What do you think Going through your spouse text messages, and picking up his or her calls?
I have had terrible issues in relation to this.

Please what do u think, is it right or wrong? Does it denote lack of trust & insecurity on the part of the partner who does it?

Thanks as i read your responses

Actually I dnt check his Sms,he doesnt checks mine i am so indifferent about it,But i think it is very bad manners to do that.

I don't check my wife's sms but i do pick her calls and she picks mine too !

Never done it, never will.

excitement much

I think it's a bad habit particularly when it's done
without his/her permission or when it becomes a frequent thang.

I agree wiv u.it only creates room for insinuations be it right or wrong.

I don't check my wife's sms and i do not pick her calls.She does not check mine too.

Its a CELL phone . . . .its wrong to go thru some1 elses phone

I always want to go through pple's cell phones because these days they're like diaries and you find the most interesting things but I would never actually do that. It's just wrong. I think it's private and should remain so even in a relationship unless the person explicitly shows you. It's really shady to sneak around on pple's fones.