Jade88:

Pls what manner of thinking is this?? So pastor Chris has no fault here? "a church he spent all his life in building?" who told u he built it alone? they built it together as a couple! "a woman just comes from no were to scatter it" Really? "A woman from nowhere?" see u talking like she's some side chick or gf that jst came along the way. This is a woman with he was married to for more than 20 yrs. its also her handwork.
This is why i hate d Naija mentality of women having to take d sh1t everytime. She should divorce him secretly right? but if d wife was to be d one to make d slightest mistake would a man divorce her secretly? or would d pastor divorce her secretly?

Abeg let us be thinking deeply, reasonably and see things from both sides objectively b4 coming to blame wives for the woes of an allegedly adulterous pastor.

rastamouse: To all Christians here, here is an advice to you: Let those without sin cast the biggest stones.

GOD knows how to deal with HIS own. Refrain from judging because you may not know all the facts.

baby124:
Tell that to all the women in your family. Hungry and sexually frustrated criminal

Philipmems:



That's rather harsh now.... Our mothers were never miserable from my opinion and I respect yours... I see them as strong willed highly visionary crusaders who never allow the distractors take their joy and family away from them... They were never Fools, they knew of the exploits but choose to keep their family which is more important intact. We had mothers who were big time traders, going to the north to trade back and fro ( those were career women too at their time) and they could take care of their kids without the husbands assistance but they were never shaken by things of the world. Categorizing men generally as horses on steroids or viagra is very funny ( lmao) but no forget say you go marry oh (that's if you are a girl). Life is wisdom and only those who understand its dynamics will eat of its fruits. Even Caucasian males also cheat, women these days cheat so you can't really stereotype cheating to males especially African males.

Philipmems: I am not a member of his denomination but having heard from both parties I will live you to be the judge considering what women and men are capable of doing.. Pastor Chris O. accused his wife of having bad friends who are influencing her wrongly, she no longer respects anyone especially in the church. He even said that at one time he called the wife so they can settle there differences but she refused to take anything short of a Divorce from the pastor.
Anita is accusing Chris of adultery and infidelity.
At the end of the day my take is that Satan master confusionist has crept into their home either through the man or the woman but wait oh even if its adultery as speculated what happened to our women of steel (1 peter 3:1-3), for better for worse, our mothers stuck to our fathers through thick and thin, never to be distracted by side chicks... Frankly speaking the easiest way for confusion to enter a home na through woman... After all according to the book of Timothy it says a woman was deceive first before Adams.
Read 1 peter 3:1-6 and 1 Corinthians 7:1- 12 especially 10 and 11 and understand that the woman has more role to play in keeping her home together and if it fails shes mainly to be blamed.

kayciano:
MY MAN NA U WAN TEACH PASTOR CHRIS BIBLE..?
DEM KNOW EVERYTHING NAAA.
JUST WAIT FOR THE NEXT RHAPSODY.....,NA DIA WE GO KNOW WEDA THEIR FACES STILL DEY SMILE AT EACH OTHER.
WOMEN GET POWER OOO...
DATS Y AM AFRAID ,IF WE EMPOWER DEM ALL...
WE ARE FINISHED.
IF WE EMPOWER DEM ALL..dat means every act of poor libido and impotence will be treated as MOLESTATION...then every purported MOLESTATION will be treated as TREASON.
Y du u think MEN avoid FEMALE LAWYERS and FEMALE POLICE/ROAD SAFETY OFFICERS....?

selfemployed: same thing happened to benny hinn. thats what u get when u give more attention to the ministry work without giving attention to ur wife. ur wife is ur number one ministry. hope other pastors can learn from the trend.

dealslip:

I really liked the way you defended our mothers at least you as a man acknowledge that women in general are very hard working and focused. What I can't stomach is the treating of men like invalids who cannot even control themselves. Cheating (whether in business or in marriage) is not justified in any human, whether male or female. If you cannot be faithful please don not marry at all. You can not continue to hurt a woman on the ground that she is strong and can't be distracted by the man's frivolous excuse to unleash his third leg as he wills. Someone is hurting and has been betrayed. A woman is not the rallying point of a marriage but the man. The man is the head of the marriage and not the woman. The head is to be the most responsible person in the marriage. Someone lacking self control cannot be made to lead some one who has self control and focused. it is a paradox. It is like the blind leading the one who can see. A woman cannot be focused when led by someone that cannot even see where he is going. She cannot be blind to his blindness or they will both fall inside a ditch(STDs, broken homes, depression, imbalanced children etc)

rastamouse: To all Christians here, here is an advice to you: Let those without sin cast the biggest stones.

GOD knows how to deal with HIS own. Refrain from judging because you may not know all the facts.

Philipmems:
just wondering why its always called a THIRD LEG like its used for walking....
There shouldnt be any excuse for cheating on your spouse but I still believe that a woman plays a greater role in keeping her home intact. If you read 1 Peter 3:1 you will understand that even if your husband is an unbeliever and flirts with the things of the world its a woman's duty to conduct herself in good manner so as to correct his ( in your own word frivolous excess to unleash the walkers.... .
Well all of these are accusations and counter accusations the truth will be unveiled soonest and Satan will be put to shame as usual.
Let me ask a question if you cut of a head can the body survive.. Biblically A man in a leader in his home not the head because been the head means the home cannot survive without the man. In eph: 5:23 the bible says the husband is the head of the wife not the home... Meaning he is her pride, her love, her support because she was gotten out from his rib and has his legacy installed in her to Carry on when he is no more. 1 Corinthians 11:3-16 the head of Every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. 1 timothy 3:12 let deacons each be the husbands of one wife, managing their children and their own HOUSEHOLDs well na bible talk am oh... Anyway I respect your opinion

rastamouse: To all Christians here, here is an advice to you: Let those without sin cast the biggest stones.

GOD knows how to deal with HIS own. Refrain from judging because you may not know all the facts.

sirjohnson: His members are already demanding answers from him as regards the divorce case. See it [url=36e20a1nhfr]HERE[/url]

I used to have this strange feelings when I was still attending his church that he was sleeping with pastor Deola Okeowo and Sinach; I tried not to think of it but it kept coming, perhaps I was right.#justsaying

atbu1983: The verses will further make mockery of pastor chris. Because pastor chris is known for disobeying these verses you quoted. Because he is one of the pastors who ordained alot of female pastors to head his church. Trying to use dis verses to paint d wife bad won't work. if we are sincere with ourselves we should know that the probability d wife's claim is true is very and extremely high. By thier fruit we shall know them. I am a Catholic. if it is pastor kumuyi of deeper life that was accuse I will have some reservation. but we are talking of pastor chris of christ embassy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! common! God spirit in us can make us discern d truth. if u have God spirit in you. You will know that Pastor Anita is likely saying the truth. Pastor chris is a human being. He is not God as some of u his Fans think. he is human and have weekness .

Sirmuell: This is quite heavy

Philipmems:
just wondering why its always called a THIRD LEG like its used for walking....
There shouldnt be any excuse for cheating on your spouse but I still believe that a woman plays a greater role in keeping her home intact. If you read 1 Peter 3:1 you will understand that even if your husband is an unbeliever and flirts with the things of the world its a woman's duty to conduct herself in good manner so as to correct his ( in your own word frivolous excess to unleash the walkers.... .
Well all of these are accusations and counter accusations the truth will be unveiled soonest and Satan will be put to shame as usual.
Let me ask a question if you cut of a head can the body survive.. Biblically A man in a leader in his home not the head because been the head means the home cannot survive without the man. In eph: 5:23 the bible says the husband is the head of the wife not the home... Meaning he is her pride, her love, her support because she was gotten out from his rib and has his legacy installed in her to Carry on when he is no more. 1 Corinthians 11:3-16 the head of Every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. 1 timothy 3:12 let deacons each be the husbands of one wife, managing their children and their own HOUSEHOLDs well na bible talk am oh... Anyway I respect your opinion

BERNIMOORE:

bible requirements for bishop/deacons/oveerseers in that same 1 timothy 3:

1 Timothy 3 :1-13;
New King James Version (NKJV)
Qualifications of bishop/oveerseers and deacons

3 This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work. 2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; 3 not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous; 4 [b]one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence 5 (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?); 6 not a novice, lest being puffed up with pride he fall into the same condemnation as the devil. 7 Moreover he must have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil

but unfortunately all these bible instructions have been swept under-carpet and even redefined and twisted or seen as old and burdensome for modern christians

when David commited sin with urriah's wife, Nathan summoned courage to confront David, who among the christembassy pastor can boldly confront daddy chris? unless the pastor have another means of livelyhood, they will forever remain silent or else...

who can now challenge Daddy G.O chris oyak. of not eligible to lead based on 1 timothy 3:5? when the church is owned as a personal property of pastor and wife pastor chris oyakhilome and pastor Anita, the same with pastor chris okotie who owns a church and decide the affairs even in the face of grievious sin

dia ris God u ooooooo!

kayciano:
MY MAN NA U WAN TEACH PASTOR CHRIS BIBLE..?
DEM KNOW EVERYTHING NAAA.
JUST WAIT FOR THE NEXT RHAPSODY.....,NA DIA WE GO KNOW WEDA THEIR FACES STILL DEY SMILE AT EACH OTHER.
WOMEN GET POWER OOO...
DATS Y AM AFRAID ,IF WE EMPOWER DEM ALL...
WE ARE FINISHED.
IF WE EMPOWER DEM ALL..dat means every act of poor libido and impotence will be treated as MOLESTATION...then every purported MOLESTATION will be treated as TREASON.
Y du u think MEN avoid FEMALE LAWYERS and FEMALE POLICE/ROAD SAFETY OFFICERS....?

gaczee99: . Mtchweesss....baseless accusation, u better keep ur feeling to ur self.can u imagine "i used to have this strange feeling...." If u dont hav better tins to say just keep quiet as the case goes on.

nora544:

What you write is that a wife should sit at home and waiting that the man comes home give him the food and be silent when he sleep outside the home with other woman, and she should be thankfully when he gets Aids or .... from her man who is a cheater!

sirjohnson: His members are already demanding answers from him as regards the divorce case. See it [url=36e20a1nhfr]HERE[/url]

I used to have this strange feelings when I was still attending his church that he was sleeping with pastor Deola Okeowo and Sinach; I tried not to think of it but it kept coming, perhaps I was right.#justsaying

masonkz: I wish them well, sincerely, whether separate or together. Just be happy, and if you're no more happy together, then go your separate ways. The world wouldn't know what is happening in your home, just the two of you know. And despite whatever people might say or insult one person over the other, we would never know what really happened. Neither is it any of our business.

To the Christians and members of Christ Embassy, I'm sure you and everyone else have your various internal issues, therefore the fact that someone is a pastor doesn't mean the person doesn't have issues. People at the top would rather build a façade about their personal lives, for the sake of beinghe' exemplary...but at the end of it all, we're all human. Except you'd like us to believe that you're worshipping your pastor.

I'd also want to believe that for Anita to have gone as far as filing a divorce and stating Adultery as the reason, then she has a proof to back it up. Again, it's no one's business.

Melahou:

So when ever you attend the church you dnt tink of anything else orda
than the thought of Pastor Chris sleeping with Pastor Deola and Sinach...
how abt pastor Ify and Cynthia

Tallesty1: To be a Pastor you must be devoted to your wife as it is stated in(Titus 1:6; 1 Tim 3:2). Because your marriage illustrates Christ’s love for His church. His bride (Eph. 5:22 ff.). You must love and respect your wife exclusively with your mind, will and emotions and not just your body. A pastor's family is his first flock.


This is a man that will say "pheww" and half of the congregation will fall flat on their belly or back. Why can't he pray God to restore the love and peace in his family?

UmecheMoses:
you just talked like the other thief that hung alongside Jesus. The bible says that he who does not wait to hear matter and begins to talk about it is a fool. Please remember this, even if the pastor comes out to admit divorce, you have no right to speak ill about him. Ask Miriam Moses' sister she will tell u netter.