it's a new moon, I love her to bits and I haven't felt the way I feel now in years. I see me going crazy and overboard to do anything just to make her happy with the way my emotions are fueling my reasoning. I wanna call her so often, check on her so often,make sure she is comfortable, text romantic, do all the fairy tale.

But... and there comes the but. What if she abuse the privileges like others have? what if she sees me as a pest like others have? what if , what if and what if. It keep ringing in my head and can't deny the those words ain't true. The urge is there to bring out the real me but I am fighting to suppress it as much as I can and not let my guards down.

Naturally, I am a nice guy but over the years, I have reduced my real image to almost the opposite due to negative experiences. Though, she hasn't given me any reason to make me feel this way, ladies don't often value what they get without stress.

I really wanna do this but at the same time, I feel I may get hurt if reveal my feelings too much. She could say after all he is the one that is crazy about me and etc.

I love her but being taken for granted is something I don't want.

If you are afraid to fly, then I guess u never will. 3 doors down.

Austyn44: If you are afraid to fly, then I guess u never will. 3 doors down.

lol I am not a witch that fly at night.

I need comments guys.

'You have not lived until you take risks' - Brownknight

Op, you will never know if you sit in the comfort of your loneliness sulking, you just have meet her to know.

BrownKnight: 'You have not lived until you take risks' - Brownknight

Op, you will never know if you sit in the comfort of your loneliness sulking, you just have meet her to know.

thanks but what I am saying is if I love her and let her know i am madly in love with her, wouldn't she abuse it? Is it right to suppress my feelings?

creamydude: thanks but what I am saying is if I love her and let her know i am madly in love with her, wouldn't she abuse it? Is it right to suppress my feelings?

Yup, she could abuse it but then again she could also not abuse it. Find out and free yourself from thinking alot about it.

Love her to bits but show no cracks.
Stand firm n 've a very Low Threshold for B.S..

That way, no matter how much love n affection u show her, she probably won't abuse it.

Don't give a c.m n complain abt a mile (wen she takes it )

Why don't you try again just this once

onstelly: Why don't you try again just this once

I will. Thanks.

dBard: Love her to bits but show no cracks.
Stand firm n 've a very Low Threshold for B.S..

That way, no matter how much love n affection u show her, she probably won't abuse it.

Don't give a c.m n complain abt a mile (wen she takes it )

Thanks but what do you be at the emboldened?

creamydude: Thanks but what do you be at the emboldened?

Be firm and have 0 tolerance f B.S.
Girls complain but bottomline is they dislike 'weak' guys .
A surprising no of girls 've told me how they broke up wit so n so f bin too soft..doesn't mean u shld be hard tho .. Be Firm!

..n don't be scared to show her u love her. She needs that assurance n comfort.

dBard:

Be firm and have 0 tolerance f B.S.
Girls complain but bottomline is they dislike 'weak' guys .
A surprising no of girls 've told me how they broke up wit so n so f bin too soft..doesn't mean u shld be hard tho .. Be Firm!

yeah... I get that. Sure I can handle such scenarios when they pop up. I once had a girl I asked out. I was calling her often but she saw me as being a pest. She couldn't believe I would stay for one whole year without calling her. She exclaimed the day she heard my voice on phone. I know how switch the emotions off when the need arises.

Thanks.

dBard: ..n don't be scared to show her u love her. She needs that assurance n comfort.

Thanks man. I will do just that.

creamydude: Thanks man. I will do just that.

No p.
Glad t help out.

Take the risk!
If your heart gets broken again,bring it to Nairaland;i bet we have good welders here.

Houseofglam7: Take the risk!
If your heart gets broken again,bring it to Nairaland;i bet we have good welders here.

now that's scrary. she is a nairalander

creamydude: now that's scrary. she is a nairalander

Oops!
Either way,do NOT settle for less.

Look on the bright side,women fade like flowers.

If you give and don't get love in return,take a walk...

Houseofglam7:


Oops!
Either way,do NOT settle for less.

Look on the bright side,women fade like flowers.

If you give and don't get love in return,take a walk...

Thanks. I will.

I love her so much!