gidjah: I HAVE EVERYTHING about polygamy,came from a poly home and part of what i am going tru today ,happens to be as a product of poly.every member of the home fights to ensure only their wards succeed,even to d undoing Of Every One In D Family

edwife: Some people seems to be doing pretty well in polygamy,I am curious to know how they feel each time the husband go to a function with the other woman or go to bed with her.

The man needs to be very fair and a good judge of character.

Please share more lights,will be appreciated.

tbaba1234:

I remember there was a lady who opened a thread to share her experiences as a wife in a polygamous marriage but she was insulted and abused on this section. It was one of the more disgraceful threads in this section. I certainly do not want to see any woman go through that again.

Some people are too close-minded and see life through their own prism alone.

sandijey: The only time polygamy can be managed is if the wives stay in separate places wiv their children. Each wife may not necessarily no what is happening to the next and of course if the man is extremely rich. What I just don't understand about polygamy is that is it planned from the beginning between both partners? Why do some women knowingly enter a polygamous home? How does the first wife truly feel? If u marry a muslim, my take is that u should get ready for such anyway but can there truly be peace even if the wives are in separate places.



So many questions . I know of a lady who is a third wife . Used to see her in the gym then. She told me that women who are emotional like her would find it easy in a polygamous setting. Didn't understand why she would say that. She said she knows all her husband's concubines and she is at peace wiv it. To her it's better than being the only wife and knowing that your husband is cheating outside thereby giving u heartache. She said after all, what's d difference between a cheating husband and a polygamyst. .


Well,

pickabeau1: @GodsDivinefavor

this thread is a fail ab initio as it dwells on a very unpopular, nay acerbic topic

It is better you open it as a diary or any other section aside this as the bile you will experience is better imagined

GodsDivinefavor:

Thanks.
Whatever anybody says cannot change anything.

Its a free world.

GodsDivinefavor: You see polygamy is only accepted by men, no woman ever prays for it.

Even as a child in a polygamous home, it was hell. You wish you can change your family but alas.

Even when hubby impregnates another woman, and all the family intervention things followed...it took my mum to make me return to that same house.

But, we only learn in life when we come face to face with challenges.

I will be back.

bukatyne:

None really

Most 2nd to infinito wives were hubby's ex-gf's

bukatyne:

How did your father marry his polygamous lifestyle with his religion (Christianity)?

The Bible frowns against it and been the husband of one wife is a mandatory pre-requisite for becoming an elder