neoapocalypse:

I was trying out an experiment , just testing your patience. You claimed to be level headed and not quick to anger, you also claimed you'd walk away and not respond in face of confrontation , from your response to my post do you think you're have those qualities you claim to have ?. Sorry for my language

Crocz:

Trust me...I just clarity from your comment, my temper can never rise cos of petty insult

spyg1: Some women are like cows, they can understand only one language which is beating.

Though i cant beat them.

dandydaniels: I am proud of my dad...that real g (rip to his soul) didn't beat my mum...He's a real man

there's a big difference between fear and respect...u can't punch out respect from your wife only fear

the story making rounds in almost every blog site is how teebillz have turned his wife tiwa savage into a punching bag...brother if that's true...I repeat if* that's true.... then you are not a real man

dandydaniels: women are lesser beings(fact)....why waste your strength and time beating them? bro c'mon! they are made to be loved...to be bought clothes...jewelries...cars...taken to cool places...pampered...and at night made to sing in tongues to their creator

neoapocalypse:

Yes this was petty but can you handle real insults from a woman who is out to infuriate you ? Trust me it is easier done than said.

Tymax:
You have given a response that is politically correct. I am not violent. I have my own way of dealing with such situations but that doesn't make me more of a real man than those who hit women.

I have met women who can provoke even the dead to anger. Some women are just stubborn and spiteful. I have seen reasonable, successful men hit their wives repeatedly; men who until they got married have been peaceable- men, whose family members could attest for their slow temper and abundant patience. When it happened, everyone was surprised.

It appears you have never met a woman who can batter your shield of patience and composure. Be grateful for that. If you are not yet married, I sincerely pray you do not marry a woman who would stoke the flames of your rage incessantly.

It takes a sensible woman to recognize her sharp tongue or stubbornness and avoid provoking her short-tempered man. It is even wiser if she'd rather marry a man who is prodigiously patient.

Every human has a threshold for violent REACTION.

Tunagee:

shut up your mouth!! all ladies deserves to beaten. they just some stupid bunch of idiots

MissMeiya:

Once you realize that nairaland is dominated by a certain quality of men, you will no longer be disappointed. Just unfollow the thread.

dandydaniels: I am proud of my dad...that real g (rip to his soul) didn't beat my mum...He's a real man

there's a big difference between fear and respect...u can't punch out respect from your wife only fear

the story making rounds in almost every blog site is how teebillz have turned his wife tiwa savage into a punching bag...brother if that's true...I repeat if* that's true.... then you are not a real man

women are lesser beings(fact)....why waste your strength and time beating them? bro c'mon! they are made to be loved...to be bought clothes...jewelries...cars...taken to cool places...pampered...and at night made to sing in tongues to their creator

for the real men out there...let's control our tempers and treat every woman...not just our wives with respect. when it comes to women affairs,my dad is my role model. " never beat a woman son"

STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Ogojohn: And what will you say of women that beats their husband. Are they not real women. The bottom line is that some women are not just wife material. Give them the best gentleman. They will make him a tiger in one week. Sometimes they needs real beating.

cbrass:

VI road..ahaha lai lai, let's go interstate driving then we will know, maybe the op should have used a better word like "weaker sex" than the "lesser being thing" a man is always a man any day anytime. You can't equal him in anyway so we too can't equal you guys when it comes to caring and emotional matters. Sometimes I wonder how women gets so excited about their babies, how dey cry at the slightest opportunity. The thing still baffles me

dandydaniels: Women are lesser beings(fact)....

andromida: Yes real men don't beat their wives but women are not lesser beings.

Tallesty1: What shame? If anybody that speaks the truth is a woman beater then you have a problem and should deal with it. I have not raised hand on a woman but I know it is absurd to say that hitting a woman no matter what is wrong. A woman that attacks like a man has no right to claim victimThat absurd self righteousness that I hate. Women reach a breaking point and struck but men are gods and do not have breaking point right? Wait! You said in most cases right? So what happened to the other cases?
Strong willed woman? What has that to do with violence? Listen, Men are not invulnerable. We die when we are shot, stabbed, or hit over the head with blunt objects. If a woman is flailing at me with a knife, a club, or iron bar or in any way trying to rob me of my functionality of life, I will automatically forget that she has tits, If my life is threatened, she is going down. That's all. I can't fold hands and watch her kill me. If it is about control then women should learn self control like I said earlier. Its never right for anyone to hit anybody. That is my point. But women want to hit, and not get hit back. Nonsense! Violence is wrong. Why are we so divided? Men are human as well, Everyone on this planet is not a gender but a soul, a Consciousness That Experiences Reality. An adult woman should be held responsible for her actions and words.Why are you so quick to tell what a real man should and should not do? Yet, you never talk about what a real woman should and should not do. When a woman attacks a man physically first, she has no right to become a victim.

If a woman turn words to actions, she is escalating a scenario. She is responsible for that. And if the man hits back in equal measure, no more or less, she've earned that consequence.

Life's a beautiful thing and thunder should fire the woman that would step on my own.

fyneboi79:

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We hear ‎u. All d Koboko wey una dey flog them for night come be wetin?

MissMeiya:

Once you realize that nairaland is dominated by a certain quality of men, you will no longer be disappointed. Just unfollow the thread.

Tymax: Real women don't provoke their husbands to anger.

A sensible woman doesn't seek to be the object of her husband's rage.

A cantankerous woman should have the presence of mind not to marry a quick-tempered man.

Kinkybraids:

Im starting to see it, the thing that worries me is that NL only represents a sample of the whole population...they are saying what most men out there are thinking. So in this day and age it just shocks me that African men still think like that. I dont want to isolate it to Nigeria only.

Lol but its such a good topic...I cant just unfollow it when theres still a good debate ahead.

Kinkybraids:

Wow quite a lot to digest. What im getting at is that you are saying its fine for a man to beat his wife in self defence right? If my assumption is true then you are absolutely right...no one (woman or man) is allowed to take anothers life. So if a woman beats you well it makes sense to defend yourself but the beating of women for the sake of control and power is uncalled for. A woman who beats her husband is not a victim and im sorry to say Iv never heard or such a rare case so only in this instance do i agree with you.

You said i keep talkin of real men and not women. Well I know of many real women. I believe when you trully love and respect a man you will treat him like your father. You will select your words wisely so not to disrespect him when putting your point accross. I know i might be contradicting myself here because I am a subservient to my father but i feel a woman can be just as respectful to her husband without being a doormat. Respect does not mean fear. A man that i respect like my father should show me the same respect as his wife like he did his mother, No man would ever lay a hand on his mother. These are the basic principles of a relationship.

Osode:
I am impressed that the younger men of the new generation are also becoming 'liberated' men like the women, and are equaly begining to demand certain things that my generation would foolishly conceaded/overlooked to our women as 'Rights' in the newly emerging relationship with their women.
On the topic, I Propose that if women want laws that criminalise hitting them under any circumstance then men should demand (AND ENFORCE) laws that criminalise verbal and emotional abuse (that women of all generations 'Indulge' in ...including my beloved mother) that men of all generations have always had to concead to and contend with.
In the new dynamic; all a carefull young man has to do is 'Record' the offending woman (by some means) indulging in their favourite 'past time' and get it to law enforcement and she would get six months in prison (or what ever penalty a man would get the said Bill). ...I can almost hear all the men on NL laughing... Because Instead of the men as it would be now, most women would hardly spend six months in a year out of Prison. I so trust the Man; If he needs to, he can be as 'Deadly Cool' and calculating (because its Part of his Assignment on earth) ...Its his natural 'design'.

dablazor:
ehm.. buh u do feel its ok to hit women? i mean u think its justifiable?

50calibre:
Maybe that's the way to go these days, at least everyone gets their freedom.

You're going to have to work double hard to get Iranian chic, they're so conservative & desexualised, good luck breaking them.

She's probably going to be disowned by her family for dating a non-Muslim

Kinkybraids:

Im starting to see it, the thing that worries me is that NL only represents a sample of the whole population...they are saying what most men out there are thinking. So in this day and age it just shocks me that African men still think like that. I dont want to isolate it to Nigeria only.

Lol but its such a good topic...I cant just unfollow it when theres still a good debate ahead.

dablazor: Wow, the state and stance of our society on this subject is altogether pathetic, its wrong.

Odyssseys:
i think u r right, but some women can be really annoying, u wont even know when u make a punch.