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Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Jamieb(m): 7:41pm On Sep 14, 2014
Many of you must have observed this or even experienced it. Back in school then, thrz a female frnd will do talk almost everyday even on extra cool but the moment she gained admission she just switched off. Her character changed, and all that.
So many guys also complain that their gals change after gaining admission into schools. I dont know if to term it as one if the few ''madness'' of the female species cos after a while they will come back to beg for forgiveness.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Nobody: 7:57pm On Sep 14, 2014
U have not heard of the "levels don change" quote?

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Arbiola(f): 8:22pm On Sep 14, 2014
You're talking abt admission wen most of them change wen they enter ss1.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Nobody: 8:57pm On Sep 14, 2014
...Just imagine this picture...

She was initially in a pond.....she was there with her mates...

Suddenly, she moved to a big river.....how do you think she s gonna behave??....She has changed levels ofcourse??....

Now, there are lots and lots of big fish in the river....will she remember her mates in the pond??....


Mba!!

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by nanazeez(f): 9:24pm On Sep 14, 2014
Change is the only thing constant. cool

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 9:34pm On Sep 14, 2014
This rubbishh is only peculiar to majority of Nigerian dummy ladies. I swear any lady that supports this act and see nothing wrong in it is dumb and immature . I also noticed that too... Most of my dudes back den in secondary sch still hold conversation till date even if it can neva be the way it used to be then but it shldnt drastically reduce the d extent of ignoring or not holding conversation with dem anymore... Most of those ladies are jst so dumb and myopic... They tend to change and start acting awkwardly because they lack insight, foresight and don't understand the principles of life... They presume it's the best measurement of class so they drastically change... How would you neglect or stop holding a conversation with your old-time frnds, neighbours or classmates because say you enta sch... To all the ladies with this silly mentality, its hightime you changed for beta.. There's no biggie in this admission of a thing... Just that when you are so dumb and immature, it triggers pride and oppression.. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN ORDINARY ADMISSION

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by hatux: 9:53pm On Sep 14, 2014
Her level don change nah, you expect her to be that secondary school girl again.
Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by dmcdad: 9:57pm On Sep 14, 2014
tosyne2much: I swear any lady that supports this act is an immature and short sighted lady ..You guys shouldnt use a river to make a stance jhor... I also noticed that too... Most of my dudes bck den in secondary sch still maintain conversation even if it can neva be the way it used to be then... Most of those ladies are jst so dumb and myopic... They tend to change and start acting awkward because they lack insight, foresight and don't understand how life goes... They presume it's the best measurement of class so they drastically change... How would you neglect or stop holding a conversation with your neighbour or classmate because say you enta sch... To all the ladies with this silly mentality, its hightime you changed for beta.. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN ORDINARY ADMISSION
Bros... Thanks for saving me the stress of typing those. I have one word for it... Immaturity.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 10:15pm On Sep 14, 2014
dmcdad:
Bros... Thanks for saving me the stress of typing those. I have one word for it... Immaturity.
Egbon, when I was still in the admission seeking league.. I remembered those ladies wey dey opportuned to enta sch b4 person.. Chaiiiiii oppression nearly make me hang myself.... Some of them started waving from afar while some of them stopped holding conversation... There's no biggie in this admission of a thing... Just that when you are so dumb and immature, it triggers pride and oppression

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by dmcdad: 10:35pm On Sep 14, 2014
tosyne2much: Egbon, when I was still in the admission seeking league.. I remembered those ladies wey dey opportuned to enta sch b4 person.. Chaiiiiii oppression nearly make me hang urself.... Some of them started waving from afar while some of them stopped holding conversation... There's no biggie in this admission of a thing... Just that when you are so dumb and immature, it becomes a thing of pride and oppression
It's really childish. Simple! And it baffles me much that some so-called mature people would come up here to support this. Mehn, I sometimes wonder what maturity entails when I get to encounter such people one way or another.

People should understand that, there is an absolute tendency that you would always move higher in life. It's normal. The question that should linger in our minds would be; do we keep dropping and picking up new friends at every of those times? For the non - knowledgeable ones it would be a yes, but for the wise and reasonable ones, that would be a no-no.

Now I ain't saying one shouldn't make better company. That would be an awkward advise. But do we throw away the ones we had before making new ones, up till the extent of not having time to talk or spend even an iota of time with them? Now, that would be silly to say the least. Now, if these people add nothing whatsoever to you, I guess we could say it would be a different kettle of fish. But even at that, that shouldn't rid them of having at least 5minutes of your time to chat for old-time sake. Besides, the person you despise today might just turn out to be someone to be reckoned with tomorrow.

Wait a minute, how does it seem to people? You have a friend and because you move a step higher in the ladder then he/she is automatically alienated? For someone that is not a friend, it would be totally understandable. But for a close fellow, then it's immaturity that is borne out of foolishness.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 10:53pm On Sep 14, 2014
dmcdad:
It's really childish. Simple! And it baffles me much that some so-called mature people would come up here to support this. Mehn, I sometimes wonder what maturity entails when I get to encounter such people one way or another.

People should understand that, there is an absolute tendency that you would always move higher in life . It's normal. The question that should linger in our minds would be; do we keep dropping and picking up new friends at every of those times? For the non - knowledgeable ones it would be a yes, but for the wise and reasonable ones, that would be a no-no.

Now I ain't saying one shouldn't make better company. That would be an awkward advise. But do we throw away the ones we had before making new ones, up till the extent of not having time to talk or spend even an iota of time with them? Now, that would be silly to say the least. Now, if these people add nothing whatsoever to you, I guess we could say it would be a different kettle of fish. But even at that, that shouldn't rid them of having at least 5minutes of your time to chat for old-time sake. [/b] Besides, the person you despise today might just turn out to be someone to be reckoned with tomorrow. [/b]

Wait a minute, how does it seem to people? You have a friend and because you move a step higher in the ladder then he/she is automatically alienated? For someone that is not a friend, it would be totally understandable. But for a close fellow, then it's immaturity that is borne out of foolishness.
A standing ovation for you broda on the bolded... May you live long... I love when wise ppl speak* make I quickly follow you sharply*

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by MisterLongman(m): 11:31pm On Sep 14, 2014
edozie04: U have not heard of the "levels don change" quote?
In AY's voice "Naeto C 2010"

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by dmcdad: 11:33pm On Sep 14, 2014
tosyne2much: A standing ovation for you broda on the bolded... May you live long... I love when wise ppl speak* make I quickly follow you sharply*
Thank you sir... I'm humbled by your benevolent words. May you live long too and achieve all your good heart desires.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by MisterLongman(m): 11:34pm On Sep 14, 2014
tosyne2much: I swear any lady that supports this act is an immature and short sighted lady ..You guys shouldnt use a river to make a stance jhor... I also noticed that too... Most of my dudes bck den in secondary sch still maintain conversation even if it can neva be the way it used to be then... Most of those ladies are jst so dumb and myopic... They tend to change and start acting awkward because they lack insight, foresight and don't understand how life goes... They presume it's the best measurement of class so they drastically change... How would you neglect or stop holding a conversation with your neighbour or classmate because say you enta sch... To all the ladies with this silly mentality, its hightime you changed for beta.. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN ORDINARY ADMISSION
Mr. Tosyne easy ooh....

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 11:39pm On Sep 14, 2014
I remembered when I was in my first year in sch, I had abt 5 ladies clustered around me... I took dem tutorials and we did numerous assignment 2geda... *fast forward to when our result was pasted* fortunately for two of them, their GP outweighed mine and they drastically gave me 10yards and stopped coming to my hostel... As if that was not enough, they went as far as covering their booklets for me during test or exams... They stopped holding effective communication with me aftermath of our pasted results ... *Lesson to learn* three of them had extra year

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by psalmsonovic(m): 12:01am On Sep 15, 2014
They believe levels don change...And they don't know first to reach there is not always first to get there.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Nobody: 12:08am On Sep 15, 2014
temigracie: ...Just imagine this picture...

She was initially in a pond.....she was there with her mates...

Suddenly, she moved to a big river.....how do you think she s gonna behave??....She has changed levels ofcourse??....

Now, there are lots and lots of big fish in the river....will she remember her mates in the pond??....


Mba!!
yea big fishes to provide for her needs sexually and most of all economically sm girls and money any ways I love the way u pictured it are u a teacher

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Godskidmidas(m): 12:17am On Sep 15, 2014
seriously, this thing happens,even with guys also...Generally,there's this pride and awe that comes with acquiring a better status. It cuts across every facet of life.Take a cue from these entertainers, the friends some of them had before they became stars are not the same friends they have now.It's just part of the irregularities of life we'd have to live with.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Donfamous(m): 12:50am On Sep 15, 2014
It also happens in guys but not that rampant. Was also a victim

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by missdebs(f): 3:27am On Sep 15, 2014
a yoruba proverb says 20 friends cannot play for 20 years, d truth is change is always difficult but inevitable, if she doesnt reduce her closeness wit u wen she gains admission,she def would wen she gets married. Such is lyf.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Afrok(m): 5:11am On Sep 15, 2014
I agreed with op... But try to gain the admission before or at the same time with such female friends, so that if she forms or change, U go waka pass coz plenty gals dey wey U fit chat wit for school.
We (most) guys only complaints because the so-called girl(s) left us at home (gained admission) and the Tory com change to "Ebuka... lectures, tests, assignments, exams, practicals and stress don dey too much for me, abeg no vex shocked.

Bottomline is that some girls handled such situations well (pure maturity), didn't make it obvious that their course codes has changed to ...101.1 while ur own course codes were still four jamb subjects cheesy

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Nobody: 5:45am On Sep 15, 2014
Like what one of my lecturers Dr Enetie always says "more education humbles a man but makes a woman go crazy" and I believe him male profs drive old cars some even wear bathroom slippers to class but women when they attain a level of education they become pompous

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 6:22am On Sep 15, 2014
temigracie: ...Just imagine this picture...

She was initially in a pond.....she was there with her mates...

Suddenly, she moved to a big river.....how do you think she s gonna behave??....She has changed levels ofcourse??....

Now, there are lots and lots of big fish in the river....will she remember her mates in the pond??....


Mba!!
what kind of parable is this ? How does this fit in with what we are saying... With ur level of maturity, if someone should tell me this comment would come frm you, I would say its impossible.... So if I may comprehend what you are saying, so you are saying we have to forget or distance ourselves frm our old-time frnds and neighbours as a result of class abi ? You are the first person that would make me realize we have to throw our old-class mates and frnds in the bin as a reason of perishable parameters

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 6:35am On Sep 15, 2014
missdebs: a yoruba proverb says 20 friends cannot play for 20 years, d truth is change is always difficult but inevitable, if she doesnt reduce her closeness wit u wen she gains admission,she def would wen she gets married. Such is lyf.
hey miss, you had beta stop dis silly act and overcome this pooo... I swear it would do you more harm than good If you are that type that has stopped greeting or holding conversation with your old-time frnds and neighbour as a reason of change in status

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Nobody: 8:45am On Sep 15, 2014
tosyne2much: what kind of parable is this ? How does this fit in with what we are saying... With ur level of maturity, if someone should tell me this comment would come frm you, I would say its impossible.... So if I may comprehend what you are saying, so you are saying we have to forget or distance ourselves frm our old-time frnds and neighbours as a result of class abi ? You are the first person that would make me realize we have to throw our old-class mates and frnds in the bin as a reason of perishable parameters

hehehehehehehe....

Tosin, please dont misunderstand me and please dont take things personal....where on earth did i say you should throw away your old-class mates..

I was only tryn to explain the situation on ground to the OP and i was tryn to be funy with it....

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by spanzed(m): 9:36am On Sep 15, 2014
There would always like to prove dey are On Top of d world...thou me I no send!!!!if u form for me dats ur f**king problem..

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by ERCROSS(m): 9:46am On Sep 15, 2014
And diz is one of d many reasons why m proud being a male...
Sum ladies cha... s.m.h 4 ya..

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 9:48am On Sep 15, 2014
temigracie:

hehehehehehehe....

Tosin, please dont misunderstand me and please dont take things personal....where on earth did i say you should throw away your old-class mates..

I was only tryn to explain the situation on ground to the OP and i was tryn to be funy with it....
ahn ahn this got me wondering cos u hav neva disappointed me grin
Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by dmcdad: 9:50am On Sep 15, 2014
kariski: Like what one of my lecturers Dr Enetie always says "more education humbles a man but makes a woman go crazy" and I believe him male profs drive old cars some even wear bathroom slippers to class but women when they attain a level of education they become pompous
Exactly! This is exactly the point. This is what people don't seem to get about this issue. Why is it not common with the men? Is it only women that move higher in life? If one were to do a rough stat about this, it would be somewhat safe to say the probability of this happening with a guy is 1 in every 10 guys. But for the girls, 8 in every 10 girls would fall for this.

And imagine, someone gave an analogy of big fish and whatever pond. Ohh crap! Some said it's due to change which is the only constant thing. Dang! Seriously? We use change as an escape route for everything which sometimes seem foolish. Some said it's natural that when you move higher in life, you throw away the people that were with you before going higher. And one begins to imagine that these people have brains to think. They fail to think outta the box. They fail to go beyond their horizon. This is not about change, neither is it about big fish in a small pond, nor is it about moving up the ladder blah blah blah. I'd repeat this; it's pure immaturity that is borne out of utter foolishness.

Now let's get this straight... If we attribute it to change, we would be saying it's normal that when you get to the next stage of life, then you forget about everyone else. But if this were true, why is it only common with girls? This would bring us to the reality of the fact that most (definitely not all) of these kids girls are very immature in nature and allow pride to get the better of them. And I would want to treat it as an admission-exclusive issue. I don't wanna stretch this to other facet of life, but wanna dwell more on the admission whatever because that seems to be the area this happens more often a lot.

If you attribute it to a big fish small blah blah blah... Does that mean because you have gained admission and for that others should be despised? And is life all centred on getting admission to the university first? If that were the case, how come Dangote is up there albeit he was never a renowned scholar? How come Phd holders were longing to become his drivers? If only they understand how things revolve, then they would pay less heed to their immature thoughts that are bourne out of foolishness and pride.

And for those who said it's only normal in regards to class. What is class? Can you say because you are now at the pinnacle of life, then your parents that raised you from the slums are no longer worthy to be called your parents? Of course you would say it's a different kettle of fish with parents since you can't obviously change your blood relations. But it goes more than that. You get to imagine that how come the people that stood by you in your darkness should automatically be nobodies while now in light? Now let's take a lesson from many professional footballers, many of whom I know their stories. These people have close friends as they move from lower divisions to higher divisions and even to the opium of their careers, yet many of them still have people they tag "childhood friends". Now this is a perfect epitome of loyalty. Take Neymar for example, when he signed his contract for FCBarcelona last year, there was an agreement he would be allowed to receive his childhood friends once every 2 months. Imagine the prospect of being with players like Messi, Xavi, Iniesta, Busquets, Piqué et al. what other calibre of people does he need in his profession that he ain't enjoying at Barcelona. Yet, he recognised the need for those he grew up with. Respect!

Now that was a challenge and is still a challenge, that whatever height I attain, I should be humble still. Even the Bible (Proverbs) attested to this; that the higher a man goes, the humbler he should be. The bottom line is; the higher you go, you add certain friends (probably better ones) and you drop some old friends (but not to the extent of having to not give the person a minute or two, at least to ask how the person is faring with life), and even though you have to drop some needless people, you don't drop everyone because your class is changed.

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by dmcdad: 9:52am On Sep 15, 2014
tosyne2much: hey miss, you had beta stop dis silly act and overcome this pooo... I swear it would do you more harm than good If you are that type that has stopped greeting or holding conversation with your old-time frnds and neighbour as a reason of change in status
This is just ridiculous. Highly laughable. Jeez! People ehn...
Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by Moblord(m): 9:54am On Sep 15, 2014
Oh gosh.. Are u still talking about teenage girls again?

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Re: Why Do Girls Change So Drastically When They Gain Admission? (calls For Concern) by tosyne2much(m): 9:55am On Sep 15, 2014
dmcdad:
This is just ridiculous. Highly laughable. Jeez! People ehn...
egbon abi u sef no see am ni?

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