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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by andyanders: 3:27pm On Sep 08, 2014
ProphetUdeme: An again here comes some self acclaimed pastors who go about brainwashing their followers. Chai i feel sorry for some blind christians who obey their pastors more than the bible..
I see some heretics who preach that a child of God can go ahead and have a love relationship and he or she can go ahead and have boyrfriends and girlfriends.. That thier love partners must be a christian and they should abstain from sex but can go ahead and be emotional and even a kiss is not harmful.. Its is a christian dating that is acceptable to God...
My brethren let me tell u.. Satan the devil moves around seeking whom to devour...
If ure a child of God repent from such evil relationship.. Cast away all those emotional demons out of ur mind. Ur body is a holy temple wer the Holy Ghost of God dwells.
There is nothing like christian dating.. Repent from boyfriend and girlfriend things and break off such relationship or else it will lead u to hell.
U might say '' well she is my girlfriend but i promise i wont lust after her not defile her but there is no how u see her u will become weak and before u know it. U will fall into temptation.. There is nothing like christian boyfriend or godly girlfriend.. Break off such things and be set free for in such relationship is wer lust dwells.
If ure grown up and u see a girl u will love to marry then pray to God abt it if its The Father's will then propose to her as a fiancee dont visit her room yet unless u fall prey but be distance wit her and wen its time God says marry her then u will marry her...
Hebrews 13 vs 4 - MARRIAGE IS HONOURABLE IN ALL AND THE BED UNDEFILED BUT WHOREMONGERS AND ADULTERERS GOD SHALL JUDGE.
he that hath an ear let him hear what the Spirit is saying to the people

You spoke the truth and I feel the so called pastor encouraging such is a demonic pastor from the pit of hell.
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by iJAY1: 3:28pm On Sep 08, 2014
CharlieMaria: Na relationship period we dey for nairaland? grin grin
I no understand too o!

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Babyboy1986(m): 3:28pm On Sep 08, 2014
Ur head correct so
Romancegirl: .
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by heatmeup(f): 3:29pm On Sep 08, 2014
different strokes for different folks do you know how long knew racheal and leah?pls come and exp[lain that one too

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by zubby29(m): 3:30pm On Sep 08, 2014
i hope u r not 1 of d xtains
Romancegirl: Christians especially Nigerian and African own are the worst set of hypocrites.
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by heatmeup(f): 3:31pm On Sep 08, 2014
ProphetUdeme: good one brother have u read samuel tega's revelations from the Lord. Jesus warns in that revelation that christians shd abstain frm boyfriend n girlfriend things, that we are called to be saints, that all those who kip on havin galfrnds will be accused by the devil an thus be cast into hell fire.
different strokes for different folks do you know how long knew racheal and leah?pls come and exp[lain that one too
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Abelsconcept(m): 3:32pm On Sep 08, 2014
I have three questions for the op. please I need answers to these questions:
1. Why did God created a man and woman, and ordered them to multiple.
2. Why did God allow your stuff (penis) to grow alone with you when it is so obivious that you'll only need it when you get married.
3. What is your original intention for creating this tread. Let me guess; you just got out or about going into such relationship hence you want to know the opinion of others, or perhaps you want to segregate and condemn other Christians or maybe as usual prophet udeme wants to warn us right?

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:33pm On Sep 08, 2014
Babyboy1986: Ur head correct so [i][/i[b][/b]

Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Chukwutobi: 3:33pm On Sep 08, 2014
To b carnally minded is death.... Any one involved in boyfriend or girlfriend relationship is unlocking lust in his/her life and the end will be dangerous!
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:34pm On Sep 08, 2014
zubby29: i hope u r not 1 of d xtains

I am.
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Abelsconcept(m): 3:35pm On Sep 08, 2014
andyanders:

You spoke the truth and I feel the so called pastor encouraging such is a demonic pastor from the pit of hell.

What are you saying....

Smh....

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by harthonder(m): 3:35pm On Sep 08, 2014
OP I like your write up because that's normal way Muslims also handle relationship.

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:36pm On Sep 08, 2014
Babyboy1986: Guy u well so

Very well. Or will you test my bp?
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by schumastic(m): 3:38pm On Sep 08, 2014
Romancegirl: Christians especially Nigerian and African own are the worst set of hypocrites.

including you as well...schuma said so tongue
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:40pm On Sep 08, 2014
True word, BUT OP be careful yourself...hmmm...1 Cor.10:12, "Let him that thinks he stands take heed lest he fall". I don't hastily condemn "folks struggling with sex" because i know what it is like. I HAVE HAD MY SHARE. OP, i don't know if you are still living with your parent, then some things are in control. But some folks here live all by themselves hence vulnerable to all kinds of challenges/ temptations. Should they sin? NO! But they are trying. They are still in God's radar. Unless, you've been there, you will even condemn my post. I live alone and since then i know the difference. God's Grace is enough for me and every other brother/ sister out whom because of one weakness or the other have strayed.
MY ADVICE: Don't quit hearing the Word. Don't stop humbling yourself (Don't pretend). By doing these, you are not far from Reach of God.

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by onoshenry(m): 3:40pm On Sep 08, 2014
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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by judoskybj(m): 3:40pm On Sep 08, 2014
Silly post..
1,Without some form of relationship,how do we know if she/he will be okay for marriage?
2,How do we work on our selves..mentally,emotionally and physically?
3,You think God will just throw someone at you as your spouse?
4,Born again christians can have a relationship provided their aims are in the same direction

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by schumastic(m): 3:41pm On Sep 08, 2014
lepasharon: Op are you a virgin?

this 1 ur asking if he is a virgin, do you want to disvirgin him? caus i don't understand this your ? ......ele gidi gor(this 1 is too strong) grin
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 08, 2014
emmyskies:

What a quote from the pit of hell and the devil. My friend, body no be firewood shay? But e go turn to firewood for the lake of fire for eternity if one don't repent and discipline self.

See, there would be no excuse on the last day. If you truely want to live Christ-like and be saved, it is hundred percent possible. If you want to live a life without fornicating or sinning at all, it is possible because the word of GOD have confirmed it that no temptation can befall you beyond that which you can't overcome -1st Cor 10:13

So write off that quote from your heart and strive to make heaven
So fornicatn & adultery is al dt takes 1 2 hell fire abi? Is dt d only challenge being faced by pple? Soundin as if al i need 2 make heaven is abstainess

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by duncan511: 3:41pm On Sep 08, 2014
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING SOON PLS REPENT FROM ALL MANNERS OF SIN

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:42pm On Sep 08, 2014
schumastic:

including you as well...schuma said so tongue

Is it everyone dats a christian
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by surplusspending(m): 3:42pm On Sep 08, 2014
no be you holy pass....

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 08, 2014
datguru: This act should not once be mentioned amongst you as ye becometh christains. the only relationship that should exist between a genuine born again sister and brother is MARRIAGE. Apart from this, any other relationship is sinful
does it mean courtship is wrong? Hw wl i knw her hidden attributes b4 signing d lifelong contract

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by zubby29(m): 3:45pm On Sep 08, 2014
ok
Romancegirl:

I am.
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Emrey: 3:45pm On Sep 08, 2014
Situation in dis country makes it harder to serve d lord!!!!
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by schumastic(m): 3:46pm On Sep 08, 2014
Coldfeet: You made some sense about the whole Christian boyfriend and girlfriend thing and I totally agree with you on that... But where you spoilt the whole thing was on your signature haba!!! How can a true child of God be so callous with words? Must you ridicule another just to exalt yourself? My "friend Udeme" prophetudeme too much small stout is not good for you.

hahahaha you just killed the last verse...with da grin stout joke

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:47pm On Sep 08, 2014
I just want to inform RedBenson that I was here, nothing morecheesy
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by schumastic(m): 3:47pm On Sep 08, 2014
Romancegirl:

Is it everyone dats a christian

well not evri1 n u neither wink grin
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Nobody: 3:48pm On Sep 08, 2014
I agree with you as regards the fact that dating without the intent of marriage is pointless.
However, saying there is no reason for dating is baseless. If you see someone you're interested in marrying, there is nothing wrong in setting aside some weeks or months to know the person.
Be practical/realistic here.

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Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by sammily(m): 3:48pm On Sep 08, 2014
emmyskies:
What a question I believe you know that no fornicator nor an adulterer will ever enter the kingdom of GOD

I thought you people always say he is a God that forgives? From what you said, if someone have sex b4 marriage, he/she is doomed right?
Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by piagetskinner(m): 3:50pm On Sep 08, 2014
Nice one op....but this ur moniker calls 4 attention#i hope ure not one of those "do what I say, but not what I do" preachers

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