vizkiz: yeah, i can give her cash, even though if am a lil broke...i do find lil cash for her.

There was a time she even told me, baby don't you think you are spoiling me??

vizkiz:

baby, if i don't spoil you...those guys will wanna seduce you with cash

edozie04: When she never give me pomo it is #teamNOspending#

Epathra: nna biko bia, why u sef carry two load? onw woman 2 wahala , u come carry 2 come be 4 wahala.

mikron: and even if she give u d kpomo u suppose pay? If payment for MUTUAL services rendered don be d norm in d part of the ladies then the thing don become bussiness na,

Epathra: lemme do the amebo for u coz i've quite a few too. free dates and movies. constant trip to the salon, newest weaves and wigs exquisite backgrounds for dps. designer gifts. plush bday bash amongst other vanities. i wonder where they kept Ecclesiastes in their bibles. bliv me, they go to church.

mikron: @OP u couldnt have summed it up better than me, you re so on point, thats my exact problems with two girls im datting now, they just like taxing me as if i be their papa, so annoying. The one in suleja niger state (i live in garki, abuja) kept telling me i must cough out N45,000 for her to buy electric sewing machine and Another N20k for shopping and more money for her to make her hair for me (i nearly tell her to go barb gorimakpa o) the second one in calabar kept demanding for money for upkeep(wen i neva marry u abi i be ur papa wey send u go sch for calabar)?. The thing tire me. i just hate it wen i come across demanding girls, and unfortunately they are everywhere. They are just leeches. I call them market sellers not lovers.

Epathra:
when u draw the line, then she starts whinning u abt ur sudden insensitivity and lack of care. My mom wld always say what u wont tolerate as a rich man, start rejecting now that u r poor. i am a lady and i know what we say n do.

mikron: no mind me o, experience don teach me not to keep only one girl o. Wey one break ur heart d oda one go dey as back up. Na so d game be o.

SirAweezy: Any lady that cannot afford to pay for her hair, rent and accept few challenging responsibility for herself, guys pls be very careful do not go there, even if you have too much to spare, if you spoil her you are not helping her, it's okay to treat and also assit her, but don't and never let her see it as your responsibility.

One thing guys don't know is; the more she comes to you for money, the more she goes to other guys for money too. I hate it when a lady can't draw a line as to when to ask for help, but take you as the ATM....

Although, guys like me tried to behave foolishly by spending on lady(s) that we know we just want to fool around with, but ladies you know what, after you have finish evaluating me and I've done few things for you, you see that your major problem, I won't solve to till I ex you by forming busy! Wetin concern me, I know as e dey go now. Lol

Lesson for the average income guys: Ladies like "this Topic" won't allow you plan. If you insist on meeting their responsiblities. Pls be wise!

snadguy007:
That's why i need to draw the line now while we are still dating so that by the time we get married, it wont be new to her.

If after spending for her and decided to stop after a while, then she's opened to many options. Because it will be so foolish of me to go extra miles just to satisfy her appetite for money

mikron: @OP u couldnt have summed it up better than me, you re so on point, thats my exact problems with two girls im datting now, they just like taxing me as if i be their papa, so annoying. The one in suleja niger state (i live in garki, abuja) kept telling me i must cough out N45,000 for her to buy electric sewing machine and Another N20k for shopping and more money for her to make her hair for me (i nearly tell her to go barb gorimakpa o) the second one in calabar kept demanding for money for upkeep(wen i neva marry u abi i be ur papa wey send u go sch for calabar)?. The thing tire me. i just hate it wen i come across demanding girls, and unfortunately they are everywhere. They are just leeches. I call them market sellers not lovers.

Tallesty1: It is now prevalent to see women that unnecessarily demand for money from their men.

Guys in ABJ here will understand what I'm talking about. If a girl accepts to date you on Monday, her phone is likely to fall inside water or develope fault before Friday. She will be unreachable for a day or two then she will call you with a strange number to explain what happened and beg you for a new phone. Her house rent will expire the following week and she will expect you to pay for it. Some(students) even expect their bf to pay their school fees.

Y'know some of our girls have this mentality that a bf should take care of his gf's financial needs, which is crazy.

Some will say "If you love her then you will take care of her needs" but I think it’s foolish to be TOO generous with a woman who is perfectly content in exploiting your generosity.

Personally I evaluate a woman by how she handle her finances and her financial expectations of her man because the the RIGHT woman doesn’t WANT you to spend foolishly on her. She would want you to spend responsibly.

So guys, where do you draw the line when she asks for money? How much is too much?

zeelo2014: Back then when I was in sch, when a girl ask me for money, I tell her to meet her father or whoever sent her to sch.

zeb04: where do you meet all these ladies that are only after your money?

Why the so much lie on nairaland?

Why does everyone have a story to tell while in reality they've experienced nothing?

Tallesty1: One of them be like, Leo, I wan Upgrade and I was like. "Ok, take this ₦500 and go to a cafe".

Some of them do not even ask if you are taking care of your own people.

zeb04: where do you meet all these ladies that are only after your money?

zeb04: Why the so much lie on nairaland?

zeb04: Why does everyone have a story to tell while in reality they've experienced nothing?

rozzay: Anyway I bliv d thread is for male guys so let me siddon carry chair dey sip my alomo make I hear broke guys speaking. Hehehhehehe

marieolae: in other words, you don't have the money to give her. Simple

Tallesty1: She is a suspect

rozzay:
Hehehhehhehhehhe*sips my alomo in slow motion*

Tallesty1: Federal Ministry Of Health Warns That Alomo Sipping Is Dangerous To Health and Female Alomo Sippers Are Liable To Demand For Money.

rozzay:
Baby I don't demand for money from broke guys no 1

rozzay: no2 I know d calibre of men I associate with nd to dem dolling out cash is no big deal to dem, in summary fine gals like me don't beg for money we r begged to take money, u get my drift now leave me to sip my alomo in peace

Tallesty1: No!In other words he is financially responsible.

marieolae: excuses!!

brownlord:

Bros na man you be o, so you from Abuja they take care of girl for Calabar and niger, why anoda guy man dey jump on the thing if e no even reach three, I hail you