oluchikeh:
Usually he comes to mind when my hubby has done something that hurt and i uncounsciously compare them like ' Eze would never have done something like that' etc

slimyem: huh?

What respects?

How?

mcdreeezy: Bro this is a lie! It's very false, the dead know nothin. I wonder why pple believe this

oluchikeh: Hello dear nairalanders,

We were married barely 2years when he died in 2005.
I am currently remarried with a beautiful daughter but i keep remembering him especially today.
My husband is great even with the normal marriage issues but i really do love my husband dearly

But i know i shed a tear today and i keep muttering like my late hubby can hear me, that I loved you
why do I still feel the pain and miss him even after all this time

oluchikeh: thank you so much guys.

Usually he comes to mind when my hubby has done something that hurt and i uncounsciously compare them like ' Eze would never have done something like that' etc

But today there was just no reason for it. woke up normally had some real good loving but on our way to work his memory came at me and i almost wished my last hubby was here. Later this afternoon, the thoughts returned and tears escaped my eyes. even i couldnt believe i cried for him after 9years. the ache is still there even when i thought i was over him.

I'll keep trying my best to give my present family my all, God is my strength

baralatie:
Leave the dead alone!
unless you don't love the living!
holding to it has a negative effect when your present accepts the "statement in his head,you don't love him"

Raymondenyi:
Madam; how u use dey Do ; the thing? Within a period of barely 10yrs; u don capture 2 complete husbands; when girls dey run around, dey visit different churches, dey fast 70 days n 70 9ts , de go 4 counselling up n sown; still no show.... Abeg mek u share. D mericine ;u dey rub 4 face, or d location of d okombo man u dey use; mek our young ladies; also benefit; similar blessings like u....