berem: I wonder o! Abeg help me tell am!

No, you help me now sis

Danhumprey: I give up! Feminism won't let some people reason sensibly. It's all about gender equality.

You give up what?

butanep: I think you are the one hiding from reality. This is not about century... Many women have lost their husbands and homes, simply because they can't cook well....
Make you shine your eye well well. Technology has nothing to do with tradition.

Lol....my eyes are well shined ..bt actually many guys don't consider cooking as a factor anymore with d emergence of Fast food joints here and there

I have this family friend that doesn't like cooking, Almost everyday she and her hubby will come to our house to eat. Even most times she will beg me to cook enough so she will take some home. Now she is accusing me of sleeping with the hubby because the man stops by our house to eat when he closes from work.
I have to tell the hubby to stop coming please. She later apologised to me sha and confessed that she gets angry whenever the hubby talks about our delicious meal. She is a pro now in cooking.

Any woman wey no sabi cook no be woman.

Dbestmax:
Lol....my eyes are well shined ..bt actually many guys don't consider cooking as a factor anymore with d emergence of Fast food joints here and there

There is nothing sweeter than a homemade food, with or without fish or meat.

Ilovenigeria: I have this family friend that doesn't like cooking, Almost everyday she and her hubby will come to our house to eat. Even most times she will beg me to cook enough so she will take some home. Now she is accusing me of sleeping with the hubby because the man stops by our house to eat when he closes from work.
I have to tell the hubby to stop coming please. She later apologised to me sha and confessed that she gets angry whenever the hubby talks about our delicious meal. She is a pro now in cooking.

butanep: I think you are the one hiding from reality. This is not about century... Many women have lost their husbands and homes, simply because they can't cook well....
Make you shine your eye well well. Technology has nothing to do with tradition.

You dey mind the guy? You for just ignore am!

carefreewannabe:

You give up what?

People like you. All you care about is gender equality which I can bet you may never achieve. You ain't the 1st pro-gender equality,neither will you be the last!

Danhumprey: People like you. All you care about is gender equality which I can bet you may never achieve. You ain't the 1st pro-gender equality,neither will you be the last!

I live in Germany so I have gender-equality without having even fought for it.

Now it's time for my beautiful Nigerian sisters to enjoy it too.

You would benefit more from gender equality than lose from it and one day you will understand it, hopefully.

carefreewannabe:

No, you help me now sis

If at this time of the century,most nigerian men do not know how to slice onions and pound yam,then I give up on them.

Nigerian men- depending on their wives to cook for them since 12BC

Acidosis:

My dear no be small thing ooo. Na she introduce the man come our house ooo. You need to see how I dey swear to God say I no dey date her husband.
And honestly the man no show any interest my side. The thing pained me no be small.

berem: If at this time of the century,most nigerian men do not know how to slice onions and pound yam,then I give up on them.

Nigerian men- depending on their wives to cook for them since 12BC

There is nothing wrong with a wife doing the cooking but it beats me how anyone can think that a man shouldn't know how to nourish himself.

I'm not trying to exempt the men from cooking. No! Heck,men should learn to cook. Men with culinary skills have an upper hand above those who don't!


But the fact is,cooking is a woman's responsibility,most especially in the African context/culture. It's the responsibility of EVERY woman to possess culinary skills!

Stop trying to justify women not cooking. It's ridiculous!

Dbestmax:
Lol....my eyes are well shined ..bt actually many guys don't consider cooking as a factor anymore with d emergence of Fast food joints here and there

Only boys don't consider cooking factors when getting married but Men does...

Ilovenigeria:
My dear no be small thing ooo. Na she introduce the man come our house ooo. You need to see how I dey swear to God say I no dey date her husband.
And honestly the man no show any interest my side. The thing pained me no be small.

Big mistake You for give am in food & in kind

carefreewannabe:

I live in Germany so I have gender-equality without having even fought for it.

Now it's time for my beautiful Nigerian sisters to enjoy it too.

You would benefit more from gender equality than lose from it and one day you will understand it, hopefully.

Tell me about gender equality that I don't know of.

What you don't seem to understand is,it's difficult for gender equality to work here in Africa. Maybe,it might work in the future,maybe it may not.

The fact that you live in Germany and do enjoy gender equality doesn't change anything. You forget that you are living in the West,where such terms as gender equality is recognised,while your African sisters are still living in Africa,where gender equality bullshít isn't recognised. Tell me,how do you hope to 'liberate' your African sisters?

Danhumprey: Tell me about gender equality that I don't know of.

What you don't seem to understand is,it's difficult for gender equality to work here in Africa. Maybe,it might work in the future,maybe it may not.

The fact that you live in Germany and do enjoy gender equality doesn't change anything. You forget that you are living in the West,where such terms as gender equality is recognised,while your African sisters are still living in Africa,where gender equality bullshít isn't recognised. Tell me,how do you hope to 'liberate' your African sisters?

By sponsoring their education.

By showing them what a beautiful life they will have if they don't give up.

And more!

Acidosis:
Big mistake You for give am in food & in kind

You no like me.

Ilovenigeria: I have this family friend that doesn't like cooking, Almost everyday she and her hubby will come to our house to eat. Even most times she will beg me to cook enough so she will take some home. Now she is accusing me of sleeping with the hubby because the man stops by our house to eat when he closes from work.
I have to tell the hubby to stop coming please. She later apologised to me sha and confessed that she gets angry whenever the hubby talks about our delicious meal. She is a pro now in cooking.

so who taught her how to cook?

carefreewannabe:

By sponsoring their education.

By showing them what a beautiful life they will have if they don't give up.

And more!

Well,keep at it! This just sound like wild-goose chase/an unrealistic dream.

Anyway,if you succeed,so be it. Goodluck.

Danhumprey: Well,keep at it! This just sound like wild-goose chase/an unrealistic dream.

Anyway,if you succeed,so be it. Goodluck.

Gender equality is here and it's not going to disappear. Remember these words.

Ilovenigeria:
You no like me.

I don't like you; I love you

Ilovenigeria: I have this family friend that doesn't like cooking, Almost everyday she and her hubby will come to our house to eat. Even most times she will beg me to cook enough so she will take some home. Now she is accusing me of sleeping with the hubby because the man stops by our house to eat when he closes from work.
I have to tell the hubby to stop coming please. She later apologised to me sha and confessed that she gets angry whenever the hubby talks about our delicious meal. She is a pro now in cooking.

Stories that touch.

carefreewannabe:

Gender equality is here and it's not going to disappear. Remember these words.

Gender equality is where? In Germany I guess? Smh.

Oh! Obviously,you mean it's on Nairaland,an online fortress where people like you can display your stubborness and stronghead,abi? Where you can boast around. Lmao.

Where last did you travel to Africa? To Nigeria? To your village?

I hate arguing with feminists and pro-gender equality campaigners. It's just needless stress. That's why when I see a thread targetting feminists or populated with feminists,I just keep off.

Danhumprey: Gender equality is where? In Germany I guess? Smh.

Oh! Obviously,you mean it's on Nairaland,an online fortress where people like you can display your stubborness and stronghead,abi? Where you can boast around. Lmao.

Where last did you travel to Africa? To Nigeria? To your village?

I hate arguing with feminists and pro-gender equality campaigners. It's just needless stress. That's why when I see a thread targetting feminists or populated with feminists,I just keep off.

I can see.

ireneidiva:
Stories that touch.

You can wipe your tears now.

Ilovenigeria:
You can wipe your tears now.

I'm doing just that.

butanep: so who taught her how to cook?

Read my post again. She knows how to but doesn't like cooking.

ireneidiva:
I'm doing just that.

Do you need handkerchief, mob or bedsheets?

I cant even date a man that dont know how to cook not to talk of marriage.
I dont do fast food joints, boi take me to ur house let me assess ur cullinary skill.
Very vital while dating.

When push comes to shove as in after i do and iyawo don carry belle, and it happens that she is among those that mere smell of food makes her vomit always, what then happens?

And if she has a toddler nko?
Pls who will cook for the baby?

A man knowing how to cook is a necessary necessity.
And yes, ur balls will not get burnt if u make onugbu soup or pound yam.

Is this even up for discussion?

If in 2014, a person whether man or woman is still unable to find his/her way around a kitchen, then he/she is completely useless. Why should anyone even put up with such a liability?