dapsy4u2: . Then can we meet at the corner

moonraker:

Clap for yourself.

I would like to thank you for summoning up the balls to respond. Alot of people on here write bullshit and just disappear.

Now for someone who is still very much in school, it surprising that you figured that i was that sort of person. funny.

To respond to your question, YES!!! you read that right, i would discourage my sister against broke guys but if you were that

bright, you will notice that in my very first response, i never ever touched on that.

I problem with your bullshit is that its bad enough that you classify your bf as broke who can barely spend on you. Then why o why

would you complain that he doesnt get anything for your friends?? are you for real?? You honestly think that those friends of yours

have best interest in mind?? I dont know who your friends are. but here is rule of thumb, the only person whos opinion matters is yours and

not your friends. Anyways, am done.

OlamiB:
I am not. I do most of the spending and also giving him money for this career

tattystv:
Then don't complain or air it in a public forum. I was once broke and my babe at the time practically fed, clothed and even gave me transport money to go submit CVs and attend job tests/ interview. She had a good job then. Forward to the present, we are married, blessed with a beautiful daughter and you can't even imagine how much I earn monthly or what WE are worth. I spoil her at the slightest instance, money, car, foreign trips......STICK TO YOUR GUY AND PRAY FOR HIM TO SUCCEED (candid advise)

FLYGERIAN91: i particularly know of a lady who broke up with her fince because he was broke and settled for a wealthy guy.... A few years later when she was married to the wealthier guy, she usually saw her husband home at 5pm or 6 depending on when he finnished work but on a particular day, he was working really late and the lady got worried and decided to go check her husbands place of work to knw what kept him. On getting there, she walked into the company's premises, called her husband on phone and he asked her to come into his office..... On getting into the reception area, on the wall were three picture which were that of the president of nigeria, that of the delta state governor and in the middle, was the picture of the broke fiance she left because of his financial status. On seeing this, she went to her husbands office and asked who owned the company and he called the name of her ex fiance who she dumped because she couldnt be by his side in his most trying times....... now, the wealthy man she married was a Personal assistant to her broke fiance all thanks to the business he was saving up for while they were dating.... He started by selling palm oil on small scale which barely brought him any gains but gradually his hustle expanded and kept expanding until he moved into oil and gas..... She could do nothing but weep for not standing by him in his times of trial.....

i just hope you know that you shoul never judge a book by its cover.... The said poor man that turned a rich business tycoon is a friend to my uncle who is also into oil and gas.....

Jenams: u r nt married to him hence ur nt his responsibility! Ur parents shud be blamed for ur pitiably poor predicament! get a job n take ur mind off his salary, is he workin for u? #nonsense

Vessi:
Okay it is when she asks for money that the guy can ask her to do more for him?
Now he is paying for your services right.

Wh0re alert!

destante: corner kor, angle ni

dapsy4u2: . In d corner lies an unread notification. Let's know what angle to approach it from......

Enahi: You must be sick in the head, don't quote me again dickhead.

Krak: So ladies cant work for themselves and make money again. Why must you always depend fully on your boyfriends or husbands?

destante: nice word play I guess

valdes00: What's the similarity btw this type of girls n prostitutes?
.... They all want money after sex....

dapsy4u2: word play ke? Just check am jor and do the needful

gede7744: op l like u. u are too factual.

but have u considered d fact that some ladies/women are created to be richer than their husbands/ (or in ur case bf)

if u are born to be richer than ur husband and u refuse to maximize ur potential all because u believed that men are born to be a sole provider u are cheating on urself and u will definitely be miserable


my advice- maximize ur potential. don't wait for any man to complete u. be a complete entity. any other jara is appreciated

shalom

destante:

destante:

Vessi:
Take it easy We realize truth hurts.
Wretched poor wh0re

prettythicksme: so you are telling our man should not take care of us if they have the money or whateven though a lady is working a man should also give I can never go into a relationship whereby my husband will not give me money even though I have mine. what you saying is not right okay

Princecharmin: ur dp says it all!....materialistic human

Saecula:

Guy you are spewing gibberish by saying that the opinion of friends dont matter. So if you are Igbo, you mean you can easily marry a northerner if your family and relations are against it by saying 'that their opinions don't count'?

The poster equally made it clear that ordinarily she wouldn't mind but that the feeling is not slick.

prettythicksme: chaii broke guys they can bleep heaven yet they don't have money to take care of the thing they bleep.I have friend that date them so annoying

OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.if u no like broke guy try rich guy make u see watin we dey take girls that are after wealth do maybe that will encourage u stay with him.