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Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by allanphash7(m): 7:47am On Aug 30, 2014 |
your in law or you? you better confess montestic: my inlaw became jealous wen my eldest sister, her wife, started her own trading busines & was doing wel. busines waz moving. she was contributing like 50% of d upkeep of d house. his husband would destroy her articles for sell and disgrace her in public once there was a little argument. he beat her atimes. nw her busines has fallen they are nw feeding frm hand to mouth. pity them. they cant even get a decent apartment. frm flat to 2 rooms, frm there to batcher without a good convinience wit 6 children. |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Nobody: 7:47am On Aug 30, 2014 |
lomaxx: My wife earning more than me doesn't automatically translate to her being the breadwinner. I will pick all my family bills to the last naira - my wife may choose to help at her discretion. Her money is her money. If I run into shortage, I may borrow from her- pick the bills. When I'm back on my feet, I'll pay back to the last dime. u ar too much my brother.only if some men wil av ur kind of thinking instead inferiority complex sets in he starts becoming aggressive. 1 Like |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by virago(f): 7:51am On Aug 30, 2014 |
raumdeuter: If you want to avoid such problems marry a stark illiterate with no hope of making money Even a stark illiterate can become a multi millionaire tomorrow , education is not the only key to riches 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by InvertedHammer: 8:02am On Aug 30, 2014 |
lomaxx: My wife earning more than me doesn't automatically translate to her being the breadwinner. I will pick all my family bills to the last naira - my wife may choose to help at her discretion. Her money is her money. If I run into shortage, I may borrow from her- pick the bills. When I'm back on my feet, I'll pay back to the last dime./ You said "her money is her money" Apparently you lack basic understanding of marriage. \ 11 Likes |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by InvertedHammer: 8:06am On Aug 30, 2014 |
lomaxx: My wife earning more than me doesn't automatically translate to her being the breadwinner. I will pick all my family bills to the last naira - my wife may choose to help at her discretion. Her money is her money. If I run into shortage, I may borrow from her- pick the bills. When I'm back on my feet, I'll pay back to the last dime./ You said "her money is her money" She makes more money than you. Yet you pick all the bills. So what is her money for? Not for her family? Apparently you lack basic understanding of marriage. \ 11 Likes |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by zubby29(m): 8:09am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Rehil: It all boils down to d couples.i know that we are one,so wat belongs to me belong to him.he is the head of the family no matter what.God has placed him n not man who am i to question my God?i use to earn more than my husband some years back but i made sure i always present the money to him as our money.Presently i am not working,he collects his salary,brings it home n says its our salary.honestly dia shouldnt be division in d family as to who earns more,what d woman has belongs to d man n vice versa.u can earn millions more than ur husband but without his blessing and unity in the home u may never see the usefulness of such money.u r very wise.nt b cos of money, I pray to marry a woman like u 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by nuges1(m): 8:11am On Aug 30, 2014 |
It's very hard for a woman who earns more than her husband to be submissive...it takes the grace of God#trustme 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by DrGroove(f): 8:15am On Aug 30, 2014 |
It's mostly African husbands who feel bad by a wife earning more.African men are intimidated by even an educated woman tagging her proud .How much more when she is richer?It's called insecurity.I don't know where in the Bible it is written that its a big deal if a wife earns more.Just our societal mentality 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Nobody: 8:15am On Aug 30, 2014 |
To me i see it as a blessing,i do pray for such and my pals are like,am i out of my mind.i love career women.it wld help to build our dreams and establish a solid bizness 1 Like |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Rehil(f): 8:16am On Aug 30, 2014 |
zubby29: u r very wise.nt b cos of money, I pray to marry a woman like utanx.may God grant ur heart desire n give u someone better than me |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Rehil(f): 8:22am On Aug 30, 2014 |
kakakent:the so call feminist r just tryin to displace the natural order that God had arranged things.the day a woman considers herself as equal to her husband that day she is pronoucing judgement on herself.may God help us. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by donodion(m): 8:22am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Ezibless:smiles...my dear,at least u seen couples practising "family money" successfully. |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Rehil(f): 8:23am On Aug 30, 2014 |
YoungDaNaval: Wow! BIKO WILL YOU MARRY ME??hahahahahaha yes i will |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by oz4christ: 8:28am On Aug 30, 2014 |
It is indeed ok for a woman to earn more but guys, let's be honest. Look around u and tell me the kind of women u see. Only a few will earn more and still respect their husbands. These things are easier said than done. Even born again Christians don't. It starts little by little. Unless the man choose to play a fool. 5 Likes |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Ezibless: 8:29am On Aug 30, 2014 |
donodion:Yes i've seen. My parents do and i'm gonna follow their foot step. 1 Like |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Enasco1(m): 8:33am On Aug 30, 2014 |
If women should earn far higher than their husbands it only takes the Grace of God 4 them to be totally submissive. 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by donodion(m): 8:36am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Ezibless: That's a good one.Pls tell mama someone called Odion salutes her.Married Women who think not only about "my money my call' are receeding in numbers this days. 1 Like |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Nobody: 8:36am On Aug 30, 2014 |
I would love that. We would spend it together. She has to give me access to her account. I mean her ATM card and she has to let me know how she spends it. I would be the Minster of Finance of the Home. If I don't approve of anything she is not going to buy. We have a lot of projects to do. We need more money! 1 Like |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Bidex6444(m): 8:37am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Well, they are married and the woman should always respect her hubby even when she earn more than her hubby. But some woman won't agree to that if there's love which I know that there's no love any where all na wash the woman can help with some stuffs infact let her hubby take charge to their account and then plan how to make the family a lovely one. Instead of been rude or pride, women should bow to their hubby 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Mendo007(m): 8:41am On Aug 30, 2014 |
kreezzy: I like this dudehe's married. |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by RaphaellaDD(f): 8:46am On Aug 30, 2014 |
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Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Ezibless: 8:51am On Aug 30, 2014 |
donodion:#Big grin. I will I'd show her the post seff lol. You're a twin huh? |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Revolva(m): 8:51am On Aug 30, 2014 |
omo if a wife earns more ....the you ol boy find way to pass her oo cos if you make her vex..your own finish.....you will not have anything to hang on..oooo...i swear..... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by alotofgrace(m): 8:54am On Aug 30, 2014 |
montestic: my inlaw became jealous wen my eldest sister, her wife, started her own trading busines & was doing wel. busines waz moving. she was contributing like 50% of d upkeep of d house. his husband would destroy her articles for sell and disgrace her in public once there was a little argument. he beat her atimes. nw her busines has fallen they are nw feeding frm hand to mouth. pity them. they cant even get a decent apartment. frm flat to 2 rooms, frm there to batcher without a good convinience wit 6 children. batcher? i dont know what she did to suffer these, was she becoming arrogant, disrespectful or bossy? |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Nobody: 8:56am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Mendo007:I don't want to marry him. And let him speak for himself |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by AlfaSeltzer(m): 9:02am On Aug 30, 2014 |
lomaxx: My wife earning more than me doesn't automatically translate to her being the breadwinner. I will pick all my family bills to the last naira - my wife may choose to help at her discretion. Her money is her money. If I run into shortage, I may borrow from her- pick the bills. When I'm back on my feet, I'll pay back to the last dime.if you borrow money from your wife, then she is not really your wife. 2 Likes |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by udohzone(m): 9:06am On Aug 30, 2014 |
That #Surulere Situation......... |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by lalasticlala(m): 9:07am On Aug 30, 2014 |
ARES: it depends on who you marry.... when i met my wife, she earned a lot more than me but in all that time she made me feel like i am a millionaire, she never disrespected me, Today, i earn alot more than her and let me put it this way: after God its her.... good |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by Haywhymido(m): 9:07am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Harbosede02: There's notin wrong if a wyf earns more dan ha husband,she jst make sure it doesn't get into ha head in orda nt to make ha hubby feel insecure.which is what most women do, dey let it get into dia head,feel so proud n thinks dat d man doesnt deserve dem after sum months.They forget to remember d slum dat d man once picked dem frm or where dey start frm as d case may be.most women don't knw hw to handle things lyk dis n sum dat do get bad advice frm dia peers.when things become lyk dis it becomes an awful case 4 d man most especially.The number of women dat r richer dan dia husbands n still av successful homes is countable. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by anumide(f): 9:14am On Aug 30, 2014 |
As long as my man doesn't have have low self esteem, misinterpret any misbehaviour as pride, and work to earn a living, let the love continue 1 Like |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by lalasticlala(m): 9:23am On Aug 30, 2014 |
234GT: The reality is that only a few ladies who earn far more than their husbands will remain submissive over time. |
Re: What Happens When The Wife Earns More? . by ayando(m): 9:30am On Aug 30, 2014 |
montestic: my inlaw became jealous wen my eldest sister, her wife, started her own trading busines & was doing wel. busines waz moving. she was contributing like 50% of d upkeep of d house. his husband would destroy her articles for sell and disgrace her in public once there was a little argument. he beat her atimes. nw her busines has fallen they are nw feeding frm hand to mouth. pity them. they cant even get a decent apartment. frm flat to 2 rooms, frm there to batcher without a good convinience wit 6 children.. That is a stupid man you know. |
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