Please, how many times exactly in nigeria OR in your opinion should a husband beats up his wife before the wife leaves him Or what level of beating/abuse? Especially when a little child(ren) is involved? Cos some people nowadays (especially the older ones) seem to think abuse is not enough for a woman to run away from her home OR the man would stop, it's just a phase? OR think about your child, do you want her/him to grow up without a family? OR marriage is for better for worse, till DEATH do us part lol....