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Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 8:00am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Would you be with some1 who is jealous or some1 who bottles all the emotions Do not confuse being jealous with obsession or being possessive. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 8:03am On Aug 31, 2014 |
It is a sign of weakness, emptyness. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by uboma(m): 8:16am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Jealousy in a relationship is healthy but when such jealousy is to the extreme it can be counter productive. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by jideomowunmi(f): 8:37am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Too much of everything is bad...it's good to be jealous buh too much of it can be disastrous... |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 10:44am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Explain that. I don't agree....for me some level of jealousy is healthy in a relationship. Vessi: It is a sign of weakness, emptyness. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 10:44am On Aug 31, 2014 |
True jideomowunmi: Too much of everything is bad...it's good to be jealous buh too much of it can be disastrous... |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 10:44am On Aug 31, 2014 |
So on point uboma: Jealousy in a relationship is healthy but when such jealousy is to the extreme it can be counter productive. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by djeezy(m): 10:48am On Aug 31, 2014 |
It's normal to be jealous.....Even God gets jealous. It's an emotion, it makes you human. Learning how to control it and exhibiting little in appropriate cases is not a display of weakness. 3 Likes |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 10:49am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Mzflexydeeva: Explain that. I don't agree....for me some level of jealousy is healthy in a relationship.Like you said, for you. Everybody mustn't be same. To me it's unhealthy, when one gets jealous in a relationship he tends to show it out. It could turn the partner off. The little jealousy you talk of, grow and could someday become a 9-tail kyubi. It could be destructive and cause harm and damage. Small jealousy has grown to become so big and cause mayhem through-out history. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 10:52am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Jealousy in a relationship is cute....bt wen u start breaking bottle on pple's head wen u c dem wif ur bf den datz obsession. 1 Like |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by mzchinny(f): 10:55am On Aug 31, 2014 |
@djeezy, i concur with you. Jealousy is healthy. ....A lil of it tho. It's also a way to know whether someone loves you or not. Can't afford to be with a robot with no emotions. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 10:56am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Vessi:wen jealousy starts to grow,one sud av control ova it and perphaps d more u feel insecure d jealousy level will grow...in orda words,itz has do wif d way ur partner makes u feel. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 10:58am On Aug 31, 2014 |
Harbosede02: wen jealousy starts to grow,one sud av control ova it and perphaps d more u feel insecure d jealousy level will grow...in orda words,itz has do wif d way ur partner makes u feel.Yeah true. And when that partner starts making me jealous, I'll find out why. If it is a test. I will be fully angered. If she wanted me to get jealous and cherish her more, I will, or tell her I'm uninterested in the relationship if love has faded. If she was just cheating, unknownst of my awareness, then it's game over. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 11:47am On Aug 31, 2014 |
...A little jealousy is needed....It should be a moderate amount.... ...We express the level of our love somtimes through jealousy... ...Bottling our emotions sometimes wont bring a positiive result...we should express it but not too much.... ...I love it when a guy s jealous....shows he loves me and doesnt want to share me with any guy... |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by 100Cents: 12:07pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Mzflexydeeva: Explain that. I don't agree....for me some level of jealousy is healthy in a relationship. The Bible even says God is a jealous God. Jealousy is good when under control. If a partner isn't jealous, then there is no bonding in the relationship... It shows the partner doesn't care.. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
I never feel jealous OP, I just believe nobody can beat me at my game. I always find new ways to keep my partner hooked, so instead of wasting time worrying about a fellow male, I spend my time on other things. I hope this my no big deal attitude doesn't get me in trouble, however, does this make me uncarrying? |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:07pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
It sure is cute......yea obsession is something else Harbosede02: Jealousy in a relationship is cute....bt wen u start breaking bottle on pple's head wen u c dem wif ur bf den datz obsession. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:09pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Should I call it over confidence Well u know urself best and d only thing I can say is do it all in moderation. For me getting jealous isn't a sign of fear or weakness. To a large extent it gives ur partner a sense of importance. Three7Ty9: I never feel jealous OP, I just believe nobody can beat me at my game. I always find new ways to keep my partner hooked, so instead of wasting time worrying about a fellow male, I spend my time on other things. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
100Cents:GBAM! 3stars bro. It just goes to show ur level of care |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
temigracie: ...A little jealousy is needed....It should be a moderate amount....I dey feel u girl 1 Like |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
djeezy: It's normal to be jealous.....Even God gets jealous. It's an emotion, it makes you human. Learning how to control it and exhibiting little in appropriate cases is not a display of weakness.true |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:12pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Vessi:true! We can't all be the same |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Mzflexydeeva: Should I call it over confidence Well u know urself best and d only thing I can say is do it all in moderation. For me getting jealous isn't a sign of fear or weakness. To a large extent it gives ur partner a sense of importance. Now, do I have to pretend to be jealous? Nahhh, I prefer not to.... |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 2:53pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Okay Three7Ty9: |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by richardnuga(m): 9:57pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
Hmmm........ Its normal to jealous but u just have to do it carefully ni oo...... If tins might fall apart |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
any girl that wants to be jealous around me would surely die of hypertension and trust me, ladies don't bottle their emotions around me, yeah, am that kind of guy |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:07am On Sep 01, 2014 |
O yea! Explain... uche16: any girl that wants to be jealous around me would surely die of hypertension and trust me, ladies don't bottle their emotions around me, yeah, am that kind of guy |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Rival(m): 8:46am On Sep 01, 2014 |
Mzflexydeeva: Would you be with some1 who is jealous or some1 who bottles all the emotions Show me that you're jealous-- in a mature way! |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by jennylove7575(f): 8:58am On Sep 01, 2014 |
Jealousy is associated with love. The only thing that ain't cool is obsession.. When u love someone you are bound to be jealous particularly in the area relating to the opposite sex. But its good to watch it though, because there is a thin line between jealousy and obsession.. |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 11:16am On Sep 01, 2014 |
Rival:maturity, age, love, jealousy, confidence.......what do they all have in common? |
Re: Jealousy In A Relationship: To Be Admired Or A Sign Of Weakness??? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 11:17am On Sep 01, 2014 |
jennylove7575: Jealousy is associated with love. The only thing that ain't cool is obsession.. When u love someone you are bound to be jealous particularly in the area relating to the opposite sex. But its good to watch it though, because there is a thin line between jealousy and obsession..well said |
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