A thread for stingy people

Nice one OP,iv bin tryin to get this nature In check,especially when som1 corners me up,I can't think straight and the next thing you hear me say is“yes or okay“

swear to God i was like this growing up. Thank God i've changed....to a ruthless bastard

CircleOfWilis: A thread for stingy people

Nowhere was it stated that you should be stingy. Give as much as you can but with wisdom.
And by the way, why are people only looking at this from the angle of giving material things?
I guess some people need everything spelt out for them word for word.

shockwave91: swear to God i was like this growing up. Thank God i've changed....to a ruthless bastard

Ruthless? That's going to the extreme. I hope you were just joking

eleojo23: Ruthless? That's going to the extreme. I hope you were just joking

ehnn not really. I'm actually serious. I'm in love wif the ruthlessness and i love the #Extremes. Think i shud calm down a lil bit?

shockwave91:


ehnn not really. I'm actually serious. I'm in love wif the ruthlessness and i love the #Extremes. Think i shud calm down a lil bit?

yes. You can still make your point clear/draw the lines without being ruthless.

nice composition

eleojo23: yes. You can still make your point clear/draw the lines without being ruthless.

awww....but bruf....d extremes feel so good

u shud try it

tegamarro: How thar wan pay my nepa Bill. now

It can pay ur nepa bill by reducing how u spend unwisely to please others. A dumb question tho. Kudos to op.

Nice composition OP,I used to have this nature but until 5 hours ago,when I realised dat being too kind & selfless actually invites undue insults from certain bastards.From now on,am gonno suppress the compassionate & soft part of me. & utilize it on only deserving persons,while I unleash the other dreadful side of me that only the sake of Jesus can tame.Thanks 2 dis thread.

Good read, am in the mess of giving up my happiness for others

jieta: this is how i have always think, feel. Jesus came to this world to die for me so i should help other give, when others don't have. what has it brought me name calling , hatred, bt since i have decided to follow the ways of the world an eye for an eye. Nobody dears me or else you see the other part of me. in nutshare i don't see any thing wrong with what the op post

All is well oo.

We sabi say you be gud person wey fit give wel wel...but all these gbagaun you're sharing will answer oh

enkay4love: Nice composition OP,I used to have this nature but until 5 hours ago,when I realised dat being too kind & selfless actually invites undue insults from certain bastards.From now on,am gonno suppress the compassionate & soft part of me. & utilize it on only deserving persons,while I unleash the other dreadful side of me that only the sake of Jesus can tame.Thanks 2 dis thread.

You must be kidding me

You just spoke to me. Thanks for this post

continentalceo: Health is wealth. You start planing to enjoy good health tomorrow today. Thanks for the Lecture but ill like to add that we need to be sensitive to our body, so we can know when certain changes occur. Because a lot of do not even know they are ill until it take their life

LMAO! Are u sure u got d thrust of d write up? U seem really lost.

I've been called a weakling for being too good. And I hate it.
Only a few people appreciate it.
I only wish I was strict.

People that this topic applies to i.e people that give all the time are typing "op thanks for this."



People that are receiving all the time are typing "rubbish thread", "its better to give" "I used to give but now am ruthless, etc".

5minsmadness: People that this topic applies to i.e people that give all the time are typing "op thanks for this."



People that are receiving all the time are typing "rubbish thread", "its better to give" "I used to give but now am ruthless, etc".

my friend said and I consider it reality that "some times goodness need little help of badness".

These are nuggets...and they made my day!
Thanks!

I think I have seen this topic somewhere before. ..kinda feels like deja vu

THIS IS A NICE WRITE-UP..
I WISH MY PAL WUD READ IT...

NICE ONE

For about 5 years into my current job, I was parting with portions of my salary for friends and family members. Some persons started abusing my generosity by not repaying debts. Even some persons were returning to be assisted again!
Now I don't mind whose ox is gored.

sensible write up.

Wow...

Story of my life.

@ eleojo23
I'll try to work up enough courage to share.

basille: Once upon a time, i was a polite shy dude who could never say no, was always displeasing himself to please others, but along the line people took me for granted, didn't respect my views and opinions and always tried to use me to get what they want.
That's just how life is, when a commodity is in much circulation, it loses it's worth and becomes common. It's good to be nice though, but to an extent.
Fast forward to the present, i got just one word for you "Individualism".

i can relate entirely to this, care to share how you overcame it?

Good post op...

CashNaira96:
i can relate entirely to this, care to share how you overcame it?

I don't really know what to tell you as myself i'm no expert or teacher.
First of all remember you are free to do anything you want, in as much as it's not illegal. Also, you and only you is accountable for your actions and decision. With those in mind:
1)Learn how to say No
2)Treat people how they treat you
3)Don't be afraid to confront people
4)Learn how to argue and get your points and view across to irrational people
5)Learn to be a little bit selfish (don't displease your self to please people)
hope this helps