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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by 3sha4lyf: 11:22pm On Sep 22, 2014
Lwkmo

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 12:47am On Sep 23, 2014
I guess some GUyS don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech gf/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my BF's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.
If Ɣ☺u become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a GF, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do Ɣ☺u guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO!
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Youngpo413: 9:39pm On Sep 28, 2014
Ndababa: Well, love is naturally expensive....



.....and it goes to the highest bidder.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Youngpo413: 9:45pm On Sep 28, 2014
elari: . . . So y come here to complain.


I wonder
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by DonCarlos1(m): 9:50pm On Sep 28, 2014
Why not make the guy rich or better still make urself rich. Remember, what men can do, women can do better, making money inclusive.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Bigsteveg(m): 10:46pm On Sep 28, 2014
Spidermon: Op, find another boyfriend if e tire u abeg. No come dey use ur boyfriend wash for here....

N.B: If my babe dey use me wash for my back because I no get money, make Amadioha goat-rape am. Wait first, I hope this Op isn't Biliki

Lol cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Bigsteveg(m): 11:11pm On Sep 28, 2014
OlamiB:
Must Ɣ☺u butress your point by calling me foolish?nd who says I dnt have my own money? I respect my bf a lot and I see him as my husband already
Husband!!! Yet u came online to embarass him. U could have just naratted it as a story not saying it's u. This alone could kill morale for life

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Bigsteveg(m): 11:24pm On Sep 28, 2014
Enahi: Sorry there is nothing like broke lady here,read my comment again. You probably didn't read the part were I wrote that I don't ask him for anything. You broke a** guys need deliverance.

When broke a** guys meet a decent nice girl,you take her for a fool. Yeah she doesn't ask and you even want her to do more for you,hello? You guys are crazy as hell.
Na by force to date?

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Bigsteveg(m): 11:30pm On Sep 28, 2014
prettythicksme: so you are telling our man should not take care of us if they have the money or whateven though a lady is working a man should also give I can never go into a relationship whereby my husband will not give me money even though I have mine. what you saying is not right okay
I have being following your comments, everything is abt guys giving. How cum uve neva for once mentioned U(girls) also buying one or two things for ur man. You are now making it look like ure doing him a favour bu having s*ex with him.
U argument is baseless as it's shows women are inferior.

U cry wolf becos ur man is not spending on u, but when he lay his hand on u after spending on u,u say he's not ur father. So since he's not ur father, he does not have any right to spend on u.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Bigsteveg(m): 11:34pm On Sep 28, 2014
ChiSun27:


You know one thing my friend....

You must have come from village...cause only peeps from my village talks the way you just did.


It is good having a sister like you.

Hope th OP hids to your advise.
grin grin
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Bigsteveg(m): 11:44pm On Sep 28, 2014
sharon395: Guys havin a gf means u can take kia of her wit d little u ve,luv is about sharin if u are broke find a gf dat luvs u lik dat nd nt a gal dat wil ask u 4 3k for her cream nd u wil tell her 2 use vasline.guy tak ur broke ass home
Can't u go and ask ur father for that? How abt u mentioning buying one or two things for the guy? Imagine, of all example na cream u even use, a girl dat can't buy her cream herself is one broke a*ss woman who is in2 modern prostitution for money just like u

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by donglazy(m): 11:57pm On Sep 28, 2014
valdes00: I no pray mak my babe use mistake b ur friend..... Cos if two of una be fwends, haaa am finished....
Shhhhhh
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by donglazy(m): 11:59pm On Sep 28, 2014
valdes00: What's the similarity btw this type of girls n prostitutes?
.... They all want money after sex....
Nice point oga mi
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by baron2000(m): 12:09am On Sep 29, 2014
prettythicksme: I am allergic to broke guys

Real women don't chase for money. They invest their heart in a guy with prospects. I was a broke ass to my then gf, but she tanda marry me. Today she Don chop my money sotey she fear fear. Na God save am say she no be like you. She for no enjoy Wetin she dey enjoy today. Bottom line,let your mind focus on what your bf can become, not what he is. Dont be myopic. Gain foresight.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by MissTeaseMe(f): 7:11am On Sep 29, 2014
Bigsteveg:
I have being following your comments, everything is abt guys giving. How cum uve neva for once mentioned U(girls) also buying one or two things for ur man. You are now making it look like ure doing him a favour bu having s*ex with him.
U argument is baseless as it's shows women are inferior.

U cry wolf becos ur man is not spending on u, but when he lay his hand on u after spending on u,u say he's not ur father. So since he's not ur father, he does not have any right to spend on u.
May it be well with u o
Not hard to know girls without self worth. They only derive value from the money of their boyfriends or husbands, that is y money is sooooo important to them. They dont care how hard working or visionary their guy is, they just want a ready made guy. Op does not seem to be one, but this yeye girl that calls herself prettyticksme or watever is the definition of 'leech'. One has to pity her husband

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by sharon395(f): 3:42pm On Sep 29, 2014
Bigsteveg:
Can't u go and ask ur father for that? How abt u mentioning buying one or two things for the guy? Imagine, of all example na cream u even use, a girl dat can't buy her cream herself is one broke a*ss woman who is in2 modern prostitution for money just like u
guy am sure u are stingy so u can't buy body cream 4 ur galfrnd when she is broke ur galfrnd shud flee from u.it is when she ask 4 money 4 cream every month dat is when u can complain.alaroro
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Bigsteveg(m): 6:37pm On Sep 29, 2014
sharon395: guy am sure u are stingy so u can't buy body cream 4 ur galfrnd when she is broke ur galfrnd shud flee from u.it is when she ask 4 money 4 cream every month dat is when u can complain.alaroro
CHAI
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by drnoel: 7:36pm On Sep 29, 2014
OlamiB: I Just dnt know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one shocked
Guys jump into conclusion that girls dnt want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees Ɣ☺u in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees Ɣ☺u in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.
I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I cnt marry him if he continues being broke.
I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke somebody
*talk about a boring relationship; when your female frnds are going places with their rich bf, Ɣ☺u r just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.
*your frnds will not respect him; by the time your female frnds get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.
*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke bf to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female frnds by buy provision or something for them will make him tear Ɣ☺u apart.
*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to
Buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so Ɣ☺u won't disregard him.
*he will naturally look stingy to you; imagine asking your broke bf to help Ɣ☺u with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# Ɣ☺u won't just be feeling him anymore.
This is just a few of what I cn remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their gf/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled tru Ɣ☺u,Ɣ☺u live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show Ɣ☺u off.
I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.
'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'
All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some GUyS don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech gf/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my BF's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.
If Ɣ☺u become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a GF, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do Ɣ☺u guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.

U are still a child. If u werent then u will know that. ALl that glitters is not Gold. U will now that a poor man today may be rich tomorrow. U will know that it takes one person to make a dream but two people to fulfill it. U will know that live is making mistakes and learning from it. U will know that life is living forward and understanding backwards. U will know that the fulfillment of ones actions and toils are just as empty if one has no one to share it with. U will know that two heads are better than one. U will know that when u open ur mouth to spew rubbish sane Nler will put u straight.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Sep 29, 2014
Gooci: @Op, if 100naira can cause fight btw yu nd yur bf, then yur worse than him angry
grin
Gooci: @Op, if 100naira can cause fight btw yu nd yur bf, then yur worse than him angry
laughing on this one!!!!
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by sharon395(f): 9:42pm On Sep 29, 2014
Bigsteveg:
Can't u go and ask ur father for that? How abt u mentioning buying one or two things for the guy? Imagine, of all example na cream u even use, a girl dat can't buy her cream herself is one broke a*ss woman who is in2 modern prostitution for money just like u
am sure u are stingy so ur galfrnd can't ask u 4 money 2 buy her body cream when she is broke, it is only when she does it often dat u can complain.guy ur galfrnd shud flee frm u Alaroro
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by justmag(m): 9:58pm On Sep 29, 2014
In this day and age....u will never catch me with a woman that does not reflect the word "independence !!". ..Women are just walking around with pipe dreams and hoping for made men to come change thier lives....every girl I have ever dated has shown some sense of independence and how much they only want a man before they later realise that they need him because of the person he is over the cash. When you are independent....u will appreciate a man more with or without his cash!
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Vikky014(f): 9:59pm On Sep 29, 2014
loswhite: are your friends not enjoying the bleeping? Are your friends taking care of the thing dat does the bleeping? If no, y then do you expect the bleeper to take care of the bleeped grin
grin

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Vikky014(f): 10:00pm On Sep 29, 2014
prettythicksme: at least the bleeper should try to take care of the bleeped
grin
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Sep 29, 2014
OlamiB:
I am not saying they should have money because of their gf, but because of themselves. Won't they be happy if they live in expensive area? Ride a good car?


Yu r vomiting nonsense. A man who goes out to work all day wit a meagre of 25k at the end of a month shd kill himself to buy a posh car, live in an estate? Notin stops yu from living large too. Buh, one thing you need to understand, if God doesn't build the house, the labourers are workin in vain. Yu r a type of lady that wud frustrate yo man into investing his change on money rituals.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Obinoscopy(m): 9:40am On Sep 30, 2014
If I were lady I won't go after guys because of their riches, no. If you do, you'd lose your respect and love from such rich men.

You'd lose the love cos they know you don't love them but their money. You'd lose the respect cos you don't even believe in yourself, you don't see yourself as capable of been independent financially.

I have seen rich men fall heavily to the ground and couldn't rise up again. If you inquire critically, you'd realise that such rich men must have married gold-diggers who was outto chop the money from the onset. Men detest such. They can however marry gold-diggers because of her beauty (to flaunt to the society and to ensure that his kids are beautiful too) but he'll never love and respect her.

What every wise lady should look out for in a guy is one with prospects and aspirations that is in sync with yours. You can be the inspiration to make your husband very rich. I tell you most solemnly, a man who became great courtesy of his wife would forever remain indebted to her and would love her for the rest of his life.

I know of guys who even borrowed to get married but are now very rich. That's courtesy of their wives. When you hear those guys talking about their wives in public, you'd see the love, admiration and gratitude written all over his face.

The adage: "Behind every successful man there's a woman" is now becoming useless because ladies are now lazy and wants to marry an already successful man. This has to stop if we want progress in our society.

I'm not saying our ladies should marry a tout or a beggar. I'm simply saying she should marry a hard working guy with prospects and aspirations regardless of whether he's rich or poor. Together, you guys can change the world smiley.

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by datguru: 10:48pm On Sep 30, 2014
MrIknowAll: If go no go, I go do yahoo yahoo....

See you! To do yahoo no be for mouth ooo
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by MadCow1: 10:53pm On Sep 30, 2014
OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one shocked

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.


Mad Cow approves this post..


My mother says the reason poor people have the most children is because they cure their frustration with sex.. grin

Dating a broke guy no be beans o.. And broke guys dey quick para because they feel intimidated around guys we dey flex..

I am currently counselling a lady who is about to break up with her fiancee because he feels intimidated around her friends especially the male ones and lashes out at her everytime she tries to bring him into their midst. I wonder how he would break out when he chooses to associate with only broke niggas.

At their introduction, the sight was embarrassing. . The Nigga refused to go fraternity with her friends and only stuck with his hommie. . His guys later freed him to go kick it with her friends as that was where the groove was at. .

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by prowlG: 10:56pm On Sep 30, 2014
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by 190: 10:56pm On Sep 30, 2014
goat!

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by MadCow1: 10:57pm On Sep 30, 2014
190: goat!


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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by idu1(m): 10:57pm On Sep 30, 2014
OlamiB: Why are you people bashing me like this? Ɣ☺u dnt seem to get me, God knows I love him and m not with him because of money. I am not this typical nigerian girl with the mentality that the guy should act as the father.
I just want the best for him. Money is important in a relationship even if the girl isn't demanding for it. I have never for once collected money frm him to buy materialistic thing. I pray for his sucess every morning cos I believe in him and I love him very much. He is nice in his own way.
You are silly nd confused. Why do u now put up this post? Is obvious u r being fed with bad advises from ur frds. Smh on u. Go nd die asshole!
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by OkikiOluwa1(m): 10:58pm On Sep 30, 2014
Krak: So ladies cant work for themselves and make money again. Why must you always depend fully on your boyfriends or husbands?

Abi o!
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