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11 Signs She Is Not Into You by Kessyy2k4(m): 4:42pm On Aug 31, 2014
Girls are not easy to understand. No
wonder it becomes very confusing for a
normal guy to find out, if a girl is
interested or otherwise. However there
are also cases when we become victims
of ignorance where we fail to notice
basic signs that lie in front of our eyes. It
is always better to pick these signs,
before she assumes you to be this
desperate psycho trying every chance to
gain her attention.
Here are 11 signs that she is not that
into you...
1. She often doesn't bother to return your calls:
You could assume that probably she’s
been so busy with work that she didn't
get even two minutes to spare or that
she obviously must have lost her phone
or you could just come face-to-face with
reality that, she’s just not that into you.
2. She flirts with boys all the time:
When a girl likes you more than a friend,
there can be no excuse why would she
do this. So instead of making yourself
believe that she’s just trying to make
you jealous, why don’t you just come
close to the truth? And the obvious truth
here is, the girl is not that into you.
3. She shuns you away like a fly:
Females always respect the one whom
they are interested in. It is in their DNA.
There can be no other explanation for
belittling you, often forgetting promises
made to you and choosing everything
possible over you. So if a girl acts like
she really doesn't give a damn, probably
she really doesn't give a damn.
4. She runs away from commitment
with you:
When you try to talk about your future
together, she changes the topic. It is
time to face the fact. She does this
because she doesn’t want to have a
future with you and she may be flirting
around with you.
5. She doesn’t return your
advances:
Think about how she reacts when you
ask her for a date. Does she just change
the topic or come up with silly excuses?
If at all she agrees to come out with you,
does she always try to bring someone
along? Here the huge possibility is that
she doesn’t want to be anything more
than friends with you. She has already
made it pretty evident. It is just you,
who is delaying to pick the signs.
6. She is very amused by your
jokes:
If a girl finds you funny, half of the job of
getting her attracted to you is done.
However if she just won’t laugh at your
jokes, if she rolls her eyes at your witty
comments and sulks at your funny one-
liners, she isn’t that into you.
7. She ignores you often:
You catch a glimpse of her on the street.
You excitedly wave in her direction. But
she walks away as if she never saw you.
When you finally manage to reach her
and ask her why she didn't say hi to you,
she acts all innocent saying that she
didn't notice you. Well obviously she
didn’t notice you because she was trying
hard not to!
8. She is often quiet around you:
Women love to talk. So once that
mouthpiece goes into silent mode, it is
time to worry. You often notice her not
being herself around you and often not
telling you even basic important things
about her day. You need not look further
my brother, the big obvious truth staring
at you in the face is that she is not that
into you.
9. She often makes plans minus
you:
All girls like their space. But if most of
her big plans don’t include you, this is a
sign of trouble in paradise. It is so
obvious that she is just trying to get
away from you and doesn't know how to
tell it to you.
10. Nice Comments:
You write nice Facebook posts or rather
made a nice comment on a blog, she
sees it and either likes your comment or
reply you nicely, that’s it! That doesn't
mean she likes you and it’s not a sign
that she is into you.
11. She sends out signs that she is
uncomfortable:
If you take a step towards her, she jolts
backwards. This is a clear indication that
she feels uncomfortable around you. Do
you seriously need any more signs?
Sometimes the signs are not that hard to
pick. It is just that you are so blinded in
love that you just won’t notice. All you
got to do is open your eyes to notice the
very much visible truth-she’s not that
into you!

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Re: 11 Signs She Is Not Into You by youngprof2n(m): 7:43pm On Aug 31, 2014
That's great...
Re: 11 Signs She Is Not Into You by Kessyy2k4(m): 9:39pm On Aug 31, 2014
youngprof2n: That's great...
really, u wlcm my brother frm another mother!cheesy
Re: 11 Signs She Is Not Into You by Nobody: 9:41pm On Aug 31, 2014
I know...!!!
Re: 11 Signs She Is Not Into You by Nobody: 11:27pm On Aug 31, 2014
thanks,are u a girl
Re: 11 Signs She Is Not Into You by Nobody: 10:49am On Sep 01, 2014
For number 11, a lady who admires you but not yet in love or is still trying to interpret her feelings for you will definitely be uncomfortable around you.

She looks up to seeing you but when she does, she is lost for words and she makes her visit snappy.

She will still fall in love if you don't bore her by so much loving and caring. Give her space, she will start missing you after one or two weeks and call you..

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