folameme: yea,its a really nice thing,there's dis freshness and sense of dignity that comes wif it. @op God bless u for dis topic ps:all ladies should always keep theirselves innocent its really cool.

balogundayo: I don't really fancy them so called innocent virgins as i dont plan marrying one.. I like bad girls who's had experience in sex and relationships, girls who know the time to initiate romantic moments nd hw to do them...

I find them real appealing to me... We all have different thinking perspectives...
Why should i marry a virgin? They are boring, inexperienced nd dont have sexy attributes...

One man's meat is another man's poison
#nonvirginsrock!

jmoore:

Tear rubber all the way!!!!!!!!

Reasons why I will marry a virgin
1- Virgins are brand-new, untouched. I get to commission her.
2- No abortion, I don't want to marry the mother of dead children .
3- I don't want to see her ex releasing a new album titled "I hit her first".
4- Free from Stds.
5- It is a sign of self-control which means she has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me.
6- An Incredible Wedding Day and Night + honeymoon.(A night of two virgins)
7- A great role model for our kids.

swaggzo: virgins, non-virgins ... just don't mean nothing to me.
The little deference is just that little piece of skin down there. What do I even care, when virgins are not even the best people in the world.
To me, this virgin shiit is all old fashioned. I'm thinking that by now it should be a closed chapter already, like a historical thing cuz..... it's all getting overrated, making them (virgins) think they different from the rest of us.

pretydiva: Thumbs up op

eckersley:


By lil piece of skin u mean hymen, right?
Virginity is more than that. The tightness/strength of d muscles of the Vee walls is a big factor. The better the tightness of these muscles, the better the grip and pleasure for both partners.
I'm a medical student, but won't go medical on you.
Here's an analogy. A virgin is like a field without a path. Breaking the hymen is like d first walk thru d field . It creates a path that grows wider gradually with use by a single/first user/the person that deflowers her.
The non-virgin is like a dual carriage express way. U'll need more furniture to fill her V-.
And I bet u'll just float from left to right.
Speaking from medical and other knowledge.
I'm a 30 years old virgin guy.
Lemme tell u guys sth. Being a virgin as a guy is a really sexy thing.
Each time I'm ill and at the doctor's in the presence of young nurses, female doctor etc, a time comes in the questioning u r asked abt ur sex history.
I answer NO, I've nvr had sex b4. and u see the young nurses, female doctors etc blushing and giving me that I-will-like-to-be-the-one-to-'deflorate'-you look. And the doctor will always ask u to keep it up.
The whole thing is so sexy. I've xprnced this on every occasions.

So that u hv lost u virginity does not mean u should player-hate on those who hv nt thrown out theirs.
Virginity is a gift to be given by each partner to the other during their first intimate xprnc. Its not sth to be LOST. It ought to be GIVEN within the confines of marriage. Thats why d English words says LOST when one recklessly/care-freely throws it away outside marriage
My abv explanations is just the meaning of virginity on an anatomical level.

Finding ur partner is a virgin engenders a lorry load of trust in marriage. There r many other things to it. Bt I won't go into them

whandeykoal: Tho one man's meat is anoda man's poison...buh y'all cnt deny d fact dt being a virgin is a virtue n is d best cos even d bible kicks against it,no nid 2 console urslf,I stl kip wonderin y nonvirgins go on honeymoon cos there's nufin honey in der moon,mayb nonvirgin ladies shud stp wearin white gowns on der wedding day sef to reduce ds rubbish cald'fornication'... nt marrying 1 dsnt mean u wnt av a gud marriage tho bt let's al try 2 emulate wat is gud#teanvirginladies

ProdigyLoco: Just came here to read comments, went to church to REVIRGIN my self 

Anybody wey think say him go use laugh kill me, na lie im talk.
No be only REVIRGIN, na rejuvenate

2romantic: They r all through

nice post.

I wish our Nairaland babes would keep themselves and stay away from sex till their wedding night.

But d ones that r already deflowered should stop sex and turn to secondary virgins.

FrancisTony: I am Male and a Virgin.

Oh Lord!, how nice.

Eyop:
No she wasn't . Was yours rotten?

lalasticlala: It's a mixture of medical and social advantages.


1 STIs: there is no way a virgin an be infected with STIs·

2 HIV-AIDS: There is no way a virgin can have AIDS or HIV infection, which is transmitted by sexual interactions. She may still be at risk with the blood infection through cut skin etc but this last category forms only 5% or less of HIV infections.

3 Unwanted pregnancies: There is no way a virgin can become pregnant

4 Falling in love: A virgin does not fall in love with any and all persons ho comes her way the way non-virgin do and therefore make some avoidable mistakes. To most virgins, love is not blind; it has some sense, although it may be a little vision impaired.

5 Lust: Most of the activities of non-virgins are borne out of lust which we shall define here as an exaggeration of the feeling of love to such a point that it becomes closer to hate than love. Most people have seen how those in 'lust' have harmed their objects of affection in the name of jealousy or anger etc. True love is calm and never violent and never wants to harm. What teenagers call 'crush', infatuation' etc are just naked lust. And most sexually abnormal behaviors, which tend to inflict harm, are all borne out of lust and not love. Here we define anything abnormal as one that provides more harm to the biology of the individual (that is his true nature), than good.

6 Love: There is a lot of true love in virgin marriages. A woman who marries as a virgin rarely sees, or complains of problems as often as the non-virgin. Sometimes (or most times) in interpersonal relationships, it is our perception of situation that created problems which ordinary do not exist.

7 Getting married: It is difficult to find a virgin who has a problem getting married and usually at very early age which biology teaches is the optimal time for conception and establishing long and lasting relationship. For most female this must be under 25 years. A woman of the age of 27 and above is considered in medical science to be past her prime of having safe first conception.

8 Preparation for marriage: Virgins tend to be better prepared for marriage than non-virgins because of excitement. The non-virgins are worried about the future and have to make conscious effort to let their marriage work if they so wish.

9 Fun: There is lot of fun and excitement for the virgin couple on wedding night. I know a couple he spent two nights trying to break a thick hymen. The bride jokingly told the groom to please hire someone to do it for him if he cannot perform.

10 Respect from Husband: Most men tend to respect virgins throughout their marriage vows. Virgins rarely have break up marriages. I am yet to see a man who will divorce a woman whom he married as a virgin.

11 Sexual deviation: It is difficult to define deviation in sexual behavior but we can say it is any form of sexual behavior that causes biological harm. But it is impossible to see a true virgin involved in any form of sexual behavior that may be considered deviant by any standard.

12 Infertility: It is difficult to find a woman who got married as virgin having problems getting pregnant. Although there may be some born with infertility problem, but the acquired ones are not found in virgins. For example STIs which cause infertility by scarring reproductive organs in both male and female are no found in virgins.

13 Beauty: The beauty of an innocent woman is indescribable. It is like new rose.


http://www.oluwoleogunranti.com/afash/scientificvirginity.htm


Do you agree with all these points?

balogundayo: I don't really fancy them so called innocent virgins as i dont plan marrying one.. I like bad girls who's had experience in sex and relationships, girls who know the time to initiate romantic moments nd hw to do them...

I find them real appealing to me... We all have different thinking perspectives...
Why should i marry a virgin? They are boring, inexperienced nd dont have sexy attributes...

One man's meat is another man's poison
#nonvirginsrock!

jmoore:

Tear rubber all the way!!!!!!!!

Reasons why I will marry a virgin
1- Virgins are brand-new, untouched. I get to commission her.
2- No abortion, I don't want to marry the mother of dead children .
3- I don't want to see her ex releasing a new album titled "I hit her first".
4- Free from Stds.
5- It is a sign of self-control which means she has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me.
6- An Incredible Wedding Day and Night + honeymoon.(A night of two virgins)
7- A great role model for our kids.

Emmans1: The Bible says don't commit adultery or fornication. If you do, repent now.

Many people had lost valuable possessions because of less than 5 minutes enjoyment. some paid for it with their lives.

I ll encourage you to stop pre-marital sex today. If you disagree, FIRE ON. Your reward awaits you.

The benefit of being a virgin is more to that. You gain more being a virgin.

I'm proud to be a VIRGIN.

FrancisTony:



I am 18years exactly.

rokiatu:
And the disadvantages are?