Drdreluv: Y not? Y are we married in de first place useless question

It won't sound like a useless question, when you come home to find your wife has murdered your 2 year old child for
interrupting her sex marathon with her 20 year old lover.

..and of course he was hitting it dougie when you walked in.

I bet you you would be like.. "aww honey, it's alright, why are we married in the first place"

Hopefully I will be able to that, it's a different thing to think one can do something, it's another thing to actually do such.

Yes; unless he lays he's hands on me, or cheats.

You would stand by your spouse in public, but in private will inquire and investigate the situation with him or her

Abeg oooo dis will neva be my portion oooo ehe no be me goo jam dis kind woman......

NaLaugh:

It won't sound like a useless question, when you come home to find your wife has murdered your 2 year old child for
interrupting her sex marathon with her 20 year old lover.

..and of course he was hitting it dougie when you walked in.

I bet you you would be like.. "aww honey, it's alright, why are we married in the first place"

There are challenges in relationship,it requires maturity from the two parties

Yes! Yes, I would.

That's exactly what I'm doing now.

Drdreluv: Abeg oooo dis will neva be my portion oooo ehe no be me goo jam dis kind woman......

I hope it never happens to you, but i'm sure now you see the point of the OP's question.

It's quite easy for anyone to say "till death do us part," but what happens when shitt hits the fan.

in order not to worry about the above, why not 'elect' your spouse who's been tried, tested and trusted.

That list was composed in Mordor - right in the ass_crack of hell, and almost directly below its armpit. All love is effectively conditional. I suppose one could love unconditionally and foolishly. I'm not sure I'm "one".

All I can say is, know who you're marrying.

But not when he is about to kill mee cox I have to b alive to stand by him....but any odathing YES!!!

infidelity? am sorry ooo, na to come pack her load oo and if na she catches me also na for me to pack my load cos i know say she go be the one to ask ontop wetin i dey pack go in as much i no carry d woman come house, know naija women now

Yes n yes, any day, any time!

Yea I will stand by her no matter what

From experience. It's not worth it. Any situation Thts not wrking 4 me. I don port cos honestly I don suffer. PS unless the situation isn't any of his fault o then we cn try to wrk something out

Why not...for better for worse,

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zboyd: If it's true love, will you stick by your spouse, no matter what happens, or what they do?

Under what circumstances would you not?
______________________________________________________________________
I would not stand by OR stay with my spouse if he...

...became abusive
...cheated
...was no longer a good father
...refused to work
...was convicted of a crime
...stole from me... among other things

@bolded, but you expect him to stand by his woman when she steals his money right?.

Yes all things being equal afterall its for better for worse.

For as long as my wife holds on to Christ, who is the foundation of our existence and marriage, I'll stand by her in ANY circumstance.

I repeat 'ANY'; be it Infidelity or Disease - even if, God forbid, it were Ebola (she stood by me, cared for me and contracted chicken pox along the line from me -even while we were still dating), or anything...

My Bible says: For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God - yet God's love for us is indescribable.

Winners don' quit and quitters don't win BUT first make CHRIST (with full respects to Islam, African traditional and other forms of religion; I don't despise other religions/creed - as long as each man's conscience is alive) your cornerstone.

As a matter of fact, you'll find out that overbearing upheavals wouldn't happen in your marriage if you both hold on steadfast to Christ.


**We met via (not ON, but through) nairaland - but the road to marriage wasn't easy or roses-laid. We are best friends today!**

DukeNija: All these women shouting infidelity. Lol
So your man 'slips' just once and next thing you are running off! lmao yea right?!!

Really, dude?!

Let me quickly say dis.Not all men/women deserve that unless it will b wast of time. Have so many tyms stood by my gf.is it wen she was molested,wen I will meet her needs even more than her parent does,got her almost all she demanded.yet when we have misunderstanding,she wil tel me am nt d 1st guy dat has done dat neider wil I b d last if I leave. After sayin lots of silly tins to me,she wil com bak cry 4 4givnes.so therefore,frm my xperience wit dis my present spouse.I won't stand by her again even to the point death.some dnt deserve it.no for me if she becam abusive & a cheat

zboyd: If it's true love, will you stick by your spouse, no matter what happens, or what they do?

Under what circumstances would you not?
______________________________________________________________________
I would not stand by OR stay with my spouse if he...

...became abusive
...cheated
...was no longer a good father
...refused to work
...was convicted of a crime
...stole from me...among other things

So love isn't unconditional after all?

Bishop4bella: I can do all things through Christ who strenghten me.

Is only by His grace.

For your mind now u don comment

No, I will not but only in certain circumstances.

But my child, yes and without any reservation.

Those of us lucky (I chose this word specifically) enough to have gone through a divorce understands this completely and with total clarity.

True Life Story
Recently a man paid his fiancee bride price according to law and custom, everything seemed rosy but before the church wedding, the church demands for medical exam like HIV, Pregnancy test and so on and so forth. AFTER the test it was discovered on the wedding day that the girl was pregnant, so everyone was like this guy na SHARP GUY but na that time my brother shout say HE NEVER DO THE THING BEFORE AND HE WAS WAITING TILL AFTER MARRIAGE. Na there AGBADA HOOK WIRE,
Church cancel wedding
Girl elope
My brother grown up man cry like small pickin
people go house
If na you WETIN YOU GO DO
till now we just dey observe

Mba kwa biko, I ain't staying no matter what.

lofty900: even if she cheated, I'll still stick with her cos I know that if I cheat, she'll also stick with me

What if she gave you a STD, especially an incurable one like genital herpes or HIV?

Would you stay?

Would you expect her to stay with you, if you afflicted her in the same way?

And it's a definitely possibility, too.

no i wont.is he my flesh and blood.anyone replaceable noooooooooo!!!!!!

for better for worse if married, in movies

as long as it's legal I would.

that.what marriage vows.r based on. duh!!!!