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Why Some Ladies Remain Single For Life by timi0103(m): 2:11am On Aug 31, 2014
1. Many African ladies will end up singles
for life because of media exposure- it is so
disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes
on a mobile phone from morning to night,
only to raise it up to focus on television to
watch another celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell me, what else will dominate
this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake
celebrity life being promoted on television
channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking
and home chores just because they had
been totally brainwashed by movies
showcasing men playing the role of
women in a family, and due to excessive
exposure to modern media that promotes
gender-equality in a destructive way
that’s aimed at destroying the unique
African family setting that made our
previous African marriages everlasting and
envious to the westerns. Now, with this
attitude, how do you expect a African man
to desire to marry when he knows he is
only buying more headache and trouble
than helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent
and serious-minded men off- if you have
observed, you will discover that most men
dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t
even like it at all; reason they often times
discourage their true loved ones to do
away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even
though so many men will applaud and
complement you for looking like an
Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay;
but if you are out for marriage, try always
to look simple and natural, it will attract
better men, decent and serious-minded,
except you are still living in your high
school life and not thinking towards
marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every
Dick & Harry! No man would want to
propose marriage to a lady whose phone
is always talking and laughing with
unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl,
but he would judge you as one, and will
likely flee at the slightest chance or
disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life
Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because
your best friend married without
contributing anything to the man that
finally married her, doesn’t mean it will
work for you that way. Think, work
towards equipping yourself so that you
can be a value and also add value to his life
to convince him that you are worth
committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t
by giving him money, or material gifts,
nope….good counsels, being his best
friend, helping him attain his goals in life,
lending him moral, mental and spiritual
support, and by not just being a liability
that only bring requests and problems to
be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you
expect to find a husband when you still
allow your clique of friends to be dictating
which man you meet is worthy of your
love and which is not? When will you wake
up and face the fact that those your best
friends even though they cherish you,
wouldn’t want you to marry before them
or to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating-
As a single lady who has not been taken to
the altar, you need to reserve some things
for your husband to be, especially your
body, respect it and preserve it at all cost.
In the past, men rushed to marry to get
certain things or privileges they had been
constantly denied while being single. Such
privileges include and not limited to:
constant sex and companionship, good
food and tidied home, etc. But today, a
single man gets even the best and of
course more of constant sex, good food
and excellent home-keeping more than his
married counterparts, so tell me how the
hell you want him to desire to marry you
when you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a wife while
being his girlfriend? And the most painful
part of it all is that he knows that you are
prepared to cut down on sex supply,
cooking, home-keeping, etc once he
marries you, so why would he not want
you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your
attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact you look
more whorish than modest; more
distractive than attractive, and more
disgusting than adorable. Your dressing
style determines who gets attracted to you
most times. If you dress high school, only
high school-thinking guys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress
excessively sexy and provocative, only
randy men will come to you for urgent
satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so
don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain
kinds of dressing, they are meant for
certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be
associated with, be careful. Remember, not
all clothes that look sexy are good for a
seriously searching for a soul mate single
lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and
Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your
‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will
win you so many men; both the good, and
the bad, but your inner beauty, your
character and manner are the things that
will determine whether any of those men
would stay or run after accomplishing
their evil missions. In order words, do
away with nagging, being possessive,
challenging with men in negative ways, the
mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman
can do better’, a lie devil has used to
deceive and destroy so many ladies today,
please do away with it.
single ladies take charge

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Re: Why Some Ladies Remain Single For Life by topas100(m): 2:32am On Aug 31, 2014
Nice post

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Re: Why Some Ladies Remain Single For Life by BodyKiss(m): 3:39am On Aug 31, 2014
topas100: Nice post

Not so nice a post. Some points doesn't cut it for me.
Re: Why Some Ladies Remain Single For Life by eunisam: 4:57am On Aug 31, 2014
I disagree with number 1&2 such thing doesn't happen at all. I agree with number 3 partially. I don't know my stand on number 4&5 and the rest was skip
Re: Why Some Ladies Remain Single For Life by chymystique(f): 5:35am On Aug 31, 2014
Very good write-up.. But the probs is that am hungry @ the moment... *yawning*
Re: Why Some Ladies Remain Single For Life by bright007(f): 8:34am On Aug 31, 2014
Good points especially number 6, 4 and 3........













infact number 6 is a fact.

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