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How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by Chibykson(m): 11:10pm On Sep 23, 2014
Anytime you want to approach a woman,
there are likely two ways that she will
test you to know if you really worth her
time and if you fail, just know that, there
is no way back to get her attention, she
will definitely leave you and go on her
own.
She will test because she is tired of
many men approaching her and she
can’t be nice to all, she need to begin the
separation right away and know those
who really worth her time.
Women does this not because she is
cruel, arrogant or wicked but because
she just need to weed out unserious and
losers out as early as possible.
How do you know you’re being tested?
This test is something you just need to
look out for when you’re being tested
because, the test itself is counterintuitive
and if you don’t know you’re being
tested, you’ll fail and that is the end of it
all.
When something is counterintuitive, that
meansthat what seems like the natural,
right response to have is actually the
WRONG one. In other words, if you
respond to a counterintuitive test by
doing what seemsreasonable and
logical, you’ll FAIL.
The two most common of those test are;
“the buzz off, loser or you loser ” which
occur in the first 10 seconds and the
second one is; “do I respect you ”
Now let me make it clearer for you so
that you’ll not fail the test when you
approach any beautiful women and
you’re being tested.
1. The buzz off, loser or you loser or why
are you talking to me
Here is what really happens in the first
test that occurs within the first 10
second. Because lots of guys do
approach these beautiful women, they’ve
resorted to first make you look like a
loser or just buzz off and ignore you as if
they don’t hear you saying something to
them.
It is not that women are arrogant or not
being nice to guys when they approach
them but because so many guys don’t
know how to approach them and
misused the opportunity given to them
and have made these women resorted to
testing all men with this first test to
really know if you really worth their time.
You talk to them, they look at you as if
you’re loser and they continue moving.
Unknowingly to you, you’re just being
tested.
Below is just an example of what I’m
trying to talk about here;
Man: Hi, you’re beautiful. What’s your
name?
Woman: Buzz off, loser (some women
will even hiss here)
Another example again
Man: Wazup baby, how’s your day going
today?
Woman: Why are you talking to me?
What you should understand here is that,
your approach is not good enough and
that is what resulted in such test. What
do you do? You’ll need to tighten up your
approach strategy, make her think that
you don’t even want anything from her,
you just feel like having a conversation
with her.
For you to be able to achieve this, you’ll
need a total transformation of your self-
perception, social communication
patterns, body language, speech
rhythms, and conversation technique.
Seriously, once you’ve got it sorted,
belief me, you’re in.
2. Do I respect you?
This test always come up at the mid of
theconversation with her. When a
woman test you at this stage, it show
that you might be a good suitor but she
still need to be sure if really you’re a high
value man. If you pass this test, you’ll
dramatically increase her respect and
attraction for you.
As you know, if a woman didn’t respect
you, she can’t feel attracted to you; if she
feels you’re of lower value to her, she will
not even give you any chance to interact
with her.
The most common test under “do I
respect you” is a situation where she will
ask you to buy her drink. Any guy could
fall for this, thinking that the woman has
fallen for him and she’s asking for favour
from him. He will just go ahead and buy
her drink, this is absolutely WRONG.
Here is the reason why it is wrong, when
you buy her the drink; you’re now the
kind of guy who want to buy her
attention and her attraction. The truth is
that, only a guy who doesn’t have a high
value personality and social value will fall
for that antic.
When a woman you’re just asking out
ask you to buy her a drink, whether she
preface it with any kind of sweet words
like I love you or I like you , please do not
buy her the drink, there are better way to
respond to such offer from her.
Take these as samples on how you
should respond to her ‘buy me a drink’
Woman: you must be a nice guy! Will you
buy me a drink?
You: What do you take me for, a chump?
Don’t you KNOW who I AM?!
Woman: Hmnnnn … not really?
You: I’m the guy who doesn’t buy you
drinks. (big grin)
Or you could try Mystery’s
recommendation:
Woman: I’m thirsty. Will you get me a
drink?
You: You buy me one first, and we’ll see.
Another alternative:
Woman: Can I have a drink?
You: Nope, I decided a while ago that it’s
kind of pitiable when guys buy women
drinks. It’s like enticement. You know
what? We’ll play the reciprocation game.
You buy ME a drink first, and then I’ll
reciprocate.
Whatever you do, you MUST NOT buy
her a drink. She’ll enjoy the ego-rush –
and then she’ll ditch you in favour of
more challenging game. Stay one step
ahead and turn it back around on her.
She may get flustered, she may even
pout a little – but she’ll be intrigued. And
THAT is the reaction you’re after.
Honestly, you can learn more about this
by applying the rules of social dynamics
and social psychology. No matter how
challenging the woman can be, if you
learn these rules, you’ll surely bring her
to her knee.
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by chic2pimp(m): 11:16pm On Sep 23, 2014
Or maybe Firstly, You should make sure She is into you before you set about approaching Her.
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by Exjoker(m): 11:30pm On Sep 23, 2014
You are on point op
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by naturally: 2:36am On Sep 24, 2014
Don't move too close to her, so that you can dodge any coming slap (from the hot blooded ones)
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by rectitude(m): 4:11am On Sep 24, 2014
Nice one, u're right
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by Nobody: 5:09am On Sep 24, 2014
Nonsense thread ... Get money and skip the test move to interview (Do u love me ?)........... Speak sweetzhit and marry her !!

I don't know when women now turn to GMAT/SHL that you have to learn 1million codes to get a pass !!

Just 3Codes :
Money/Decent Job:

Swagger/Suprise :

suit her taste (Different girls different taste) !!!

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Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by Marverick(m): 7:40am On Sep 24, 2014
Op u rock,u hit d nail on da head,women wil always test u especially d beautiful ones infact d more preety she is d more series of tests she runs on ya,she even adds a bit of bitchy altitude ,if u can't handle it ure out!
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by delzypswag(m): 11:26am On Sep 24, 2014
dumbest thread ever,the lady would never tell you to buy her a drink,the man will offer her one
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by Chibykson(m): 8:38am On Sep 25, 2014
Lols.....dhs true
Re: How To Pass Women Initial Test Whenyou Approach Them by valmunich(m): 8:48am On Sep 25, 2014
Who finished this

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