jcflex:


sure. that way tinz shld b as u rightly said. bt the issue of trust is one of our biggest problem this days.

shurlermoz: well, like a lady once told me "if money grow on trees some ladies would date a monkey"

you see a girl who wants an handsome, rich, tall, God fearing, funny, caring, romantic and understanding man, and you ask her what do you have? her response - I'm a fine gal na!

Sorry Shurlemoz. Nairaland permits me to give u only one like.
My young friend[20yrs] was talking to his very big bobby ex-gf [18yrs old in OBJ's university/BELL's] who's trying to sneak her way back after leaving this computer genius for a 34yr old aviator.
Don't get it wrong. They r still cool friends oo. But now she's dying to come back. Even said to atone for her behaviour, she was going to arrange her girlfriend for my guy to lash in a hotel.
While on what's app my guy asked her what qualities has she that will convince him to re-accept her.
She replied, BIG BOBBIES

BraniacX:
Na wa oh! All what i have gotten from the Op and many ladies(not all mind you) is that since am more broke(n) than the mosaic 10 commandments of ancient memory, i shouldn't have a girlfriend, no wahala sha! I don't have one and that decision was taken by me to spare myself of the many indignities that are associated with being a broke bf at least, i know the op can't be my gf and this thread can't be about me but i can relate sha. Having said that, what am i supposed to do with the gals who want me to date them? What am i supposed to do with my female friends who want to hook me up with some sister,cousin,friend? They all seem to conclude am a very nice
Just towing the midline here. . . . . . . .if there is such a thing as middle in this debate.

Givemejoy:
Shut up! why is Kim Kardashian with Kanye West, Beyonce with Jay-z and others..... Women like money, did I say like? Love money., which serves as a security for them.

RaphaellaDD:


Hehehe at my mercy huh? Now why do I like the sound of that?

prettythicksme:
me no dey give myself headache because of nairalander quotes ,na today dem they insult abi what even special there wey you put the matter for head.anyway just bear in your mind that in a thread,mentions some will like and share,some go insult,some will quote you right or tells you are wrong so different strokes for different folks,

Kennedyiheme:
the last time i checked, beyonce is a very talented lady, she has being making money since d days of destiny child, do u knw how much there first album sold? The kardashian family is a rich family so dnt tell me kanye made them rich....do u knw why they diff frm u? Cos they dint hve time to scout fr boys to buy dem stuffs......they used there talents, yea i knw kim doesnt hve any talent but she used her sense.......are u using urs? I dnt tink so

BraniacX:
Na wa oh! All what i have gotten from the Op and many ladies(not all mind you) is that since am more broke(n) than the mosaic 10 commandments of ancient memory, i shouldn't have a girlfriend, no wahala sha! I don't have one and that decision was taken by me to spare myself of the many indignities that are associated with being a broke bf at least, i know the op can't be my gf and this thread can't be about me but i can relate sha. Having said that, what am i supposed to do with the gals who want me to date them? What am i supposed to do with my female friends who want to hook me up with some sister,cousin,friend? They all seem to conclude am a very nice guy to date since i don't womanize but who's to say i fully know myself well enough to know i won't womanize when i have the means and the will? Also, who's to say i'll respect and fully trust any girl i date in future when i have the means to be a proper(financially @ least) boyfriend? There are no conclusive answers to these questions that i know of so if you know any, please tell me.
I asked all these questions because from my perspective as a guy, rich or poor, every guy deserves to have some pride, selfworth in himself and at least feel like a man when in a relationship and i have dipped my finger into the relationship pool a couple of times previously and found out that i couldn't handle the unspoken resentment from girlfriends for not trying enough for them even after i had done my best making me leave with whatever dignity i had left before becoming the butt of jokes of she and her girlfriends and i say this because i hang out with my female friends a lot and we tell one another a lot of cruel unvarnished truths but that's what good friends are for afterall. This topic has many facets and many angles it can be viewed from and whatever we say or conclude, we would all be right and yet wrong at the same time.
Yet i wouldn't date the Op or any girl like her no matter how supportive and understanding she is because frankly, i wouldn't want my personality probed and dissected on a NL fp cause that will be beyond cruel and also, i trust she too wouldn't date me either no matter how many other good qualities i have cos am a broke ar.se brother and that will be cruel on her.
Just towing the midline here. . . . . . . .if there is such a thing as middle in this debate.

Onyiibazz:


You're an i..diot for calling me foolish! So for the fact that my sisters and even my mother are women so i should mix sentiments with the truth right? Truth so painfully hurts and my friend if you dont have any reasonable thing to say again, then dont even try to quote me because am very angry this morning and i may decide to vent that anger on you! Goodmorning

ELff:


I will not honour you with an argument, I blame mtn that gave you free MB to exhibit your ignorance and stupidity. Like i earlier stated, your foolishness knows no bounds.

Have a nice day.

Onyiibazz:


You just ended up telling the whole world that you're using mtn free 10mb, what a pity! Never knew i've been wasting my time with a retard and an academically porous teenager who cant even pass jamb!

ELff:

The fact that you couldn't figure your mother and sisters are women clearly reinstates you are even slower than I thought. You sound very pained. You are a clear example of the kind of guys the Op is talking about. Go make some money so you can start reasoning well. Broke ass!

ugwum007:


epistle to d French gods

gede7744:



do YOU know what you want in life urself?

d moment u know u will stop being confused

Onyiibazz:


E diot, i guess your problem here is that of comprehension, now i repeat, for the fact that my mother and sisters are women doesnt interfer in my judgement about women, cant you get that? More reason why i refer to you as academically porous. And for the part you're talking about being broke and the rest, let me not just go there because the amount i spend treating my hair every week can take care of your entire generations for a month!

Krak:
So ladies cant work for themselves and make money again. Why must you always depend fully on your boyfriends or husbands?

ugwum007:


u re a liar...Kim has bedroom talent

Napc:


So what talent hv u?
Use urs nd shut d f**k up.

ELff:

Daft. Who cares about the amount u spend on a hair ontop a foolish head . Your generations will remain academically porous.

ugwum007:



Whoever let dis dog out should come and take it in....

Napc:


lousy nitwit!

ugwum007:


y re u referring to ur generation 2 come

destante:
well I would date a not too buoyant man if he wouldn't get intimidated by me. And yes, a lady needs a lot of patience to date such men.

jbubba:

Now that's a lady who is ready to enter into a relationship with both eyes open, when you are not hungry you negotiate on better terms

FLYGERIAN91:
As a matter of fact yes.... Its only the tycoons i see..... The truth of the matter is i have seen and have heard of alot of people whose fortune change from abject poverty to bastard wealth..... Trust me u know or have heard of atleast one person.... Most pple who remain poor is due to the phycological effect of things happening around them and if i'm not mistaken, most times, ladies dumping their boyfriends because they have judged by his present state may leave some pple devastated and shattered probably because the one who they thought loved them has abandoned them to their fate after all he must have sacrificed for her.... Not all of such people make it out of such humiliation and abdject rejection..... Most times we are the cause of the downfall of men who would have been somthing with our support and encouragement without knowing it and only a few might be able to survive the scourge of being looked down on..... Just a single mis spoken word could bring an entire empire down in rubbles..... Never judge a book by its cover... Learn to help people stand on their feet when they need you the most.... Never let them crumble for their success will be your greatest achievement.... We should learn to be our brothers keepers not be our our brothers 'demolition man' !!! IT COULD BE YOU TOMORROW..... Only a foolish man is certain that his riches will last forever and throw caution to the wind..... (My own 50kobo) take or leave it.....

FLYGERIAN91:
As a matter of fact yes.... Its only the tycoons i see..... The truth of the matter is i have seen and have heard of alot of people whose fortune change from abject poverty to bastard wealth..... Trust me u know or have heard of atleast one person.... Most pple who remain poor is due to the phycological effect of things happening around them and if i'm not mistaken, most times, ladies dumping their boyfriends because they have judged by his present state may leave some pple devastated and shattered probably because the one who they thought loved them has abandoned them to their fate after all he must have sacrificed for her.... Not all of such people make it out of such humiliation and abdject rejection..... Most times we are the cause of the downfall of men who would have been somthing with our support and encouragement without knowing it and only a few might be able to survive the scourge of being looked down on..... Just a single mis spoken word could bring an entire empire down in rubbles..... Never judge a book by its cover... Learn to help people stand on their feet when they need you the most.... Never let them crumble for their success will be your greatest achievement.... We should learn to be our brothers keepers not be our our brothers 'demolition man' !!! IT COULD BE YOU TOMORROW..... Only a foolish man is certain that his riches will last forever and throw caution to the wind..... (My own 50kobo) take or leave it.....