Guys can be very annoying at times.
I just don't know why many of us indulge in these irritating behaviors

1. Staring at a lady's backside: 90% guys do this. They just can't help turning around whenever a female passes, just to check out her backside. Its very irritating and rude too. Guys pls stop it

2.Calling a girl and saying "I just want to hear your voice": To me this is just dumb! And that's why that girl can never call you. She assumes you don't have a life. Guys, even if you're jobless at d moment, pls find sth to do even if its free, a hobby or volunteer work just to fill the time. Than to waste your time wanting to hear a girl's voice.

3. Thanking a lady for accepting their friend request on Facebook: As if they have won gold. Its so annoying and smacks of both desperation and lack of self worth. At worst, you should welcome the person and say that you're looking forward to knowing more about her. Not writing silly stuffs like "Baby thanks for accepting me as your friend".

4. Asking for a girl's number just too early: Many guys feel very fulfilled getting a girl's digits. Guys, there's no big deal in it! You might even end up not calling them at the end of the day. Take your time and let the girl wonder why you aren't rushing to get her digits like most would do.

5.Always wanting to please ladies: I'm not saying its bad to be a gentleman, its just that some guys take it too far. They go against their own morals and ethics just to please a lady. Come on! That she's not all smiles doesn't mean she's unhappy or worried. Some ladies just use these tactics to make you do what you shouldn't do.

6. Giving out large sums of money for sex: For God's sake guys, you won't die if you don't have sex. Stop acting as if your whole life depends on sex. Some guys would abandon their parents and siblings and be spending large on a girl who hasn't added nothing in his life save for the sex. Guys pls learn!

7. Agreeing to whatever the ladies say in order to become a gentleman: We see this on NL here sometimes. Some guys have earned that reputation of always supporting, liking comments made by ladies not because its true, but because they're ladies.


There are many of them.... Pls add yours

So so annoying.... especially this "Baby
thanks for accepting me as your friend". And if you are very very lucky she will just reply you with (k)......

I concur

Egbon u are very very sensible... I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up is guilty of woman wrapper-ing and low self esteem... Say no to woman wrapper-ing


Guys actually do silly poo that makes dem feel beneath ladies all in d name of being NICE. Take for example, I have uploaded my pix for quite a while ( abt a month ago ) and d highest av got is jst 13 likes ( fumble apart oooo, how many ladies profile pix betters mine?) Likewise some handsome dudes I view their profile by d reason of their sensible comments only to see mouth-opening nice profile pix but surprisingly, u would see little or no Likes.. It was so annoying wen a lady uploaded a picture of wack quality and she got 65 likes under 24 hours and I was lik WTF !!! The LIKING of evry lady's comment or pix is d beginning of woman-wrappering.


Secondly, the rate at which Nairaland guys sef dey fall person hand sef no be am at all, countless times, I have seen some dumb threads like , SEXYMARY I'm dying for u and so on.. it's not jst funny at all., It is jst d greatest exhibition of stupidity and immaturity) ...


Thirdly, d rate at which guys follow ladies on NL sef ehn na falling hand tins.. Most times, u wld even see some guys attack or belittle their male counterpart in threads that reveals d truth abt ladies so that it wld possibly increase dia chances of attention... Imagine a girl telling me to step outside and get her recharge card around 11pm and dat it was too late for her to go out and buy.. I was lik WTF!!! If it was 11pm at ur own place, is it 7pm at my own place ?

tosyne2much: Egbon u are very very sensible...
I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up will alwz die of low self esteem

e reach dis ni

Hmmmmmmm

lirusehn:
e reach dis ni

egbon I swear e reach dat level

*Researching...*

LaurelP: Guys can be very annoying at times.
I just don't know why many of us indulge in these irritating behaviors

1. Staring at a lady's backside: 90% guys do this. They just can't help turning around whenever a female passes, just to check out her backside. Its very irritating and rude too. Guys pls stop it

To stare may just be pushing it but asking guys not to look (at least a glance) would be to deny the very thing that makes us men. We do it out of impulse.

LaurelP:
2.Calling a girl and saying "I just want to hear your voice": To me this is just dumb! And that's why that girl can never call you. She assumes you don't have a life. Guys, even if you're jobless at d moment, pls find sth to do even if its free, a hobby or volunteer work just to fill the time. Than to waste your time wanting to hear a girl's voice.

I think it's cool. Some guys do that when they have nothing much to say to the lady. Probably their way of letting the lady know that they are thinking of her. Better to call and say that than not call at all. Nothing wrong there.

LaurelP:
3. Thanking a lady for accepting their friend request on Facebook: As if they have won gold. Its so annoying and smacks of both desperation and lack of self worth. At worst, you should welcome the person and say that you're looking forward to knowing more about her. Not writing silly stuffs like "Baby thanks for accepting me as your friend".

I think it's courteous and gentlemanly to say thank you, even when it's something as trivial as getting added on facebook. Though the world need not know. A private message would do just fine.

LaurelP:
4. Asking for a girl's number just too early: Many guys feel very fulfilled getting a girl's digits. Guys, there's no big deal in it! You might even end up not calling them at the end of the day. Take your time and let the girl wonder why you aren't rushing to get her digits like most would do.

I don't think any time is too early to ask for a lady's number as long as it is done politely, such that the lady is not embarrassed in the process.

LaurelP:
5.Always wanting to please ladies: I'm not saying its bad to be a gentleman, its just that some guys take it too far. They go against their own morals and ethics just to please a lady. Come on! That she's not all smiles doesn't mean she's unhappy or worried. Some ladies just use these tactics to make you do what you shouldn't do.

I agree that one shouldn't do wrong to please anyone (male of female), but we are obligated as men to try and make ladies reasonably comfortable.

LaurelP:
6. Giving out large sums of money for sex: For God's sake guys, you won't die if you don't have sex. Stop acting as if your whole life depends on sex. Some guys would abandon their parents and siblings and be spending large on a girl who hasn't added nothing in his life save for the sex. Guys pls learn!

That's called prostitution I guess.

LaurelP:
7. Agreeing to whatever the ladies say in order to become a gentleman: We see this on NL here sometimes. Some guys have earned that reputation of always supporting, liking comments made by ladies not because its true, but because they're ladies.


There are many of them.... Pls add yours

Related to point number 5.

how about looking at the attack of a woman until u forget that ure being caught watching

I actually do all of them.. Different strokes for different flocks.. #Kidding#

tosyne2much: Egbon u are very very sensible... I will categorically say that any guy who attacks or rebuke you for dis write-up will not live long and die of low self esteem

.....thats too harsh....

...lol...one of those things Naija girls hate about Naija boys....some guys need to upgrade for real....


.....Later you see them opening a counter thread now, they will not accept they are wrong most tyms and try to make amends.....

.....Anyways, ayaf sed my mind oooo....He who has ears let him hear.....

I am guilty of number 2. I did it some years back. bt I don't think.I'll do it again tho I see nothin wrong with it

temigracie: .....thats too harsh....

jst a slip of typing.. *modified*

tosyne2much: am so sowi Temigracie... That was my first time of being rude.. Twas a slip of typing.. *modified*

,
i think you are womanwrappering here

kroomtravels:
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i think you are womanwrappering here

woman wrappering say wetn happen... Ladies na d least tin wey dey my mind... I get dem plenty if dats u wanna hear

And ladies will be like CHAI, This Op done remove our banner .

lirusehn: like seriously numb 3 (saying thanks wen a lady accepts them on Facebook) sucks. I hate it like hell.

me2

dre11: how about looking at the attack of a woman until u forget that ure being caught watching

Attack ko, Midfield Ni .

So Op,if guys stop doing all these you mentioned, which other ways do you want them to be romantic.

8. Resulting to ''fall the hand'' of a fellow guy in the presence of a girl, so she will look fairly on 'em. Smh.

9. Antagonising a guy severly for pointing out his flaws, when he's being magad by a chick..

I can't stop doing number 1 sha, the eyes are meant to behold GOD'S Great works

*in RileyFreeman's voice*Alot of guys are suffering from B*tch dependency that's why they do all this,expecially thanking a girl for accptn ur request on Fb...that's gay

Whatever

Qsscruz: I actually do all of them.. Different strokes for different flocks.. #Kidding#

hmmm kidding but I know are say the truth you are guitlty of all lolll

I loff this thread

kroomtravels:
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i think you are womanwrappering here

Lol.....

I'm guilty of 1 and 2. But then 90% of black men love appreciating boot-y.

If the cameras weren't on,I'll beat them so bad they'lld look like impressionist art *in grandpa's voice*

MarshRiley: *in RileyFreeman's voice*Alot of guys are suffering from B*tch dependency that's why they do all this,expecially thanking a girl for accptn ur request on Fb...that's gay

Thinking.......