whitelexi on this;
Considering Nigeria's culture ,the family members do have some say on who you marry and its alwayz good for one's partner to have a good relationship with one's family members.
You can't always be right and sometimes when you are in love,you make funny decisions.

God bless u

there is a difference btw an uneducated nigerian ^{who cant speak english and are usually the extremely poor and foolish} and
the uneducated american or european ^{who can speak well but just ddnt go to college}


i can marry anybody i want,m once the person has common sense and can speak english

whitelexi:

I reckon, don't u?

God bless u

You'll be surprised

yes i can,there is nothing wrong,but what is the level of his/her education?as long as he can communicate a bit,that is all. Grammer does not bring happiness and joy,which we look for in marriage.

Ujujoan:

You'll be surprised

That'll be a first, but i'll remain open minded as much as i seriously doubt it

whitelexi:

That'll be a first, but i'll remain open minded as much as i seriously doubt it

O ye men of little faith

By the way . . . . funny signature

Ujujoan:

O ye men of little faith

By the way . . . . funny signature

Signature is for someone like u, only this one chooses to stalk me on NL

whitelexi:

Signature is for someone like u, only this one chooses to stalk me on NL

Really? Sure you are not the one stalking her him

whitelexi:

God bless u

Amen.Thanks

If hes rich n handsome then yeah

kaaz:

is it necessary your parent av to like your girl?

according to many educated people- YES!! weird uh?