Damage control....does not work in naija

Schemer at work.

Gombs: Er

Symptomatic of a sheep! No evidence will cause you to abnegate!

PastorKun: It's really a shame that Oyakhilome allowed his marriage to deteriorate to this level. As far back as four years ago it got leaked to the public that they were having marital issues. This is more than enough time to make amends but I guess Oyakhilome was more interested in building his personal empire and sampling the various women that flock around him than keeping his home intact. A ministry that would permanently keep you separated from your family is definitely not from God. Unfortunately Oyaks is too proud arrogant and conceited to admit his folly and retrace his steps. The only reasonable thing for him to do is to go a beg for his wife's forgiveness, reunite with his family and start living with them and get rid of his numerous female bed warmers. It is extremely unacceptable and totally disrespectful for a man to disregard his wife in the presence of other women.

SHUT UP!

PastorKun:

Pastor Chris arrogance and conceit would probably push him to defend, I only hope for the sake of the church he receives good counsel from his lawyers and he doesn't go that route else the whole thing would get pretty messy.

In this case it will be better if the truth is not hidden. The ball is in his court sha.

Those pointing fingers at Chris should apologize now or ??

Too bad...for those looking up to Pastor Chris... well let them try and settle out their problems on their own terms.

Wetin concern agbero with overload. Iyen oooo kan aye jooooor

Please what's the meaning of adultery and inappropriate relationship?

Donxavier:

Think this through. How can PST Chris ask his wife to come and stay with him and she would refused. This is a man that preaches complete submission and calls the husband a master. Surely, there's no way the wife would demand to stay away from her husband for so long just by herself. It must have been with his consent. PST Chris was definitely comfortable with the arrangement for whatever reasons.

You are Just assuming.

Didn't You reason that Anita might have prefered living in the uk than living in SA or Nigeria.

Relocating to Uk while the ministry Is mainly in Nigeria and SA Is not a good option for pastor Chris.

But I think pastor Chris has more of the blame. He took a lot for granted concerning their marriage.

So?

How does this affecting the ongoing war in Bama?

#TeamNigerianArmy

kingschild123: Please what's the meaning of adultery and inappropriate relationship?

Spending too much time with and giving too much attention to an opposite sex who is not your spouse could be termed 'inappropriate'. Sleeping with him/her is adultery.


Hope u gat that?

Keeping up with the oyakilomens
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“The wife reserves the right to expand on all of these particulars if the divorce petition is defended.”


Means that she has a right to expose him the more and give details of his secret runs if pastor Chris tries to defend himself or say its a lie. Good Lord, what has this world come to. Means this may just be the surface of it...more may be yet to come. jeeezz

Oduduwaboy:
Thank you for this reasonable submission. Infact, i hereby move the motion that you take over the leadership of Christ Embassy forthwith!

Oh Lord!

Even the Bible enjoined us to place our family first before the Church, yet we humans thought God's actually babbling. Let him face the criticisms, hopefully he'd learn from it.

All I can say is that Mr Chris Oyakhilome's PR team are a bunch of fools. In an attempt to do a damage limitation to his new reputation as an adulterous fellow who has no regard for his marriage vows, they have succeeded in confirming to people like me that were just observing proceedings and refraining from judging, that Ogbeni Chris is like an Arab prince who keeps a harem of concubines.

That is all I got to say.Chris ride on nothing do you. You made so much money preaching love but loathe and disrespect the mother of your children ... Sad so sad.

It would have been better if you had toed the path of honor and apologized to your wife.Validating her right to feel neglected, deprived and humiliated by your lifestyle would have done the magic for your image. I can relate to the pain she must have felt seeing her husband enjoying the fame by frolicking around with single ladies in the so called " inappropriate relationships".

I don't know what she did to you at a point in time that made you loose all the respect you had for her, but as a so called representative of a God who forgives sinners... You owed those whom you teach a practical example of what you preach. Failure to forgive her for many years and choosing to send her to oblivion is coming back to haunt you like a mosquito perching on your balls.You can't smash it with force, otherwise you will damage something precious. You just have to bear the pain until it goes away.

Nevertheless, the street sense in me asks " did someone marry someone simply to get permanent residency papers and not for love?" Once that person got what the person wanted, the other person outlived the person's usefulness by default. Maybe it was aggravated because of some nasty things were said that that wounded someone deeply when the other person had the upper hand... So this exile is a case of vengeance.

This strand of thought is a figment of my imagination. It is baseless, outlandish and did not spring from any fact... But it is the only way I struggle to comprehend why for sixteen good years,I have never spent just seven days at a stretch with my wife and the mother of my daughters but prefer the company of a bevy of sexy ladies as my housemates.

Still on the Matter, I heard you run a White House that would make our Governor Yerima up north green with envy, Bros ye!!! I throway salute for you oo!!! In fact Big Brother are learners where you their Father dey run things, Dbanj the koko master himself no get the liver to run an operation of this magnitude. it is only the great Abami Eda Fela that comes close to the scale of your modus operandi.

I rate you above Fela because na cream and well to do girls you dey camp for your White House , while most of Fela's housemates in Kalakuta were "Osanle" dancers who were dependent on him for a livelihood.

Bros two Durosoke for you.... as you continue to ascend to a higher levels of grace.

Tallesty1: Don't judge him yet. The woman complained of living separately, saying that the only time they stay together as a family is when he comes to UK. But did you see where she said that she wanted to join him in Nigeria or S.Africa and he refused? I'm still searching for something like that.



They need our prayers not judgement.

Read between the lines , you'll surely see it there

Ko kan aye

The saga continues

The post makes much sense. I think I am with Anita in this case.


Pastor Chris is probably working 'too hard' for God. I don't think God demands such from anybody.

He is a Just God

I know a couple of Pastors that travel anywhere and everywhere with their wives.Fighting temptation is not an easy task but as a Man of God,there are measures you put in place that will help and keep you away from these mess.I think Pastor Chris has failed in this part.

I need not sound this to the Pastor that ALL women needs attention.

I think if we always think of that day that we would sleep permanent and never to wake,we will always act right.

Anita and Chris should fix this asap.

We are not kids. There is something called euphemism, so she mustn't use "adultery" before we understand.

Shít has hit the fan. Physician, heal thyself.

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They are only trying to save face.

Tallesty1: Don't judge him yet. The woman complained of living separately, saying that the only time they stay together as a family is when he comes to UK. But did you see where she said that she wanted to join him in Nigeria or S.Africa and he refused? I'm still searching for something like that.



They need our prayers not judgement.

Very valid point

PastorKun: It's really a shame that Oyakhilome allowed his marriage to deteriorate to this level. As far back as four years ago it got leaked to the public that they were having marital issues. This is more than enough time to make amends but I guess Oyakhilome was more interested in building his personal empire and sampling the various women that flock around him than keeping his home intact. A ministry that would permanently keep you separated from your family is definitely not from God. Unfortunately Oyaks is too proud arrogant and conceited to admit his folly and retrace his steps. The only reasonable thing for him to do is to go a beg for his wife's forgiveness, reunite with his family and start living with them and get rid of his numerous female bed warmers. It is extremely unacceptable and totally disrespectful for a man to disregard his wife in the presence of other women.

Apart from what you read on newspapers at newstand and tabloids borrowed from friends. Do you assume you know the Oyakhilome family enough to make a sane comment?

No sane person can blame one party in marriage while leaving the other. Besides why do you side women in cases of marriage breakdown. Why didn't she leave UK to join Chris in Nigeria or she thinks he doesn't have emotional needs.

If somebody had come to them with divorce in mind, will they not quote scriptures upon scriptures. It would be bad of them to divorce after those fine devotionals. They will be seen as first class hypocrites.

Why would a married pastor stay away from his wife and children for 16 years and comes home once a year. Have he not been having sex all the while? The same bible he preaches instituted marriage and why would he not support his help mate if he hasnt gotten another for himself. Both of them should be living togehter, worshipping in d same church and attending events together if the need be. His family should be an example for members to follow.

If pastor Chris is a Christian he should reconcile with his wife immediately and unconditionally. Nothing short of this will be accepted.

kingschild123: Please what's the meaning of adultery and inappropriate relationship?

Absolutely no difference! One is 144 and the other is a Gross.
Need I say that even when a man lustfully looks at a woman(talk more of a woman who dresses seductively),the man has committed adultery. Adultery is not all about sex if I am not mistaken.