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Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 10:36am On Aug 31, 2014
Seriously, this has been disturbing me for a while now, what is the world turning to? Can somebody give me an answer? cause its so crazy. Why would some people have sex some where and start posting on the internet for people to see and name it ADULT CONTENT, is it only adult that visit site on the internet? what about children have they ever consider them for once. Children now a days visit all these porn site to watch all sort of nonsense videos especially this holiday period where parent are not there to monitor them. A child that is not even up to10 years visit all these site and we parent sit back and fold our hands, this is the time we all join hands together to fight against this.

Though, I don't know how to go about this cause is beyond my power but I think if we all join hands together we get a positive result.

Your idea on this is important

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 10:36am On Aug 31, 2014
parental control feature undecided undecided

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 10:43am On Aug 31, 2014
You are approaching the problem from the wrong end. P0rn drives the popularity of the internet. It is here to stay. What u should worry about is children upbringing. Instill Character and hope that your efforts will build young men and women whose minds are not corrupted by worldly things

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Rexphobia(m): 10:51am On Aug 31, 2014
I would have loved to answer your question, but it was addressed to parents.

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by seankafor(m): 11:01am On Aug 31, 2014
question for parents..xo e no concern me..but u cant help it it has come to stay..
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 11:12am On Aug 31, 2014
Rexphobia: I would have loved to answer your question, but it was addressed to parents.


But u will be parent one day. If u v any reasonable suggestion is better u post it
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 11:18am On Aug 31, 2014
seankafor: question for parents..xo e no concern me..but u cant help it it has come to stay..

E no concern u cause u also do dat (supporting rubbish)
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 11:21am On Aug 31, 2014
@op, the only thing you can do is monitor your children who aren't adults yet, you can do this by making sure they don't acquire devices with which they can easily access the internet. As for the p,orn industry , it has come to stay and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Meanwhile, I enjoy watching po,rn and it doesn't stop me from doing any other thing I wanna do. I don't get it when some people complain and make it seem like though seeing p'orn movies kills anybody.
grin@op, the only thing you can do is monitor your children who aren't adults yet, you can do this by making sure they don't acquire devices with which they can easily access the internet. As for the p,orn industry , it has come to stay and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Meanwhile, I enjoy watching po,rn and it doesn't stop me from doing any other thing I wanna do. I don't get it when some people complain and make it seem like though seeing p'orn movies kills anybody.
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 11:42am On Aug 31, 2014
donpeey22: @op, the only thing you can do is monitor your children who aren't adults yet, you can do this by making sure they don't acquire devices with which they can easily access the internet. As for the p,orn industry , it has come to stay and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Meanwhile, I enjoy watching po,rn and it doesn't stop me from doing any other thing I wanna do. I don't get it when some people complain and make it seem like though seeing p'orn movies kills anybody.
grin@op, the only thing you can do is monitor your children who aren't adults yet, you can do this by making sure they don't acquire devices with which they can easily access the internet. As for the p,orn industry , it has come to stay and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Meanwhile, I enjoy watching po,rn and it doesn't stop me from doing any other thing I wanna do. I don't get it when some people complain and make it seem like though seeing p'orn movies kills anybody.

You don't know children, you don't know how far they can go especially when you are not around. How will u monitor them even when those devices were not available? Will you lock them up in the house before going to work? See, what is bad is bad and stop supporting it
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 11:48am On Aug 31, 2014
I see no problem with people or entertainment companies posting adult content online..its rated 18. Its left for the parents to control their wards.

Another,thing comes to mind..how long can you control the child..that child will one day be a man,and the child will be curious to know why you stopping him/her from being on the computer..the internet is a big place and that's why viewing contents on the internet or video stores are rated accordingly.
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 11:56am On Aug 31, 2014
ayanah:

You don't know children, you don't know how far they can go especially when you are not around. How will u monitor them even when those devices were not available? Will you lock them up in the house before going to work? See, what is bad is bad and stop supporting it
This just reminds me of when I was a kid on holiday then,my aunts and mom would lock the vcd player in their rooms and head to work...

I was so curious then,I found out they were hiding some mapuka(naked african dancers dancing on stage)..I had some money on me,I went down the store bought me those kinda cds..watched it when they were away.I think I was 12 then..so how long can you protect a kid from seeing these video flicks..?
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 12:57pm On Aug 31, 2014
stevecrun: I see no problem with people or entertainment companies posting adult content online..its rated 18. Its left for the parents to control their wards.

Another,thing comes to mind..how long can you control the child..that child will one day be a man,and the child will be curious to know why you stopping him/her from being on the computer..the internet is a big place and that's why viewing contents on the internet or video stores are rated accordingly.

Fine they rated 18, but children under 18 can still enter the site. I think they shld do it in a way that any body that is not adult yet shld be restricted from entering the site
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2014
ayanah:

Fine they rated 18, but children under 18 can still enter the site. I think they shld do it in a way that any body that is not adult yet shld be restricted from entering the site
I don't think that's possible on adult websites..
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by kevoh(m): 1:38pm On Aug 31, 2014
Blame the lazy wannabe bloggers in Nigeria who make use of adult content to drive traffic to their yeye blogs!
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 1:54pm On Aug 31, 2014
ayanah:

You don't know children, you don't know how far they can go especially when you are not around. How will u monitor them even when those devices were not available? Will you lock them up in the house before going to work? See, what is bad is bad and stop supporting it
There's nothing you can do to stop the p'0rn industry from booming? So it's either you make stern rules against porn. in your house and monitor your children or you keep calm and let those who love por'n have their fun.
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 2:11pm On Aug 31, 2014
donpeey22: There's nothing you can do to stop the p'0rn industry from booming? So it's either you make stern rules against porn. in your house and monitor your children or you keep calm and let those who love por'n have their fun.

Birds of same feather flocks together

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 2:25pm On Aug 31, 2014
ayanah:

Birds of same feather flocks together
sweetie, you are missing a lot a fun if don't watch p'0rn. grin
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 2:32pm On Aug 31, 2014
donpeey22: sweetie, you are missing a lot a fun if don't watch p'0rn. grin

So you are encouraging this ba? No be me go watch am with you, continue watching it till your children inherit it from you.

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by GboyegaD(m): 2:42pm On Aug 31, 2014
OP, your response to people's comments make me feel there is more to your concern than your children. My only advice for you is to try help your children build the right characters and morals and you will be fine.
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 3:40pm On Aug 31, 2014
ayanah:

So you are encouraging this ba? No be me go watch am with you, continue watching it till your children inherit it from you.
Why do you see s,ex as a big issue? You see, in this part of the world we tend to worry over things we can't change. My dear, desire for s'ex is natural just like other physiologically controlled human desires. I remember that as a child even before attaining the age of puberty, I was already having desire for s,ex. I can recall some sexy play we engaged in with children of the opposite sex; even indulging in the real intercourse. And mind you,there were no p'0rnography in the village then. I had to narrate all these so you can understand that the humans naturally have the instinct for sex. You can only control your
children by sincerely educating them on the pros and con's of sex. It might also interest you to know that my early indulgences in sex never stopped me from emerging top in my class throughout my years in school. I like making in stances with myself when it comes to issues of adolescents and young adults because I passed through those stages and can SINCERELY relate with most of the challenges of those stages of life.

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by seankafor(m): 5:59pm On Aug 31, 2014
ayanah:

E no concern u cause u also do dat (supporting rubbish)
u re a clown..pretender do the worst
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 6:54pm On Aug 31, 2014
You can't control it,sorry!

You can control your browser,"ON" the safety browser on your computer,or gadget. By then adult content will be restricted.

P0rn has come to stay,funniest thing is that we have larger percentage of people watching it,than those not watching.
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 6:56pm On Aug 31, 2014
It is the parent's job to monitor their children's activities.

It is the parents' fault if they let their kids use the Internet without any security software and unattended.
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by 5minsmadness: 7:50pm On Aug 31, 2014
1. Restrict access to the internet in your home. Make sure they use it only when you are around, preferably on only ONE laptop.

2. Make a habit of checking through your browsing history every night before you go to sleep. This will be easier for you if your kids are using only one device. It tells you what your kids browsed in your absence and will let you k ow if your kid is going astray early so you can correct him/her.

3. Instill good morals in your children early on. The world is becoming more wicked and things previously seen as abominable are now being defended as 'normal' 'inevitable' etc. These words are lies from the pit of hell but are all part of the master plan to bring about the end of the world. Yes it is coming. And peoplewill be too busy partying to notice when it does.

4. P0rn easily destroys morals and self control. Once addicted the person finds it very difficult to stop aandcobsoles himself by saying it is normal. Same person will find no problems with lesbianism or homosexuality. Same person will slowly become a seeker of pleasure instead of a goal-getter. Realise what you are saving your children from when you prevent them from watching p0rn. It will encourage you to work harder to train them in good morals.

The way the world is going, p0rn will soon be advertised on large billboards on the streets like MTN or beer adverts. It is inevitable. It is the way the world will go. Indecency will be the norm and those that practice chastity and good morals will be seen as uncivilised, boorish, not up-to-date. If your children are well trained they will stand fast in these times and train their own children to do the same.

Being a parent means you are reaponsible for that child's welfare, both financial, physical, spiritual and mental.
Be a good parent.

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by slimyem: 8:06pm On Aug 31, 2014
Op,your proposition can be likened to trying to build a snowman in hell. cheesy

Take all the advice already given. Train up your child in the way he should go and only HOPE that when he is old,he will not depart . cool
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by olowo200: 8:35pm On Aug 31, 2014
You sound as if you are not computer literate how does a ten years old know how to operate a system more than you there are so many ways to know what a person does on a system when you are away once your children knows that you will know what they did when you are not there they will fear and respect you and will never and you must hide the secret from them.
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by Nobody: 8:41pm On Aug 31, 2014
ayanah:
Your idea on this is important
Your name , Ayanah =Angel grin ... Hmm name of a Po:rnstar ?

Joke apart ,
Parental control on the internet is highly essential also, parents have to know that there is just One business they have in this world and that is ''child's upbringing'' !!

Wether we like it or not , many vices have come to stay , we just have to bring it to the notice of our children and enlightened them on the understanding of such !!
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by SAMBARRY: 8:46pm On Aug 31, 2014
There's nothing you can do about Internet porn as long as you are not Google or affiliated with Google guys.this inernet porn industry you are referring to make billions of dollars annually from this and are not ready to stop such profitable business because you or many others like you don't like it. The only thing you can do is to use the parental guide control to restrict where he has access to on the Internet and most importantly keep him busy

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by AtheistD(m): 12:41am On Sep 01, 2014
Is your beef with p0rn or p0rn on the internet?

I find your tirade against p0rn disconcerting. Your lack of computer knowledge is more worrying because you have ignored 2 key things:

1. Even with reduced p0rn on the net people can still acquire p0rn. With social media p0rn can be easily distributed without conventional websites.

2. You never mentioned social media. SM is a bigger and more dangerous issue for kids. Grooming, dangerous stories/influences etc. Do you monitor your kids access to SM and if so are you certain they have no access to SM?
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 8:46am On Sep 01, 2014
AtheistD: Is your beef with p0rn or p0rn on the internet?

I find your tirade against p0rn disconcerting. Your lack of computer knowledge is more worrying because you have ignored 2 key things:

1. Even with reduced p0rn on the net people can still acquire p0rn. With social media p0rn can be easily distributed without conventional websites.

2. You never mentioned social media. SM is a bigger and more dangerous issue for kids. Grooming, dangerous stories/influences etc. Do you monitor your kids access to SM and if so are you certain they have no access to SM?

I think I can control the social media stuff my headache is d internet cause they browser through their phones or should I take the phone?
Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by ayanah(f): 8:52am On Sep 01, 2014
olowo200: You sound as if you are not computer literate how does a ten years old know how to operate a system more than you there are so many ways to know what a person does on a system when you are away once your children knows that you will know what they did when you are not there they will fear and respect you and will never and you must hide the secret from them.

Through phones not computer. I don't allow my kids on my laptop, it has password.

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Re: Parent: How Can We Put An End To Porn Videos On The Internet by 5minsmadness: 12:04pm On Sep 01, 2014
ayanah:

Through phones not computer. I don't allow my kids on my laptop, it has password.
How old are your kids again?
Can't you give them phones that don't have internet access?

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