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| How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 12:48am On Sep 20, 2014 |
A lot of people have faced rejection in one form or the other from family, friends, colleagues or even religious people . How did you handle it it or how would you handle it  |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 12:51am On Sep 20, 2014 |
I see it as a stepping stone |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 12:51am On Sep 20, 2014 |
I smiled, cos i know what she just missed  |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 1:03am On Sep 20, 2014 |
okotv: A lot of people have faced rejection in one form or the other from family, friends, colleagues or even religious people . How did you handle it it or how would you handle itit is so simple , I reject rejection too !!! It takes two to tango and one to dip !! |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Afrok(m): 1:08am On Sep 20, 2014 |
Handling the rejection very well matters coz in one way or the other, U gonna pass it to another person  |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Truckpusher(m): 1:22am On Sep 20, 2014 |
I simply say to myself that these iidiots don't even deserve me with great pleasure in my heart. Though rejection from the people or someone you love can be very painful. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Damsman10(m): 1:40am On Sep 20, 2014 |
emror4u: I smiled, cos i know what she just misseddats d point |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by ifaoni(m): 2:06am On Sep 20, 2014 |
i smiled. Get your cheap dats with bonus. Check my signature. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 6:42am On Sep 20, 2014 |
donroxy: it is so simple , I reject rejection too !!!share how you reject it please |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 6:44am On Sep 20, 2014 |
Afrok: Handling the rejection very well matters coz in one way or the other, U gonna pass it to another persontrue indeed |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by djeezy(m): 6:51am On Sep 20, 2014 |
I see it as one of the challenges we face in life and just move it. It even propels me to improve more on myself and become a better person. If someone rejects me which is obviously very rare, I'll tell myself it's their loss and not mine. For example: you asked out that girl you really liked, and she said "no." Does this mean that you are worthless? Does this mean no one will ever want to date you? No, of course not. She simply isn't interested in the request (for whatever reason; she could be in a relationship, she could be not interested in dating, etc.). |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by lawrenceunaa: 7:26am On Sep 20, 2014 |
i will leave her cos she doesn't knw what she missed until she sees me dating a better lady  |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 7:34am On Sep 20, 2014 |
So phucking annoying moment.. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Tallesty1(m): 8:13am On Sep 20, 2014 |
@ first it feels bad but when you sit down and examine it, you will see the positive side of it. Rejection is part of what makes us who we are. Living is about experiencing....the good....the bad. They hurt but they are necessary. Without rejection, how would one improve? |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by solomonbrown64: 8:25am On Sep 20, 2014 |
....I will just smile,........sum1 once said that"Love can only be learnt through rejection" |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by PrinceCharmiing(m): 8:36am On Sep 20, 2014 |
When am being rejected I'll just smile and move on, why?? Because am a MaN, she's a Lady? Whois going to lose?  |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 8:38am On Sep 20, 2014 |
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| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Ivanspring(f): 8:46am On Sep 20, 2014 |
I usually don't handle it well. It eats me up for a day or two after which i bounce back. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by coolzeal(m): 8:48am On Sep 20, 2014 |
You know the feelings you get when you gulp down a chilled glass of beer after a stressful day. You feel electrified from your gullet to all over your body. That's what I do when I get rejected. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Chukkasy(m): 9:08am On Sep 20, 2014 |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by jmoore(m): 10:49am On Sep 20, 2014 |
Just move on. She is not the only woman in the world. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 2:53pm On Sep 20, 2014 |
thanks for all the comments but we all are making it streamlined... it is not only in relationships but I meant in every area of our everyday lives. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Sep 20, 2014 |
I feel bad at first..... I ll then work on myself....Work on my weaknesses....Work on my flaws.... I ll list out my flaws and reasons why i was rejected.....I start encouraging myself...... |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 1:05pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
temigracie: I feel bad at first.....thank you...does this method always work for you |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
okotv: thank you...does this method always work for you Yes, alot... 1 Like |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 2:42pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
temigracie:all right...will try it when the need arises. |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
So,I was all hopes on that day while I was going for an interview,though I wasn't expecting so much because I know my level but it didn't occour to me that I was going to be rejected openly..So I got to the office and here was the reply I got : "I'm sorry but you are of no Value to our firm,I would suggest you go away" When I got outside,a tear dropped and I brazed up and went home and got this pics 1 Share
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| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 9:58pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
Odilafta: So,I was all hopes on that day while I was going for an interview,though I wasn't expecting so much because I know my level but it didn't occour to me that I was going to be rejected openly..So I got to the office and here was the reply I got : "I'm sorry but you are of no Value to our firm,I would suggest you go away"chai...this one is strong....how did you handle it cause that was too blunt and painful...really sorry for that... |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
okotv: chai...this one is strong....how did you handle it cause that was too blunt and painful...really sorry for that... Wetin I for do na? |
| Re: How Did/do You Handle Rejection ? by okotv(m): 9:10am On Sep 25, 2014 |
Odilafta:nothing...but seriously nah to cry |
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