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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by millionboi(m): 11:28am On Aug 27, 2014
My Wife wil giv me sex 24/7....cnt wait 2say i do
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by vicsplash(m): 11:30am On Aug 27, 2014
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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Toks2008(m): 11:31am On Aug 27, 2014
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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Temptee101(m): 11:35am On Aug 27, 2014
Hmmmm...in the other news 'man utd targets chinese star Wyno Won Soon
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 11:35am On Aug 27, 2014
OP has merely written his personal wishlist for wife material.

Although 2/3 of what he listed makes universal sense.

Thats ok - for him
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 11:37am On Aug 27, 2014
This nah personal philosophy...lots of inter placed characteristics...I know many dating girls that behave like wife material and some wives that behave like your so called dating girls. I think the heading should be for True love
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Elzends(m): 11:44am On Aug 27, 2014
God please create new good girls, the ones you created are almost finished... cry

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 11:46am On Aug 27, 2014
OP, I don't know about all that (you've only been married for 36 months) but of this I'm sure.

The conniving witch that I was up against in divorce court wasn't the sweet gentle Lilly that I married.

Someone please pass me a lathe.

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by portable86(f): 11:50am On Aug 27, 2014
Beg to differ @op,you were writting from your own personal perspective
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by finfol007(m): 12:13pm On Aug 27, 2014
ogedanny: Think about one of the questions below for a moment.

If you are married, in what way is the girl you dated different from the woman you married? If you are single or dating, in what way do you want the woman you marry to be different from the girl you are dating? What thoughts come to your mind? I bet you have a few thoughts, I also do.

After being married for over 3 years to my awesome wife, l can testify that the girl l dated is different from the woman l proudly call my wife. She has definitely improved in ways I never imagined, and for the better.

If you go through dating and your marriage journey, you will inevitable look back to realize the girl you dated is different from the woman are married to. To clarify, l do not mean she would become a brand new person. What l mean is that her priorities and perspective about life and marriage will improve in many ways. Hopefully, for the better.

Either way, the woman you marry will not be the same as the girl you dated.

1. The girl you date does not want to meet your family or friends, she wants you all to herself.
The woman you marry wants to know your family and friends. She knows without them, you would not be where you are, and who you are today.

2. The girl you date is overly worried about her nails been done all the time, her eyelashes looking in a certain style, and being beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is important to her.
The woman you marry is not overly worried about her nails being done. Instead, she is worried about being beautiful for her man, even if that means wearing no makeup. She focuses on her internal beauty and character building, because she knows real beauty comes from within.

3. The girl you date only cares about her career and her vision for life. She comes before the relationship, and does not make her future plans with you in mind.
The woman you marry cares about your career and your vision of life as well as her own. She knows you also have a plan, and works together with you to achieve the goals you both have. The marriage is her priority.

4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion you can provide. She also expects something back whenever she gives.
The woman you marry wants to build a financial cushion with you. She believes that two heads will always be better than one. When she gives, she does not expect anything back.

5. The girl you date believes she knows everything.
The woman you marry is open to learning something new, and knows there is always room for improvement.

6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her deepest secrets.
The woman you marry will share her deepest secrets with you, even if it means losing you. She trusts you, and shares everything with you. She knows honesty is always the best policy.

7. The girl you date does not get excited about marriage and children (even if she wants to have some one day).
The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and starting a family with you.

8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time.
The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only.

9. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you.
The woman you marry loves not only to cook, but chooses delicious and healthy meals. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach after all, right?

10. The girl you date is overly concerned about how long you will be around, and how she can keep you.
The woman you marry is not too concerned about keeping you because she knows you want to have a future with her. She is mature enough to know you can never force someone to stay and that you each have to choose each other every day, again and again.

11. The girl you date is not willing to compromise with you.
The woman you marry is willing to compromise, and sees compromise as a necessity for a healthy marriage

12. The girl you date thrives on constant attention from you.
The woman you marry mirrors your affection and thrives on providing you with the love, support, and respect you need.

13. The girl you date tries to change who you are and compares you to her ex.
The woman you marry accepts you for who you are and will not compare you to her ex. She knows you are the best and that you cannot change another person no matter how hard you try.

14. The girl you date has to be entertained.
The woman you marry is someone you can have fun with, relax, do activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy each other’s company.

What are your thoughts on these differences between the girl you date and the woman you marry?

@op.....the funny thing is that my girlfriend has all these "woman i marry" qualities....i sincerely appreciate her....i love her so much,,,,no wonder she sed she is ready to go the rough road to be mine!!!!
I wish she sees this....but.....she aint a nairalander....
Oluwapelumi mi : kiss
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by iswallker(m): 12:17pm On Aug 27, 2014
jideomowunmi: In a nutshell...I think most ladies growing up into a woman will do all of these things...d difference is simply d fact dat d lady u once dated grew up after marriage and Is much more matured.... undecided undecided

wrong...

a zebra cant change its spots...

you need to have that mindset from the onset... wink
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by born2boink(m): 12:19pm On Aug 27, 2014
You keep dating but you don't know who will actually become your wife, even a dated girl will eventually become a married woman to either you or someone else but one thing that cannot be taking away is the true facts their either dated or married, most female love money, even the one you kept at home as wife
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by iswallker(m): 12:20pm On Aug 27, 2014
portable86: Beg to differ @op,you were writting from your own personal perspective


honey whats your own perspective...
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by iswallker(m): 12:24pm On Aug 27, 2014
melojames:

So True

Baba Deola..is that you... grin
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by femsmith(m): 12:27pm On Aug 27, 2014
[color=#000000][/color] 100% fact.. d gal u date might nat b d 1 u marry, bur d 1 u marry definetly iz d 1 u dated..
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Naigerian(m): 12:33pm On Aug 27, 2014
There are tons of rules for relationships but There's no rules to love and marriage. Just be true to the realities of everything and u are good to go.
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 12:43pm On Aug 27, 2014
En serio que se preocupa
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Vikthor(m): 1:00pm On Aug 27, 2014
angry funny very funny...
...intact Rubbish....
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by jideomowunmi(f): 1:01pm On Aug 27, 2014
iswallker:

wrong...

a zebra cant change its spots...

you need to have that mindset from the onset... wink

Even life is a learning process my dear..and we all grew into learning one thing or d other everyday....like dey say...'change is d only constant thing in life' dats why I don't judge or conclude on pple easily...
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by cigie(m): 1:02pm On Aug 27, 2014
KillerBeauty: Hokay

I know av grew to become a woman now

bia, this geh woman, raise your head make we see the beauty nau! angry angry
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by omoredia: 1:32pm On Aug 27, 2014
$%^&

Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by salvatore007(m): 2:15pm On Aug 27, 2014
KillerBeauty: Hokay

I know av grew to become a woman now

Haha Gunshot! Gbagaun grin grin

Correction : I know av grown to become a woman now
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 2:57pm On Aug 27, 2014
finfol007:

@op.....the funny thing is that my girlfriend has all these "woman i marry" qualities....i sincerely appreciate her....i love her so much,,,,no wonder she sed she is ready to go the rough road to be mine!!!!
I wish she sees this....but.....she aint a nairalander....
Oluwapelumi mi : kiss

You almost made me toss my breakfast.

You are in fine form to be a whipped Husband.
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by finfol007(m): 3:08pm On Aug 27, 2014
CityNG:

You almost made me toss my breakfast.

You are in fine form to be a whipped Husband.

Not possible bro......
That it happend to u doesnt mean it will also happen to me
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 27, 2014
I tink number 5 makes sense
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 3:42pm On Aug 27, 2014
finfol007:

Not possible bro......
That it happend to u doesnt mean it will also happen to me

Trust me it never has and will never happen to me. I don't surfer fools.

You're young yet and you think you have all the answers.
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Tdrumz(m): 3:54pm On Aug 27, 2014
justi4jesu:

who hold u not to create your own boys thread and boys talk, u cannot do without us.....we add spice to Men's life tongue tongue

Den we will take just tea. Atleast dem nor dey put spices for tea grin

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Decryptor(m): 4:38pm On Aug 27, 2014
OP, You forgot to add...

The Girl you date will read this post and won't learn from it but rather whine and make feminist comments tongue

The Woman you marry will read this post and give it a thumbs-up

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 5:04pm On Aug 27, 2014
Patiently waiting for the difference between the guys M dating and the man i wantu marry tongue
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by AriDsexy(f): 5:15pm On Aug 27, 2014
justi4jesu:

who hold u not to create your own boys thread and boys talk, u cannot do without us.....we add spice to Men's life tongue tongue
And I tot u were a guy.
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by justi4jesu(f): 5:25pm On Aug 27, 2014
Tdrumz:

Den we will take just tea. Atleast dem nor dey put spices for tea grin

grin grin

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