Niggaz ar sufferin all in d name of biitches..tnk God i dnt hv a girl friend..

jennylove7575: how are we sure op is telling the full honest story? Its not good to jump into conclusion on one person story..lets be honest and diplomatic. For example I hit my bf and he started acting up and stop giving me attention because he is pained. then I enter Nairaland post a vague topic expressing his behaviour. To avoid blame i pin everything on him. Then people start commenting and judging him myopically. Not good its very unfair. Remember..if u are educated and u did psychology in school, u will remember Skinner's ABC theory on behavior...A..anticident B behaviour C consequence... In a nutshell, there is no behaviour without a trigger. Before u conclude or pass judgement make sure u properly assess the trigger. Most times, all is not always how they seems.

A few lines I agree with you, others I don't even want to remember again!

Like I did say earlier on, the OP should be patient with his girlfriend. But then again, his 'HEART and MIND' must be prepared for the worst possible scenario...

That's my take!!!

andromida:

Why? to keep fake peace.

Let this girl grow up and if she does not want to, you grow up and move on.

I second this theory absolutely!!!!

OP, all u nid do is visit a bunk, a wrap of weed would do,beg someone to help u mole it and smoke....then d weed would help u think.

Its evident she's taking ur love for granted cos she sees you are weak, I mean ur love expression 2 her is way too much, there's no suspense, she can predict u way 2 much....I will advise u 2 leave dat gal cos its so glaring she's feeling some dude more than u.Sorry bro, it happens but I bliv there's a gal somewhere that deserves ur love and would appreciate it.You gotta move on bro!

jennylove7575: we only heard one side of the story...you have not heard her own side of the story..remember.. So let's not conclude

ok.
she wil b here 2 tel hr side of d story 29te

[size=14pt]She is busy fucckking someone else and you are here crying blood.....Guy open your eyes [/size]

Exactly wat hapens wn a babe smells dt u love her wellu wellu...,Its quite unfortunate tho cos babes like to be in troble before dy realise d value in wat they got..,U need to man-up and damn d consequences.,ignore the "hi" nd free her for some days nd see her response..,She will try to communicate wit u if she wants it to work out nd if not.,Pls move on abeg.,u'll meet other girls who appreciate u even if na small sf witout d drama!..my 2kobo!

jennylove7575: how are we sure op is telling the full honest story? Its not good to jump into conclusion on one person story..lets be honest and diplomatic. For example I hit my bf and he started acting up and stop giving me attention because he is pained. then I enter Nairaland post a vague topic expressing his behaviour. To avoid blame i pin everything on him. Then people start commenting and judging him myopically. Not good its very unfair. Remember..if u are educated and u did psychology in school, u will remember Skinner's ABC theory on behavior...A..anticident B behaviour C consequence... In a nutshell, there is no behaviour without a trigger. Before u conclude or pass judgement make sure u properly assess the trigger. Most times, all is not always how they seems.

jenny of late u have been dishing out good advices and solutions than ur normal combing of eden

chidekings:


jenny of late u have been dishing out good advices and solutions than ur normal combing of eden

ha ha ha ha ha.....I don die..ha ha ha...good topics deserves honest comment..insane topics deserves insane comment..ha ha ha ha..if I catch u chidekings..amo strangle u.. Ha ha ha

benghaziii: well...my gf is the exact type..we fite everyday... i ve not enjoyed 24hours quarrel-free...although am too jealous..she is pretty...she has bad friends too..whores who keep advising her that she shouldn't keep her eggs in one basket...that she deserves a beta guy
we ve broken up times without number....only fr us to come bk together. .am thinking of what to do
we are nt enjoying the relationship but rather enduring it..
is gonna be 4 yrs in November...
i hope it survives

4 years? Guy, u no dey endure again oo, u av adapted to her behavior for u to stay 4 years wit her... u cant quit again... jus carry ur cross and follow Jesus.

I tink she is bn childish to always break up wit u at any slight argument, I av dsame issue few months bak bt I called my girl and talk som senses into her, letting her realize the essence of dating, which is nt to break up at any slight misunderstanding and thank God, we doing fine now .so if u can do dsame , i think tins will walk better and always try to avoid tins she does nt like.pls stop showing her too much of how u feel abt her, she will only tak u for granted, dats naija girls for u.

Guy I knw say dis 1 go hard u do o, just knock her mentality for like 1week den see how she go react. Nor ping her nor call just act like say she nor dey exist 4 where u dey

A gal constantly threatning U wit break up? Are U a worn out cloth? she can easily dispose U without a blink. Shes probably using ur time off to screw another dude. Dnt b infantuated. Gather wts left of ur Respect n mooooove.
1 love bro!

jennylove7575: ha ha ha ha ha.....I don die..ha ha ha...good topics deserves honest comment..insane topics deserves insane comment..ha ha ha ha..if I catch u chidekings..amo strangle u.. Ha ha ha

if u contiue with this thread,that means i will start following u from now

Sowy to b very harsh. That relationship does nt av anytin 2 offer. She will continue being like dt and if u try to change ur style of always begging her,she will claim u'v changed and most likely seeing somebody else.She will neva b reasonable to change her attitude too. She wunt b able to digest d fact dt u got over her.She wldnt wnt to b subdued in d rel.aving enjoyed being d boss.Its hard bro.Bt kip trying.I may b wrong

Ivanspring: Op, take a one-week (7days) break. Don't call. Don't text. Just IGNORE her completely. I promise you that she will bombared your phone with calls and messages...if and only if she truly loves you.
When that happens, you need to sit her down and talk about her moodswings. Tell her to work on it or you call it quits. You cannot afford to marry a person, whether man or woman with anger issues. You will suffer oh! A word is enough for the wise.

bt d prblm is, if she's a bad apple for me, den she's nt good for anybody. i dnt thnk leavin her wil change her for d next man

jennylove7575: hear yourself?..it is clear that u don't understand women..female mood swings are inevitable because of the monthly changes in hormones..I do not think she is cheating.

are u sayin dis because u are a woman. and do u also do dat to your BF

benghaziii: well...my gf is the exact type..we fite everyday... i ve not enjoyed 24hours quarrel-free...although am too jealous..she is pretty...she has bad friends too..whores who keep advising her that she shouldn't keep her eggs in one basket...that she deserves a beta guy
we ve broken up times without number....only fr us to come bk together. .am thinking of what to do
we are nt enjoying the relationship but rather enduring it..
is gonna be 4 yrs in November...
i hope it survives

we are on d same ship. bt ours is 5yrs plus nw

gabazin080: i av dis gal dat i luv so much. bt she gets angry @ d smallest provocations. i even do beg her even wen she's @ fault. she do breakup wit me for evry fight, although we do make-up back dat nite or @ most d next nite, so its nt always a serious fight. bt jst dis mornin again, she told me as usual "jst leave me alone for now" . so i havnt cald or ping her today nd she also hasnt cald or pingd.
pls guys advice me on wat to do, am confused because am not d type dat double dates nd i find it realy difficult to move on. pls i nid advise on wat to do

@bolded

Do the same as well...

jennylove7575: In a nutshell, there is no behaviour without a trigger.

dats d point. nd i think that behaviour dat triggers her anger is she's seeing another man

andromida:

Why? to keep fake peace.

Let this girl grow up and if she does not want to, you grow up and move on.

u think its dats easy

jsunex: I tink she is bn childish to always break up wit u at any slight argument, I av dsame issue few months bak bt I called my girl and talk som senses into her, letting her realize the essence of dating, which is nt to break up at any slight misunderstanding and thank God, we doing fine now .so if u can do dsame , i think tins will walk better and always try to avoid tins she does nt like.pls stop showing her too much of how u feel abt her, she will only tak u for granted, dats naija girls for u.

bt av tried talkin to her always bt her behavior is not improvin

balaclava: A gal constantly threatning U wit break up? Are U a worn out cloth? she can easily dispose U without a blink. Shes probably using ur time off to screw another dude. Dnt b infantuated. Gather wts left of ur Respect n mooooove.
1 love bro!

nd who is goin to marry d bad apple if i dnt try to change hr

gabazin080: are u sayin dis because u are a woman. and do u also do dat to your BF

I don't have a boyfriend.. Am still a virgin...waiting for the right man to broke me...

jennylove7575: I don't have a boyfriend.. Am still a virgin...waiting for the right man to broke me...

daris God ooooo..if you be virgin ...my grandma na virgin too............

starlingbawa:

@jennylove7575

You re totally wrong! 8 times out of 10, when a girl says 'leave me alone for now' or picks a fight every other minute, then the signs are clearly evident that she's seeing another dude.

@OP: what will be will always be. There's no point in becoming hspterical. Try to exhibit some more patience and talk things out. Worse still, start weighing other options and have it at the back of your mind that she could already be lost to you.....

Shikena!!!!!!

all dis stufs u guys r talking abt.when a lady press on ya mumu button .u will always be disturbed when u sense she is fucking up.woman mata tire me walahi.if I loose her, I will hardly believe in love again.as am typing now she switched her Fone off on me after calling her line 5x and her Fone rang..hmmmm

Your complaint is watery, bereft of hard facts and real incidents. Notwithstanding how little info you've provided, one could still say something. OP, that girl simply delights in having a young chap who has accepted a prey position. There are folks, male and female alike, sadist you may call them, whose joy flows from making victims out of other people. She has simply found one in you! You want my counsel? Quit now, or stay on with her and remain emotionally tormented!

Afghanistan:
Na beta prìck go solve her problem.

Gbam !

Some girls are even allergic to beta prick. Their shakara fit reduce but go still remain.

gabazin080: bt av tried talkin to her always bt her behavior is not improvin

Ask any of her best friend to talk to her

gabazin080: u think its dats easy

You mean its not easy to stop begging even if she is in the wrong. Well you are not helping her.