raumdeuter: Okafor's Law of Congodynamics
C 1 P = C ∞

It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ) , it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.(emphasis on properly). In other words, "....a woman once knacked, can be reknacked..."

Orikinla: There are more ex lovers who are still very much in love with themselves than those who are not.
Two of my ex girlfriends are in this situation, because they said they married their husbands, because I was not ready when they were ready. And until I got hitched, one of them was still very much in love with me and visited me every week, holding hands as we walked on the street in a public display of love that she never did with her husband. In fact, people saw us more together in public than her husband. And I have seen similar cases, even girlfriends who are still sleeping with their ex-boyfriends.

I have seen a married woman snapping at her husband, but melts whenever she sees her ex-boyfriend.
And many guys still want to date their ex-girlfriends, even the married ones.

When your wife talks about her ex with glints in her eyes and her cheeks glow in cheerfulness, then that is a clear sign that she is still in love with him.


My policy is never to call any married ex-girlfriends.
One of them suddenly visited after a year and we really missed each other.
But when another married ex girlfriend came to see me with her husband, he was feeling uncomfortable and intimidated.
Most husbands don't like seeing the ex-boyfriends of their wives, especially the ones they dated for years.
Having a wife who adores you does not stop you from missing an ex-girlfriend you love.
Even marrying a virgin, does not make her more beloved to you than an ex-girlfriend you love.

Benswaggy:

bro, abeg u dey prison?

Orikinla: There are more ex lovers who are still very much in love with themselves than those who are not.
Two of my ex girlfriends are in this situation, because they said they married their husbands, because I was not ready when they were ready. And until I got hitched, one of them was still very much in love with me and visited me every week, holding hands as we walked on the street in a public display of love that she never did with her husband. In fact, people saw us more together in public than her husband. And I have seen similar cases, even girlfriends who are still sleeping with their ex-boyfriends.

I have seen a married woman snapping at her husband, but melts whenever she sees her ex-boyfriend.
And many guys still want to date their ex-girlfriends, even the married ones.

When your wife talks about her ex with glints in her eyes and her cheeks glow in cheerfulness, then that is a clear sign that she is still in love with him.

My policy is never to call any married ex-girlfriends.
One of them suddenly visited after a year and we really missed each other.
But when another married ex girlfriend came to see me with her husband, he was feeling uncomfortable and intimidated.
Most husbands don't like seeing the ex-boyfriends of their wives, especially the ones they dated for years.
Having a wife who adores you does not stop you from missing an ex-girlfriend you love.
Even marrying a virgin, does not make her more beloved to you than an ex-girlfriend you love.

ihedinobi2: This is pretty much an old story. Relationships are more than physical contact. When you have opened yourself up in a certain way it is hard to "lock up" again. That person you were convinced you were safe with and who had your back will always be special to you unless you give someone else a chance to be just that to you.

That's why the "dating game" is pretty stupïd. The "testing, testing the mic" ends up biting people on the arsé. If you want to be with someone, commit to working it out no matter what. Or else stay the hell away from them. Why complicate your life unnecessarily? One ex told me once that she couldn't be with anyone else because it was me she wanted. Yet, she wouldn't go to work on the relationship to make it work out for pretty typical reasons. Hedging your bets means you'll lose in more than one way, not win in more than one way.

Whatever sha, I'm not racking up exes anymore. And I'm not marrying any woman who's confused about what she wants. Lol, that reminds me of something someone said about going to hunt a spouse after you've made your money. Apparently, you're supposed to hedge your bets: keep a large number of possibilities before you make your hit so that you know who's best to get hitched to when you do. That way, you avoid the problem of being deceived with love because a woman wants your money.

I think that that fear makes sense only if you are a naïve, gullible person. It doesn't really take all that much to know who you should trust with your life. And when you figure it out, it really doesn't take much either to actually trust them with your life. So quit hedging your bets and go to work on building depth in your relationships. That way, you free your life from silly complications like this.

By the way, I don't have any ex that I'm still in love with. If you're an ex and I've given it everything I've got (as I always do), you're nothing more than history to me. I could do stuff for you for old times' sake but you will never really be a part of my life anymore. Certainly not in any personal sense.

andromida:

How did you get so brilliant?

Davidson267:
O.p am sorry 2 say ur ex neva loved u,she only loves ur dick.she wunt be ur ex if she was really inlove wit u.

MizMyColi:

That said OP, I read your post twice but failed to get the ultimate goal for creating this thread, please enlighten me?

Orikinla:
Thank God na amorality and not immorality.

Wolison: EX kwa? When I don't dream setting my eyes on her?.....I guess this thread is not for me but let me drop my little comment shaa.......To me EX means; thanks for the EXperience............Your time had EXpired..........you can now EXit my life......simple!!!!!!!! .

Chigold101: my sister ask him o. It is like he just want to tell us that he is tired of leaving. He wants a man that will kill him. But the most annoying thing is that for no reason it made front page... Nonesense

I was abit taken aback when I noticed too. There seems to be a dearth of reasonable topics in RL, well some days are like that.

MizMyColi: I was abit taken aback when I noticed too. There seems to be a dearth of reasonable topics in RL, well some days are like that.

raumdeuter: Okafor's Law of Congodynamics
C 1 P = C ∞

It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ) , it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.(emphasis on properly). In other words, "....a woman once knacked, can be reknacked..."

Orikinla:
You may be right.
She always said my dick was massive. And must be missing it badly now.

Orikinla:
You may be right.
She always said my dick was massive. And must be missing it badly now.

rightym: hmmmm it sound friendly. but pls discourage it wit all ur might.

Orikinla:
She is bored of her husband.
Pray for her, otherwise she will be sleeping with her husband and seeing you making love to her.

trendiitee: exactly wat it is...u re so on point **thumbs up

Wolison: thanks, am impressed!!

avuekwe:

another example is when you date ur university boyfriend and u guys go through thick and thin for years after graduation . When he becomes comfortable, he sees a small chick and leaves u for her abandoning you when you guys are at the finishing line. For me, it's better to remain single cos u can't forget all the years of happy memories in a twinkle of an eye. U may never find happiness with another so to spare an innocent bobo misery when he comes into ur life later, just kuku stay on your own jeje. This love matter aint easy at all. I never prayed for this, but it happened.

chucky234: Still in love with four of my EXs including Khiaa

raumdeuter: Okafor's Law of Congodynamics
C 1 P = C ∞

It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ) , it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.(emphasis on properly). In other words, "....a woman once knacked, can be reknacked..."

avuekwe:

another example is when you date ur university boyfriend and u guys go through thick and thin for years after graduation . When he becomes comfortable, he sees a small chick and leaves u for her abandoning you when you guys are at the finishing line. For me, it's better to remain single cos u can't forget all the years of happy memories in a twinkle of an eye. U may never find happiness with another so to spare an innocent bobo misery when he comes into ur life later, just kuku stay on your own jeje. This love matter aint easy at all. I never prayed for this, but it happened.

Emmycheeze: I dnt have to comment