Depression a pressing down start of sadness, it
is also a state where you and your mind is at
work with other. A process whereby ones mind
is unable to adequately process a strong
pressing feelings or issue. It is said that it is
difficult to beat an enemy when the enemy is
living inside your head, depression is an
enemy living inside ones head and with time it
will sooner or later overwhelm the whole
entire being of such an individual.
The birth place of depression is loneliness or
segregation, when one cuts him or herself out
of every form of human social activity or
interaction or when one is stigmatized,
neglected or left alone, most sociable people
or men that are most times surrounded and
loved by people hardly get depressed .

Depression is now a resurfaced modern
epidemic, which affects all classes of human
beings that opens door to it, for it gladly
enters when you welcome it in. It is an
emotional trauma which can be very difficult
to diagnose at its early stage, this emotional
trauma called depression has send so many to
an early grave. Most times depressions create
an illusion of a better world out there outside
the earth, making ones life here on earth look
worthless. A depressed man pictures most
times highly demented images or images of a
higher state of mind that is out of this world,
this makes them most times take their own
lives without looking back. They feel they can
find a place of solace, peace and comfort
leaving this earth.

But unfortunately there are no known
machines yet that could read the human
mind, but the only available machine now that
can do the task of reading the human mind is
you, yes I mean you. We as humans are the
best known depression exterminator, it all
begins with you looking out for that your very
next neighbor, it could be your father, mother,
brother, sister, friend or anybody that
surrounds you. For if we fail to look out for
these people it may bounce back on the
society, most serious cases of depressed
people drives them into serial killings, and
sporadical shootings, turning their world
against ours. Looking out for them entails
having a good interaction and conversation
with that very neighbor of yours, the people
you come in contact with. Everyone wants to
be loved or feel wanted, they want to confide
in you but if you don’t get close to them it
won’t be possible.

But it is advised to report any suspicious
serious cases of depression to the appropriate
authority for proper handling, but the cradle
stage of depression it is for us to handle, yes
you and me. I once added a meaning ones life
one day without intending to, she is young
lady who was depressed. I just chatted with
her on my mobile phone, she was highly
dejected and depressed. At first she didn’t
wanted to open up to me, but I gave her one
thing no one has ever given her, full
“attention”. I gave her an uninterrupted
attention, she poured out all her heart to me
even though I got bored with some of her
words but I have to pretend as though
whatever she was saying means the world to
me. And she said one day

” if you were not here for me I wonder what
would have happened to me”

I became her closest confidant till date, there
is nothing in the world she doesn’t tell me, she
even tell me whenever she gets intimate with
her new found boyfriend, which I personally
find unnecessary. I went offline one day that is
staying off the internet for a complete and she
left me a message saying

” HerexG where are you, how dare you leave
me, don’t you know you are now my second
brain”

And till date i haven’t meet her in person yet
but in her heart I remain that very friend she
can always fall back on. Today friendship and
relationships crosses borders and boundaries
with the invent of technology, ignite or start a
positive relationship today and eliminate
depression

#depressionsgoeswithapositiverel

By HerexG

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