After reading what this lady posted here, i asked some questions that bother me about ladies, let's discuss...

nwapastor: For some of us, it's not that we are not getting proposals but it's just that they are not coming from the right guys (as per our standard). As for me I'm engaged to be married but I really stayed long on the other side and know how it feels. At a time I closed my face book account 'cos it seemed all I see there are friends and family uploading photos of themselves with their spouses and children. Believe me I may be happy for them but it leaves me depressed. More to come.

*what are these standards? can you help in sustaining what you did not gather with your sweat?
*considering the men/women ratio in the country and unfavourable economy which put very few in upper class status to meet such 'standards', does it mean many women would remain unmarried or marry very late without the so called standards to any man who comes knocking?
*Since it takes a lot of nerves for a man to propose, how did you decline without leaving them devastated emotionally ?
*Did you just disqualify the men based on physical/instant assessment and evaluation?
*Don't you think many ladies might have lost their REAL husbands through this process? and some never get married for d rest of their lives?
*What can you say vis-a-vis what most women want- their standards, about 'surulere' guy(struggling guy) and 'olorunsogo' guy(made guy) asking a lady's hand in marriage?
*Can we say western education has compounded the woes of SOME naturally selective ladies?
*Do or can we always get whatsoever we want even when God is pointing at what we need?
*Can your standards stand the test of time?
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99% of the ladies want a secured financial future

the love?? yes.but she doesnt want to hear "stories"

makazona: 99% of the ladies want a secured financial future

the love?? yes.but she doesnt want to hear "stories"

Who knows the future?
things change you know...
i think our inability to see the future makes us take some seemingly rational but irrational decisions
Nobody can say precisely that a condition would remain unchanged (no condition is permanent)

makazona: 99% of the ladies want a secured financial future
the love?? yes.but she doesnt want to hear "stories"

And you think a guy will disclose his true financial status to you when he is not yet sure of sharing his lifetime with you right?

Only dumb, kitty chasers do that.

ur money standard

If you get knw you can fulfill the minor standards

It's pretty clear for everyone to grab:

Ladies want a working class Lover with sustainable financial income. A reasonable Man with good money. Yes, physical attributes included but it varies from one lady to another.

Most of them again ain't patient enough to build their Man. They want a finish product namely Mr Right. And that's why they will keep waiting until the scales fall off from their eyes.

I'm still waiting...

Ivanspring: I'm still waiting...

...For what/who?

The female of all species, who can ever understand them?. - [King Julian (Penguins of Madagascar)]

AdeniyiA:
...For what/who?

For Mr. Right of course!!!

Ivanspring:

For Mr. Right of course!!!

define your own Mr Right, who knows
BTW ,are you Miss Right, tell us about your enduring qualities

Hmmmn!

lemme checkk

You see, there is always "this thing" we all look out for in a partner, when it's not there we're not satisfied. As such won't be able to commit themselves but rather maintain the "fill-in-the-gap" ones until found.

GANDALF1:

And you think a guy will disclose his true financial status to you when he is not yet sure of sharing his lifetime with you right?

Only dumb, kitty chasers do that.

Abi all i know iz dat few ladies will accept a guy especially for marriage when they dont knw ur financial ability.u will hear them say "abeg,i nor wan suffer ooo"

AdeniyiA:
Who knows the future?
things change you know...
i think our inability to see the future makes us take some seemingly rational but irrational decisions
Nobody can say precisely that a condition would remain unchanged (no condition is permanent)

gd point my bro.how i wish the ladies will understand this fact

AdeniyiA:
define your own Mr Right, who knows
BTW ,are you Miss Right, tell us about your enduring qualities

My Mr Right:
1-He should be taller than me (i'm 5'4).
2-He should be a god fearing christian (there are christians who don't fear God).
3-He should be responsible and hardworking.
4-He should be patient and tolerant.
5-He should be kind and generous.
6-He should be loving and caring.
7-He should have a sense of humour.
8-He should be ambitious
He should be open, sincere, and honest.
9-He should be a good kisser.
10-He should be good in bed and should be able to make me cum at least ten times a day.

I'll tell you my qualities later.

Ivanspring:

My Mr Right:
1-He should be taller than me (i'm 5'4).
2-He should be a god fearing christian (there are christians who don't fear God).
3-He should be responsible and hardworking.
4-He should be patient and tolerant.
5-He should be kind and generous.
6-He should be loving and caring.
7-He should have a sense of humour.
8-He should be ambitious
He should be open, sincere, and honest.
9-He should be a good kisser.
10-He should be good in bed and should be able to make me cum at least ten times a day.

I'll tell you my qualities later.

abeg if you be human machine and u kno get anything you dey do, kindly apply...
i no fit die, how person go combine 3 nd 10 without dying prematurely?
little wonder men die before women

AdeniyiA:
abeg if you be human machine and u kno get anything you dey do, kindly apply...
i no fit die, how person go combine 3 nd 10 without dying prematurely?
little wonder men die before women

makazona: 99% of the ladies want a secured financial future

the love?? yes.but she doesnt want to hear "stories"

not necessarily. if u r not educated and don't have good job than yh. other then that is achievable and in europe time comes more and more often when in relationship women earn more. times changing here

Ivanspring:

My Mr Right:
1-He should be taller than me (i'm 5'4).
2-He should be a god fearing christian (there are christians who don't fear God).
3-He should be responsible and hardworking.
4-He should be patient and tolerant.
5-He should be kind and generous.
6-He should be loving and caring.
7-He should have a sense of humour.
8-He should be ambitious
He should be open, sincere, and honest.
9-He should be a good kisser.
10-He should be good in bed and should be able to make me cum at least ten times a day.

I'll tell you my qualities later.

and men would respond about women :
1. boobs and ass :DDDD