Ladies I want to ask you a question

I know that many Nairaland ladies will not be happy with me for bringing up this issue because they know it is the truth.

I have a friend who has like 7 girlfriends he is been dating for like 5-6years now. This dude has managed to do it in such a way that he is never been caught cheating by any of these ladies. Shockingly, these ladies come to his apartment to cook for him at different times and even wash his cloths and clean his house. Because they've been with him for a while, the ladies usually refer to him as their fiance and my friend too whenever we were together and any of the lady was around, he addressed them as his fiancee. If you weren't close to these dude like we his friends, you wouldn't know he was just deceiving these ladies.

He was only serious with one of them who just finished from medical school and we his friends know this. He doesn't joke with this one and has often risked his life to meet her in while she was undergoing her NYSC in Porthacourt. My friend got married last weekend to this girl without letting the other ladies know. He didn't announce it at all, and warned us not to mention it on social media. He got mad with a friend who use the prewedding photo on bbm, the guy immediately removed it and he was still furious at him until the wedding day.

Now the other ladies have finally heard abt it and they are really angry with us cursing all his friends. I heard atleast 3 of them that I know have been inconsolable. My friends has been receiving all sorts of text and calls from these ladies.

Ladies, are u in a relationship with a guy that is 'crazy' about you and sacrificing a lot to be with you. Or are you in a relationship with a guy that you are crazy about and sacrificing a lot to be with him, even though you know somewhere deep in your heart that he is not really committed but just tolerating you to be with him and it's you that is serious about it all because u are madly in love, perhaps because you are scared to be single again, or because he has the look and personality you want in a guy.

Why I'm asking this is that, many ladies are calling a guy their fiance, but the guy doesn't see them in the picture of his future at all! Yet, these ladies continue to turn down many (probably serious) guys who approach them, just because they think they have a fiance.

Now, my rough statistic is this, 4 out of 10 ladies who are claiming to have a fiance right now, will probably end up disappointed sooner or later because the d guys, like I said, doesn't see them in the picture of their future at all.

What do you think about this? Maybe you should go and reassess that guy you claim to be engaged to.

@Op better go and put on your helmet b4 dem ladies start bashing u...

patholaw: @Op better go and put on your helmet b4 dem ladies start bashing u...

And I warned my friend to desist from promising them o. I really understand why the ladies shud be mad having invest so much into the relationship. Imagine, they'll buy foodstuff and bring it to the house to cook for all of us.

KARMA go visit soon visit that your friend

contactmorak: And I warned my friend to desist from promising them o. I really understand why the ladies shud be mad having invest so much into the relationship. Imagine, they'll buy foodstuff and bring it to the house to cook for all of us.

thats a serious case oooo

d guy shouldnt have done that...........its really heart breaking and painful

onstelly: KARMA go visit soon visit that your friend

Wat is dis1 saying??
Its obvious dat d stupid 1ce are does ladies

Akeelahtunez:

Wat is dis1 saying??
Its obvious dat d stupid 1ce are does ladies

I can't remember talking to you

Dat guy is a fool,I know some reasonable guys dat wud hit d nail on d head to any galfrnd dey know dey are not goin to end up with,why can't he be reasonable nd call dem off,it mite hurt bt at least dey wud appreciate his sincerity,he wasted dea time,energy,body,money etc,I swear d guy won't go unpunished I jst pity d innocent gal he married dats gonna suffer wit him wen it bounces on him...I also don't support gals investin so much in a guy dat dosnt hold dem like a pinch of salt bt d guy shud av bin more reasonable.

onstelly: KARMA go visit soon visit that your friend

kamal is a name of person , animal , place or thing ?

donroxy: kamal is a name of person , animal , place or thing ?

Hahahaha ask the OP he knows

omotolatoyosi: Dat guy is a fool,I know some reasonable guys dat wud hit d nail on d head to any galfrnd dey know dey are not goin to end up with,why can't he be reasonable nd call dem off,it mite hurt bt at least dey wud appreciate his sincerity,he wasted dea time,energy,body,money etc,I swear d guy won't go unpunished I jst pity d innocent gal he married dats gonna suffer wit him wen it bounces on him...I also don't support gals investin so much in a guy dat dosnt hold dem like a pinch of salt bt d guy shud av bin more reasonable.

see vex o

onstelly:
Hahahaha ask the OP he knows

Op committed no kamal crime but only reported a case

All i know is that Relationship is a game. Its either u come out as the winner or d loser.

Just be smart.
Know the rules.

You lose some..., You gain some.

Moreover, i dnt see any reason why i shld believe and trust a man like 100%.

onstelly:
I can't remember talking to you

Ma don't bring karma into dis issue,its sentimental.
Does gal were taken 4 a foggy ride..its dere fault u shd always b ready 2 read Btw d lines & stop been carried away by ecstasy

But does it really make sense? Since a guy knows that he will not marry a particular lady why engage her in a fake relationship in the first place? Sometimes men make women to be bad. For your friend? He is not free yet. His day is coming.

onstelly:
I can't remember talking to you

Ma don't bring karma into dis issue,its sentimental.
Does gals were taken 4 a foggy ride..its dere fault. u shd always b ready 2 read Btw d lines & stop been carried away by ecstasy

I no go pity them, am single just because every lady I have interested on are already taken, they tell me they bf or fiance.I dey wait the day one go con tel me say her bf cheat on her

donroxy: Op committed no kamal crime but only reported a case

I know oh and I never said he did

I never forget say one mod go still hear am

onstelly: KARMA go visit soon visit that your friend

no be only karma

That guy na real player oh, pls my guy, help me ask this your friend...

























































































If there will be any space for me as a student

onstelly:
I know oh and I never said he did

so, u receiving the same treatment from your dude ?

@ OP so the person to blame is not the guy that dates 6 girls at a time but the girls, Really! Some guys are just a**hole...where does he expect them to start from
But the guy na smart guy sha @ OP so the person to blame is not the guy that dates 6 girls at a time but the girls, Really! Some guys are just a**hole...where does he expect them to start from
But the guy na smart guy sha

Your friend was just plain childish and silly. A real man would have called the ladies and end things maturely with them. I'm quite sure his wife isn't even aware of the other six ladies. I sha pity her, that marriage is just built on lies.

donroxy: so, u receiving the same treatment from your dude ?

Nope cos am single

onstelly:
Nope cos am single

then you and I better mingle ?

donroxy: then you and I better mingle ?

Lol

onstelly:
Lol

wow, that is a YES .... Ladies and Gentlemen .... !!

Any pastor around here , abeg come and do wedding 4 me

KARMA
KARMA
KARMA
KARMA
KARMA...it comes knocking when you least expect it.










When im wife no fit get belle 2mao, he go dey suspect im grandmam sister.











#this is where yoruba movies get some parts of their scripts from#

donroxy: wow, that is a YES .... Ladies and Gentlemen .... !!

Any pastor around here , abeg come and do wedding 4 me

Hahaha you are one hell of a funny guy