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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by graciousolo(m): 11:42pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: destante whats a friendzone ??
Hon You seem quite young and I'll just advice you like an elder bro.

Do you think worrying over an intimate/s e x u a l relationship is what you need now? If u ask me I did say no.

All I'll say is think about your priorities and set them aright believe me if you really love yourself and are not influenced by your peers or the Hollywood high school movies or telemundo.lols. You will definitely agree with me that you've got several stuffs on the top list of your 'scale of preference'. Education,Career,Spiritual relationship,money...........Question is;What are your priorities. Finally it's all up to you.

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by AfricanApple(f): 11:43pm On Sep 15, 2014
d guy seems to see u as just a friend, he probably has a girl he loves.
u can as well give him d green light like someone said but not sexually o, if he pretends not to see it, put your ears down for other guys

biko don't follow anybody's mouth here of asking him out. men's mentality is different from ours. u may ask him out cos u love while he may be there thinking 'make I chop punay clean mouth'

besides if it ever happens dat u both quarreled seriously, he will use it as a slap on your face which may affect your ego

goodluck

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by obomobo: 11:44pm On Sep 15, 2014
what shades of green lite did u show him cos we get olive green, mint green, army green and so on

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Damzy997(m): 11:58pm On Sep 15, 2014
Whilson: destante whats a friendzone ??
@whilson,,,,,,nyx start to nairaland, u just registered today nd u already av a post,nyx 1
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Bebetter: 4:37am On Sep 16, 2014
And you dey chop him money abi? ...if him no ask you, you sef ask am now! abi what is the point of this your post...
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Timotos: 8:17am On Sep 16, 2014
Show him d green light baby. Mak a move if he does not talk
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by MenGoingThereWay: 8:53am On Sep 16, 2014
Young lady the problem is with your attitude towards him..Ur still acting and talking to him just like friends..switch it and start acting and talking to him in ways that will make him know that u want more than friendship from him.

-MenGoingThereWay
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Dolcilicious(f): 8:56am On Sep 16, 2014
Whilson: I and this guy has known each other for years now, but he has never openly asked me out, is it because i keep calling him my friend ,is that why he is so quite and friendly. ?

Be super sweet to him,call him(not too much) chat him up,tell him things abt urself and him finz too.If uve done all that,u can proceed.

Stylishly ask him if hez got a gf,if no...super... If yes...it doesnt stop u.Try and know the condition at which his rel is,if worse u can take it up.Once u notice he is getting addicted to talking to u and all,withdraw a lil bit,let him come find u.

Whenever u guys are together,hold gazes,touch him(not too much)try and see d reaction.If d reaction is gud,then u can proceed.If not,try harder.

Now stylishly ask him a q "what advise wud u give to someone who is dying in love for a friend".

His answer would set u going wink

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by docsholz(m): 10:36am On Sep 16, 2014
Dolcilicious:

Be super sweet to him,call him(not too much) chat him up,tell him things abt urself and him finz too.If uve done all that,u can proceed.

Stylishly ask him if hez got a gf,if no...super... If yes...it doesnt stop u.Try and know the condition at which his rel is,if worse u can take it up.Once u notice he is getting addicted to talking to u and all,withdraw a lil bit,let him come find u.

Whenever u guys are together,hold gazes,touch him(not too much)try and see d reaction.If d reaction is gud,then u can proceed.If not,try harder.

Now stylishly ask him a q "what advise wud u give to someone who is dying in love for a friend".

His answer would set u going wink
This is absolutely hilarious grin
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Dolcilicious(f): 10:39am On Sep 16, 2014
docsholz: This is absolutely hilarious grin

U think? wink
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by izaray(f): 12:53pm On Sep 16, 2014
am0s:
leme hep u....
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plan a day when he is very hungry nd u can feel it from where u her.....
jez call him or anyway i guys talk nd ask if hes hungry.....(guys no get two ansa..if he likes u)
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dnt ask him favourite food..bcoz galz lyk diz dumb question..( guys dnt av favourite food.....although dey may not like some food)
prepare a nice foood for him...tell him u av a surprise for him....u supose fit finish where i dey go...

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if d guy no show sign dat day....dat means u shud take him to go see a doctor..
dnt tank me .....,.wot r frends for
Are u sure, u are not talking 4rm experiences? Lol
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by 100Cents: 1:36pm On Sep 16, 2014
Sorry, you look like a kid.

I don't do kids..

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by 100Cents: 1:36pm On Sep 16, 2014
Whilson:

wont it make me look cheap ?

So he is the one who deserves being cheap ?

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by 100Cents: 1:38pm On Sep 16, 2014
ERCROSS: And pls what did u gurls mean when u said "he hasn't asked u out"..

The girl is in her heat and wants a phuck. smh

Pretenders..

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by 100Cents: 1:41pm On Sep 16, 2014
Tallesty1: Rape him

grin Supported ..

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Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by stanprexy(m): 3:11pm On Sep 16, 2014
Is he on Nairaland
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by am0s(m): 7:22pm On Sep 16, 2014
izaray: Are u sure, u are not talking 4rm experiences? Lol



frm xperience
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Charles4075(m): 10:18pm On Sep 16, 2014
He has been F-Z..

Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by seunwen2(m): 2:17am On Sep 17, 2014
Wetin u want make i do?
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by QuiverBox(f): 9:23pm On Sep 17, 2014
Whilson: I and this guy has known each other for years now, but he has never openly asked me out, is it because i keep calling him my friend ,is that why he is so quite and friendly. ?

What does " Asking one out " entails?
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Whilson(f): 12:10pm On Sep 19, 2014
QuiverBox:

What does " Asking one out " entails?

dating ??
Re: He Has Never Asked Me Out, Why ?? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Sep 19, 2014
Whilson:

wont it make me look cheap ?

Since u've known each oda for long, u wont look cheap at all. If he likes u, it just mite grow into sth sweet. A friend of mine toasted me indirectly in 2009, I obliged and we dated for two years b4 distance killed it.

Even if says no, u guys will still be friends. Nothing spoil. I've toasted two of my female friends who turned down my ofa but we still talk till 2moro as if notin like dat neva happened.

D ball is on ur court, madam.

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