lastchild: thanks

bedfordng: there is no point deceiving yourself bro,this is an attribute of shyness and even a worse case a flematic (extreme introvert).you prefer making friends online,it shows you are a shy type.and also,shy people knows how to talk especially when they see some one that understand them or family member.they don't like creating a scene or attention.bro with all this attributes you've mentioned,there is still some shyness in you.

Paulv: so could be the reason nau?

lusciouslex: O.p, you left out the fact that a SHY PERSON can NEVER GET LAID in the DAY. They always wait until it is DARK simply because they can't UnCloth in front of the opposite sex. Bold 6 said so!!!

bedfordng: absolutely true.not all introvert are shy but all shy type are introvert automatically.just like fine and beauty,not all fine ladies are beautiful facially but all beautiful ladies are fine.extreme shyness is a diseases.will not even wish such to my enemy

bedfordng: then try to kill some part of it

Virgindove: Your analysis of a shy person is inconclusive. Becos am a member of that class, i know first-hand how they feel. They like doing most of their things off camera. They are unpredictable, as they commune wit their minds more often. This is the reason some called them introverts. As a guy, they tend to be paedophiles or rapists. And as a lady,paedophiles or lesbians. Unfortunately, most shy ladies these days are the one with marital problems. Men usually take them for granted and abuse them.

ayomidan: @op,u forgot to include they have the guts to talk to a lady or strangers only when they are high on alcohol

corlin2: 1 describes me alot
am a shy guy #notproudof:it:thou

AfricanApple: who are u that u think I should meet? how intelligent or handsome are u that I should crush on u.

oya answer

Popsy1: This shyness of a tin slf.. Wen it comes to me flowing wit an opposite sex I hv an interest in, am basically shy bt 2 an extent.. Bt if I no get interest 4 ur side, am full blown talkative.. End result, girls I like don't end up liking me baq bt those I don't like are always liking me.. #StoryOfMyLife

14teenK: Omo See GOBE!

Superstar007: hahaha. . I can really relate with some of that. I think it has to do with the way peeps were brought up. For instance, in my fam. . my dad used to frown at us relating with peeps outside I dunno why.
And I was this quiet type that didn't talk too much, was extremely shy that my then class teacher had to award me for being the most quiet nigger in the class. I remember in my Js1, when We were given assignment on social studies unfortunately the answers wasn't included in my text book. Our neighbour's daughter attended same school with me so my dad told me to go and ask for her own text book maybe what I was looking for will be there. .the mere thought of approaching her made me sick that I cried that day ehn but I eventually summoned courage and went with my sister to get the book

Fast forward to my Ss1, it is a well known fact that am a cutie(undisputable) but this didn't mean much to me then cos I didn't care much about the opposite sex. So after new students joined our class, there was this particular girl that was all over me though I have come to realized she wasn't the only one drooling over me but hers was more pronounced. Eventually, I began to like her, she was an epitome of beauty(no objection) but the thought of talking to her was like saying Mikel will win the footballer of the year(mission impossible)

It came to a point where her seat partner asked to swap places with me(maybe she asked her to) and I obliged. So I now started sitting beside her in most of the classes but gracious Jesus I could spend two hours sitting there without uttering a word. I would go home dejected asking my self what was wrong with me although she sometimes initiated a convo I ended up acting like one boring jerk.
Each time I summoned courage to talk to her, I only ended up collecting her notes after I had sat there like a monument. Then there was this other dude behind her often chatting her up while I was sitting there jealous and abusing my self in my mind. But when I got to Ss2 things changed sha, I began socializing more maybe becaure our class was made up mostly of boys and
my name was always on the list of noisemakers and the likes. #Story of my life.

Although, I still have a little trait of quietness and shyness in me. When I look back now I simply shake my head for those wasted opportuinities and ask my self "Dude what was wrong with you"

siegfried99:

Eleyi Gidi gan

14teenK: Oh dude......almost similar experience wit me......bt mine was dt i went to boyz skul wen i was in ss2 i left d skul 4 a combined one ........as per fresh nigga knowing ntn much abt ladies i behave lik a baby wen it comes to ladies mata.......i cnt even luv eye ball to eyeball n tak to a lady even wen dy approach me ........even on parti dayz ,,,,,ladies beg/force me to dance/rock wit dem bt all i cud say is knw even tho my body is willing bt d soul n Mind is weak.........my class niggaz due couse n wyne me all d time, dy make fun of me, we jst laf ova it.......wen i remba such old dayz all i cud say is Wasted opportunities.

14teenK: Oh dude......almost similar experience wit me......bt mine was dt i went to boyz skul wen i was in ss2 i left d skul 4 a combined one ........as per fresh nigga knowing ntn much abt ladies i behave lik a baby wen it comes to ladies mata.......i cnt even luv eye ball to eyeball n tak to a lady even wen dy approach me ........even on parti dayz ,,,,,ladies beg/force me to dance/rock wit dem bt all i cud say is knw even tho my body is willing bt d soul n Mind is weak.........my class niggaz due couse n wyne me all d time, dy make fun of me, we jst laf ova it.......wen i remba such old dayz all i cud say is Wasted opportunities.

siegfried99: @Superstar007

Ur story is very similar to mine.. Choi.

No be small thing oo

14teenK: I Said Diz One Is STRONG!!!

teemanbastos:
same hia..dnt knw wat to du to b free