Pros:

The person is cheating on someone for you, which makes you feel more desirable than being with someone who has nothing to lose by being with you.
Married men are likely older men. Older men are better at sex. Like, a lot better.
Plus, secret sex is automatically elevated in terms of how turned on you are. There’s always an element of “we shouldn’t be doing this.”
There is no pressure in the relationship. You are fun. The relationship is fun. There’s no “where is this going” because it is, by definition, not going anywhere. No other kind of relationship has this “defined from the start” freedom to it.
It’s a concrete “Bleep you” to the kind of Stepford life everyone is pressuring you to have.
You make him feel desirable, which is something you lose after being in a relationship for a long time, so it’s fun to make someone really happy.
They will compliment the shit out of you because you’re a novelty to them. You have all the things that seem awesome to them, only because they’ve forgotten what it’s like to be young and single.
Their male friends will love you, which is both creepy and fun.

Cons:

If people found out, some of them will hate you for it.
The title sucks. “Other woman” versus [implied regular] “woman” means that you are the beta version to someone else’s alpha. Which is true, and unflattering. I don’t want to be second to anyone.
You have to schedule around their “real” life.
It’s somewhat depressing to meet someone who seems really cool and relatable and then they are like “my wife hasn’t given me a Mouth Action in two years” because that’s your future. The wife loves him, I’m sure she’s not an evil monster, but how does that happen? Am I really that much different that I won’t fall into whatever sleep she has? It’s a glimpse into what your future could be like, and it is not good.
Invariably, their loyalty is to their wife/family so you aren’t even on the top tier of things they care about. Which doesn’t feel great.
Sincerely feel bad for the wife. I’m not out to ruin anyone’s life. I didn’t solicit the situation and I don’t feel it’s my karma to deal with since I’m perfectly single, but she ever finds out and cares a lot, I’m going to have a giant “look at my life, look at my choices” moment.
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hermesprogidy: Pros:

of sleeping with a married man?Another woman's husband??

i rest my case then


[size=20pt]May God fire the person that will sleep with my ''married man''..... [/size]

Dere is no pros, its all cons. Nothing good abt doing it!

Godmystrength: of sleeping with a married man?Another woman's husband??

i rest my case then


[size=20pt]May God fire the person that will sleep with my ''married man''..... [/size]

AMEN!!!!!

Godmystrength: of sleeping with a married man?Another woman's husband??

i rest my case then


[size=20pt]May God fire the person that will sleep with my ''married man''..... [/size]

Haaaaaa!!!!!!!

sammily:

Haaaaaa!!!!!!!

why Haaaaaa!!!!!!!?

Godmystrength: of sleeping with a married man?Another woman's husband??

i rest my case then


[size=20pt]May God fire the person that will sleep with my ''married man''..... [/size]

[size=22pt][/size] A BIG AMEN TO THIS PRAYER

MAY THUNDER FIRE MY GIRLFRIEND IF SHE SLEEPS WITH A MARRIED MAN

orbis:

[size=22pt][/size] A BIG AMEN TO THIS PRAYER

MAY THUNDER FIRE MY GIRLFRIEND IF SHE SLEEPS WITH A MARRIED MAN

MAY THE SAME THUNDER FIRE YOU IF YOU KEEP ANY SIDE CHICKS, SLEEP WITH ANOTHER GIRL OR SLEEP WITH ANY MARRIED WOMAN.

dahmie2013: Dere is no pros, its all cons. Nothing good abt doing it!

NO MA ,!THERE are pros too,the prov says;stolen bread is sweet from d beginin!,,,...

Godmystrength: MAY THE SAME THUNDER FIRE YOU IF YOU KEEP ANY SIDE CHICKS, SLEEP WITH ANOTHER GIRL OR SLEEP WITH ANY MARRIED WOMAN.

may thunder fire u if u keep side boyfriend and cheat on ur husband.

He is bored with his wife!
You don't have to be monogamous with him or take him seriously!

jayedu108: may thunder fire u if u keep side boyfriend and cheat
on ur husband.

. The thunder go wait tire o cos i gat no
business with it(thunder). :DLol. wetin even concern you? Na you be my hubby ni?

Godmystrength: of sleeping with a married man?Another woman's husband??

i rest my case then


[size=20pt]May God fire the person that will sleep with my ''married man''..... [/size]

this girl is on fire

jayedu108: may thunder fire u if u keep side boyfriend and cheat on ur husband.

...

SAMBARRY: ...

SAY AMEN TOO

sammily:

Haaaaaa!!!!!!!

hahahahahahaha!!! Kermit the frog will not kill me o!

He is always washing his blokos before he jumps from pooohsie to pooohsie!

This one way thunder just the fly for this thread

wetin concern thunder for all this na? we need to save the thunder for our politifians

Augustbreak: This one way thunder just the fly for this thread

hermesprogidy: wetin concern thunder for all this na? we need to save the thunder for our politifians

There is more than enough to go round them. So don't worry.

Godmystrength: There is more than enough to go round them. So don't worry.

Godmystrength: There is more than enough to go round them. So don't worry.

This thunder youre sharing, abeg make e no reach my side'o

shizzleStar: This thunder youre sharing, abeg make e no reach my side'o

I am not sharing any thunder o. Just redistributing it...
How are you doing? How ya weekend?

Godmystrength: I am not sharing any thunder o. Just redistributing it...
How are you doing? How ya weekend?

Redistributing? ok'o if you say so

My weekend went well and i'm good, thanx for asking. Nice day ahead

There is no pros in breaking someone's home. Why would you even venture into dating a married man? it just isn't right. What goes around always comes back around.

Tell Kanwulia that. Make sure you wear helmet sha, because she fit break your head

djeezy: There is no pros in breaking someone's home. Why would you even venture into dating a married man? it just isn't right. What goes around always comes back around.

hermesprogidy: Tell Kanwulia that. Make sure you wear helmet sha, because she fit break your head

Hahahaha. She can't try it. I will bundle her in one place.

hermesprogidy: Tell Kanwulia that. Make sure you wear helmet sha, because she fit break your head

What makes you think I am interested in getting married to a PSYCHOTIC, DIVORCED or WIDOWED Nigerian man?

Na una level be dat o! Ta!

I don't marry "recycled"/second-hand grooms.

I will NEVER do that! Not that desperate to answer or stay a MRS! I only phock and go! Please, stay with ya WOR WOR, FAT WIFE abegggggi!

Shioooooooor!

No one can break ANY HOME WITHOUT A CRACK!

Thank you!

Kanwulia:

What makes you think I am interested in getting married to a PSYCHOTIC, DIVORCED or WIDOWED Nigerian man?

Na una level be dat o! Ta!

I don't marry "recycled"/second-hand grooms.

I will NEVER do that! Not that desperate to answer or stay a MRS! I only phock and go! Please, stay with ya WOR WOR, FAT WIFE abegggggi!

Shioooooooor!

No one can break ANY HOME WITHOUT A CRACK!

Thank you!

.


Kanwulia you make me laugh so hard whenever l visit the family section, most of your post make sense die, have you ever consider doing comedy as a part time job............

Kanwulia:

What makes you think I am interested in getting married to a PSYCHOTIC, DIVORCED or WIDOWED Nigerian man?

Na una level be dat o! Ta!

I don't marry "recycled"/second-hand grooms.

I will NEVER do that! Not that desperate to answer or stay a MRS! I only phock and go! Please, stay with ya WOR WOR, FAT WIFE abegggggi!

Shioooooooor!

No one can break ANY HOME WITHOUT A CRACK!

Thank you!

you are so right on this

iwakolewa:


you are so right on this

Oh jes o!
People will always stray out of BOREDOM!
How many different ways can you PHOCK a slack poohsie?

Or, how many different ways can you suck a dead DEEEK?

No matter how good an ashawo is in bed, after marriage and children. . . . He or she becomes humbled by the boredom of monogamy!