Dear NL, i want you all to look well into this matter.

You see there is this bad habit that is found in me.[masturbating] it started about some few months now. And i knew that it was very wrong as a believer in christ, going in into such acts or behaviour.

Since i knew that it was very wrong i have been trying all my possible best to stop it but all to no avail.

After using many methods, i decided to make a vow not with anybody but with God almighty not to go into it again. And that if i go into into it something should happen to me.

You see guys if you understand me better you would see that i am tired of it and so i decided to use that method since i fear God than any other thing & i also use what is so precious to me in life to make the vow.

Now i still found myself doing what i at used to lay curse on myself. And ever since then i am so disturbed that would God ever have mercy on me and dont let what i said negatively concerning myself come to pass. I'm so worried you might not understand what i'm trying to say. I said God if i do this thing again let this thing happen and i have done it.

Though i have prayed for mercy from God and that he should never allow what i said on myself come to pass on me. Of which i believed he has done.

Mature belivers help me look into this matter well and drop up comments and suggest what you think i could used to plead that God should never allow it come to pass in my life.

I was once a sufferer sir, and don't be afraid ur curse or anyone else curse on ur life can never be recognise by God.

I can deduce u are a struggling christian. I wanna knw. What occupy ur mind the most?..

Often times the devil would make it look hard because u allowed it tru d info dat enters ur mind why not keep renewing ur mind with the word of God.

Bro, forget it, i bet u, there is nothing wrong with u, okay lemme swear for my self lol, there is nothin wrong with u, God calls u a SAINT, a righteous man.

Concentrate on what God called u and not what U call urself...
2cor 5:17-22 read dis sir. U are blessed already no need sayin God bless u....

Thank you very much sir, your words has revived my soul. I'm very greatful. Once again i said tanks.

seggexco: Thank you very much sir, your words has revived my soul. I'm very greatful. Once again i said tanks.

No don't thank me, Thank God i only spoke as God instructed me, do u stay around lagos?

Embracr your carnality. Find a girlfriend. Leave the porn. Visit the romance section. There are lots of ugly Hot fellows there like yourself.

Why would an all loving god give you a penis and a strong right hand if it is wrong to self-service?

Why should you feel guilty about your own body?

sonOfLucifer: Embracr your carnality. Find a girlfriend. Leave the porn. Visit the romance section. There are lots of ugly Hot fellows there like yourself.

which carnality?, light and darkness do not stay in one place or neither can dey agree, this guy is being bought already by the blood of the lamb.

He is a man of the Spirit. Stay off!!!

seggexco: Dear NL, i want you all to look well into this matter.

You see there is this bad habit that is found in me.[masturbating] it started about some few months now. And i knew that it was very wrong as a believer in christ, going in into such acts or behaviour.

Since i knew that it was very wrong i have been trying all my possible best to stop it but all to no avail.

After using many methods, i decided to make a vow not with anybody but with God almighty not to go into it again. And that if i go into into it something should happen to me.

You see guys if you understand me better you would see that i am tired of it and so i decided to use that method since i fear God than any other thing & i also use what is so precious to me in life to make the vow.

Now i still found myself doing what i at used to lay curse on myself. And ever since then i am so disturbed that would God ever have mercy on me and dont let what i said negatively concerning myself come to pass. I'm so worried you might not understand what i'm trying to say. I said God if i do this thing again let this thing happen and i have done it.

Though i have prayed for mercy from God and that he should never allow what i said on myself come to pass on me. Of which i believed he has done.

Mature belivers help me look into this matter well and drop up comments and suggest what you think i could used to plead that God should never allow it come to pass in my life.

though u refused to mention what habit it is, but I suspect it is d sin of immorality. If it, I will like u to contact me 08162892389 if u are on whatsapp it will be better. I was a victim of this sin after several years of my conversion, I wept severally in remorse after doing it until I received help from God and I am delivered today by his grace, when u contact me I will like to share with u d things I did that helped me. I have heard many Christian placed themselves on curse to get over a habit but I have never done it cos I never trust myself, many times I had thought I could stop to do a thing but failed rather I had always allowed God to overcome and it has relieved me of stress and struggles. U know what, the race is not to the swift not the battle to d mighty, is not of him dat willeth nor of him that runneth but of God that showeth mercy and is not by power nor by might but by my Spirit sayeth the Lord, please remember all these scriptures and never place urself on a curse over anything again beside the bible never ask to dat. As regarding ur fear, remember dat u are a child of God, He loves u no matter what, he gave His son for ur redemption, He never want u to be in bondage. Remember the case of d prodigal son, fine he brought all that happened to him on himself but the father never wanted him to remain in d bondage, no father wants his son to be on curse, u don't offer ur child to a leopard for a wrong doing. All u need to do is go back to him and let him know dat u failed, dat u thought u can do it by ur strength and dat u want his mercy to avert the curse and ur peace shall be restore. God bless u.

OnyeEgo1:

which carnality?, light and darkness do not stay in one place or neither can dey agree, this guy is being bought already by the blood of the lamb.

He is a man of the Spirit. Stay off!!!

Only slaves and ogbanjes are bought by the sacrifice of dead animals or humans. The op is a sexual being and he must embrace this lest he becomes a deviant. No sane human is ever ashamed of hunger. It is how our digestive system reacts when it lacks food. So also our sexual organs react when they lack a little workout. To demand that one be celibate and also abstain from a good masturbation is the height of human hypocrisy and wickedness. I urge the OP to pay a visit to a brothel if he is single. Never be ashamed of sex. Without it, you'd never be.

Kei144: There is a thread opened by I think Highyo on this issue. One helpful information in that thread is about the way the human reproductive system works. If the reproductive system sees that the rate of sexual activity is high, it increases the rate of semen production. Once semen accumulates, the brain begins to receive the urge to carry out sexual activity. This leads to masturbation. And masturbation in turns prompts the body to produce semen. So, the cycle continues. The way out then is to use your will power to interrupt the cycle. When the urge to masturbate comes, remember that masturbating will only feed the beast. Resist it. It will seem difficult initially, but once the body detects reduced sexual activity, it slows the rate of semen production and sexual urge will in turn reduce.

Ja. 4:7 Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Ja. 4:8 Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.

Corrupted knowledge. Do not mix the works of scientists with the words of ignorant Jewish folks. Lucifer created man so wonderfully that even angels left heaven to get some pussy. Pussy so good celibate Yahweh raped a man's fiance. Sex is a wonderful and beautiful thing.

I thank you all for the advice given, you see i can broadly say it now that i am free from this dreadly act because it is almost a week now and then i have not go into it. You might be suprise hearing a week. Yes this is because in the part 7 months i hardly go 3 days without going into the act. I thank God for what he has done for me this is a testimony for me. It is not by power neither it is by might but by the grace of our lord jesus christ. It has become a thing of the past in my life as well just has you said christ has helped you. I say may his name be exalted forever in my life in jesus name[amen].

I pray that the power not to in into this ugly act again that God almighty should release it upon my life in jesus name[amen], i also pray that for as many that the devil has captivated and are still into this act may God locate them where ever they are and set them free as well. At first i taught i would never stop it again but God has helped me to stop. To him i return all the glory.

Also to all of you who has taken your time to post relevant comment on this tread may God continue to bless you even as you try winning souls for the kingdom of God through the internet may God bless you all. I'm not also suprise seeing somebody still given of advice and telling me it is good. Well, i'm not suprise because even as the children of God are showing people the way so also the children of devil are trying to bring people into bondage. You cant deceive me anymore because indeed i have surrender all to jesus. I would not speak badly against you but i pray that God will also reward you with your doings as well.