ShirelleBaby: welcome back to singlehood-[b]it must suck that u attempted something u were not ready for and as a child,u just couldn't make it work rather u felt the best thing is to toss it out!![/b]an ADVICE-stay clear off relationships till u are mentally matured enough

Mega2010: babes,abi make in die for the relationship?but op 3 months is too early na....sorry please,how old are you?@op

prophet1: I Gave her a letter stating all the challenges I go thro to be given to her dad and indicating because of that I cant continue the marriage. I should have checked, looked carefully and scrutinized properly before Marrying. Next time when I see someone suffering and facing problems in life I will not bother to love and pity that person. Let alone to think about marry her. I will choose from the experience I gained.
Newest Bachelor in Town. Serious Issues. Allah Knows Best.

prophet1: I Gave her a letter stating all the challenges I go thro to be given to her dad and indicating because of that I cant continue the marriage. I should have checked, looked carefully and scrutinized properly before Marrying. Next time when I see someone suffering and facing problems in life I will not bother to love and pity that person. Let alone to think about marry her. I will choose from the experience I gained.
Newest Bachelor in Town. Serious Issues. Allah Knows Best.

Mega2010: babes,abi make in die for the relationship?but op 3 months is too early na....sorry please,how old are you?@op

20pounds: Was it a truck or train that crushed the marriage?

peacettw: I truly agree with some posters here. Marriage is no longer what it used to be. People aren't ready to learn. The media aren't helping matters either... For the western world, they paint a fairy tale which never applies in the real world and here at home, what we get in our media are the women been mentally, financially, verbally and sometimes physically abused while the men are regarded as mini gods to do as they please.

I am not trying to cast stones but 3 months which is just barely a school term is just damn too short a time to end a marriage. It says a lot about you the man since from your description, your wife typically fits the textbook case of the type of women depicted in our home movies.. Dependent on the man and a slave to his whims and caprices.

I have no doubt in my mind that you are young... And so I will cut you some slack as young couples initially tend to be naive and foolish as we once were. I trust you will learn in time that unless you both work in setting your marriage aright (and not believing that myth that it is just the woman that makes the home), then you are bound to a journey filled with misery and regret.

If you think you can handle it, then my dear, you haven't seen anything yet.

ichidodo: O.p na moslem..in islam women are hardly regarded as those with rights therefore men can do as they wish...marry very early, marry a dozen or just divorcing the whole lot in one swoop without resolution....you see the fault might not lie with the lady but the Op who might be taking full advantage of the carnal bread and butter on display....simply chop and clean mouth in an islamic way..

azunlimited:
Abboki,,, its 2 early 4 Gum smoking

prophet1: I Gave her a letter stating all the challenges I go thro to be given to her dad and indicating because of that I cant continue the marriage. I should have checked, looked carefully and scrutinized properly before Marrying. Next time when I see someone suffering and facing problems in life I will not bother to love and pity that person. Let alone to think about marry her. I will choose from the experience I gained.
Newest Bachelor in Town. Serious Issues. Allah Knows Best.

prophet1: I will choose from the experience I gained.
Newest Bachelor in Town. Serious Issues. Allah Knows Best.