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There is something every human being has. It is called ego. Ego can be defined as the consciousness of one’s own identity. It can also be seen as an inflated pride of one’s superiority. Without ego, your husband will not feel like a man.
However, like just any other thing, excessive inflation of ego is not good. It can make a man to live in his own worldview and consequently become very selfish. If you want your husband’s wrath, continue to bruise his ego. If you want his love and you want him to do anything for you, continue to boost his ego. There are things you can do and you finally hurt your husbands ego, it can be speech, actions or other wise.
How do you bruise your husband’s ego?
Some tips below are some of the ways a woman can practically harm her husbands ego,
1. Speak rudely or shamefully of his job. A man is work oriented, so when you attack his work, he feels that you don’t love him and you don’t want him to succeed.
2. Compare him to another man while showing you preference to the other man. When you do this, you have finished him completely and he would find ways to deal with you if he doesn’t have the fear of God or if his mind is not renewed yet.
3. Deny him sex. Don’t even go to this area at all because many women have unwittingly pushed their husband into the waiting hands of adulterous women by ‘punishing’ their husband with sex. What you need to know is that sex means a lot to a man, more than what it means to a woman.
4. Give him the silence treatment. This aggravates men because when their wives suddenly go quiet without explanation, they feel incapacitated as a husband to take care of their wives, so they often react in anger.
5. Argue with him all the time. As a wife, you are not supposed to swallow everything hook, line, sinker, the boat and the fisherman! But at the same time, if you oppose him all the time, he will feel disrespected since respect is a major issue to him.
How do you boost your husband’s ego?
Yes you can make your family a heaven here on earth by boosting, and supporting your husbands ego;
1. Compliment him always. He might act as if he doesn’t need it, but don’t be deceived, you are hishelpmate and when you complement him, he feels more like a man.
2. Dress for him. Dress for him at home. Stop tying wrapper at home in the evenings. Wear something more romantic for him. He is moved by sight and you don’t want his eyes wandering all over the place. Let him see enough of what he likes at home.
3. Give him a listening ear. He doesn’t talk much but when he talks, be sure to let him know you are listening and that you value his wisdom.
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