Tallesty1: Opposites attract

maryhaam: ur encounter with the good one will change ur perception.

mencade5:
my brother, i just gave you one like for this.


We are very unfortunate in this our generation.

Our fore fathers were so lucky in their days. These we have scraps as ladies displaying their staled menstrualized, deepened, widened, sexually over-used pusssssiiiii.

With these flaws they still want a mr right.

Na thunder go dey fire una with una lies.

NairaMode: These rules and yardstick are just getting too much.
Men looking for this women looking for that.
She smokes and drinks and then because of that Mr Right passed her by. Let me burst your bubble, my wife must drink.
If Mr and Mrs are just plain cool and awesome... There is a high chance that such marriage will be boring. "The one that they have fun sef dey boring already".

My point is: There is no yardstick to getting a good woman and a good man. Be yourself... Be decent and moderate in all that you do. Your type will come your way. Yes that also means you have to be smart in this age.

I personally believe that a man will most times forever stick to a woman who is very smart, se*xual and forward looking. A plus will be a great attitude towards life. Those three combination are never a misfit.

Like a researcher said, a man will stick to a woman who walks around naked in the house from morning till night and provide her man three square meals naked. The statement is literary though.

So girls & guys, there are a lot of guys for you to pick from and like I said be what?

1) Smart
2) Very se*xual
3) Forward looking and a plus is
4) A great attitude towards life.

I sometimes provide advice to women and men alike. Check my website in the signature... Lots of great things to learn and reach me if you need me.

omoharry: THIS IS THE PART YOU SEE ALL THE MEN BASHING ON WOMEN. WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO BITTER AND LACK RESPECT FOR WOMEN. WOULD YOU RATHER MARRY A WOMAN THAT DOES NOT LIKE YOU ONLY TO END UP FIGHTING IN THE MARRIAGE WHICH MIGHT END UP IN A BITTER DIVORCE JUST BECAUSE SHE NEVER LOVED YOU. WHEN MEN DON'T HAVE MONEY INSECURITY IS THEIR BEST FRIEND. THEY READ MEANING TO WRONG REASONS WHY THE WOMEN DO NOT WANT THEM. WHAT ABOUT THE ONES THAT HAVE MONEY BUT THE WOMEN CANNOT GO OUT WITH THEM BECAUSE THE CHEMISTRY IS NOT JUST THERE. YOU GUYS SHOULD GROW UP ABEG. ARE YOU GUYS REFERRING TO GIRLS THAT ARE OUT TO HAVE FUN OR GIRLS THAT ARE MODEST AND SERIOUS MINDED.WHY WONT YOU GUYS BATCH US WHEN YOU ALWAYS END UP WITH THE BLING BLING AND IGNORE THE MODEST AND THE DESCENT ONES BECAUSE TO YOU THEY ARE NOT SEXY ENOUGH. THERE IS TIME FOR EVERYTHING, JUST THE WAY THERE IS TIME FOR EVERY ONE BOTH MALE AND FEMALE TO MEET THEIR MATE OR LIFE PARTNER, THE SKYE IS BIG ENOUGH TO CONTAIN EVERY BODY. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING HERE IS FOR BOTH PARTNERS TO BE COMFORTABLE IN EACH OTHER'S SKIN, LOVE ; RESPECT EACH OTHER AND WHAT THEY HAVE.AND ABOVE ALL A GOOD MEMORY OF YOUR LIFE AND WHOM YOU ARE SPENDING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH.
YES GO AFTER THE YOUNG ONES 20-25 NO WAHALA. AFTER ALL THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE RIVER. IF NIGERIA WOMEN ARE SO BAD WHY DONT YOU GUYS SEEK OUT WOMEN FROM OTHER COUNTRIES. PLEASE OOO YOU GUYS SHOULD LET US BE. STOP WOMEN BATCHING THEY ARE STILL THE ONES YOU WILL END UP FALLING IN-LOVE WITH AND SONG WILL CHANGE.

GOODNESS.

OmoEziokwu: Women inadvertently tell you their success (or lack thereof) with men when they talk. If they've played f-u-c-k game and lost (and they usually do), they've had their psyche fractured and generally become "broken women". They've been pumped and dumped at will and are no longer viable in the relationship marketplace. They are known by their sayings:
"Where are all the good men at?" (they spent their 20s wilfully getting f-u-c-k-e-d by the wrong kind of men)
"Why is it so hard to find a man who doesn't cheat?" (i.e: I dated guys out of my league and they pursued their options when I foolishly expected exclusivity)
"Men are dogs/pigs/jerks" (i.e: I've chosen the wrong guys and they mistreated me as anyone could predict they would)
"Why is it that all the men I'm interested in, don't notice me. Only the guys I don't want hit on me." (I don't understand the basic notion of a 'marketplace' and the idea of an equal exchange of value)
"I just wanted to have fun in my 20s" (I tried in vain to land a guy out of my league and got dumped dozens of times; I write off all those failed efforts and crying jags when they never called back, as 'fun' cause if I didn't, I would jump off a building)
"I'm not looking for players" (I've been played OFTEN) what do you call a padlock that is opened by every key? Ashawo lock. what do you call a key that opens every lock? Master key . but am not master key please

Slut Game backfires on women because they put out too easily and confuse physical intimacy with emotional intimacy. They also confuse enlivening wordplay with emotional intimacy. Come to think of it - women are not very good at ascertaining when there is actually emotional intimacy anymore. I have to laugh sometimes when I witness 30-something ex-Slut Gamer women trying to play relationship game. It is truly hilarious. They will try to make the man wait 6 dates for sex as overcompensation for their past sluttiness. Then they're surprised no one wants them. You can make a man wait IF you are in your sexual prime, you are acting totally feminine, and you show potential long-term value as a female partner. It doesn't work otherwise. Playing Love Game correctly means yes, making your partner wait, but also showing these other positive traits -- IN YOUR 20s. (not punishing some stranger for the fact that higher Sexual Market Value guys dumped you in the past for playing Slut game).

Young boys, take note.

OmoEziokwu: Women inadvertently tell you their success (or lack thereof) with men when they talk. If they've played f-u-c-k game and lost (and they usually do), they've had their psyche fractured and generally become "broken women". They've been pumped and dumped at will and are no longer viable in the relationship marketplace. They are known by their sayings:
"Where are all the good men at?" (they spent their 20s wilfully getting f-u-c-k-e-d by the wrong kind of men)
"Why is it so hard to find a man who doesn't cheat?" (i.e: I dated guys out of my league and they pursued their options when I foolishly expected exclusivity)
"Men are dogs/pigs/jerks" (i.e: I've chosen the wrong guys and they mistreated me as anyone could predict they would)
"Why is it that all the men I'm interested in, don't notice me. Only the guys I don't want hit on me." (I don't understand the basic notion of a 'marketplace' and the idea of an equal exchange of value)
"I just wanted to have fun in my 20s" (I tried in vain to land a guy out of my league and got dumped dozens of times; I write off all those failed efforts and crying jags when they never called back, as 'fun' cause if I didn't, I would jump off a building)
"I'm not looking for players" (I've been played OFTEN)
Slut Game backfires on women because they put out too easily and confuse physical intimacy with emotional intimacy. They also confuse enlivening wordplay with emotional intimacy. Come to think of it - women are not very good at ascertaining when there is actually emotional intimacy anymore. I have to laugh sometimes when I witness 30-something ex-Slut Gamer women trying to play relationship game. It is truly hilarious. They will try to make the man wait 6 dates for sex as overcompensation for their past sluttiness. Then they're surprised no one wants them. You can make a man wait IF you are in your sexual prime, you are acting totally feminine, and you show potential long-term value as a female partner. It doesn't work otherwise. Playing Love Game correctly means yes, making your partner wait, but also showing these other positive traits -- IN YOUR 20s. (not punishing some stranger for the fact that higher Sexual Market Value guys dumped you in the past for playing Slut game).

Young boys, take note.

shady26: Must you Shout?

1stola: What I will do if I find Miss. Right.

HOGE: I pray 2 God to answer our desires n give us a life partner ...amen !

HOGE: I pray 2 God to answer our desires n give us a life partner ...amen !

Tallesty1: Lols............ You are right@Op.

I once asked a lady who was lamenting how hard it is to find a responsible guy a simple a question and she could not answer it.

"If you are this type of guy that you are looking for, would you marry a girl that is exactly like you?".

Be good, live as good and responsible as you want your husband to be and he will find you.

How can a woman who has fake hair, nails, eyelashes, breasts, lips, buttocks, fake collor, drinks, smokes, changes guys weekly, clubs till dawn have the nerve to ask for a real man?

Sorry, It doesn't work that way.

100Cents:

I care to know if the lady in your write up has a job she does.

And how much does she earn to deserve having a rich husband ?

shady26: Pardon me but you sound very young and immature. i know cause i had this same line of thought when i was younger, when i was not even thinking of marriage. with age comes a certain way of thinking, a certain dressing sense and a thirst for certain types of woman. then i used to argue with my Bros wife that i was gonna marry a hot, sexy, belly Tattooed , ankle chain wearing , gum chewing lady hmm . not anymore now that am ready for it.....thinking of a homely , well trained , cultured , responsible , respectful and modest woman with a good heart ( notice the shift from outward sharpness to inner beauty?)**thinking more of my future kids now***

Xeedorf: Your boyfriend should not be your source of income, my dear its a relationship not a job opportunity
( abo oro to fun omoluwabi)

tania28: In summary,you are ‎​What you attract.be good n u wil attract good peepz

maryhaam: ur encounter with the good one will change ur perception.

Fourwinds:
kai.!!! u get wisdom. u must be from King Solomon desendant

raphy: mr right full NL u only need to open ya eyes u wl see them.i may be just one of them.nice topix fp tins