Teeo,

Don't you think this thread has the propensity to open up some old wounds?

teeo:

My bad, bro

Accept my apologies mate.

ok

doublegift: A very ugly experience that I don't wish even to my enemy . I have been ganged raped by unknown men in my own house on two occasions by cultists and gunmen. The first incident people blamed me for not putting up a fight then on the second incident I fought back and that happened to be my worst mistake . When i told them over my dead body, i expected to be killed rather I was beaten mercilessly and they had their way. I woke in the hospital with scars all over my body and an almost blind eye.
Imagine meeting someone and he asks what happened to your left eyes, now I tell people I was born like that.

Sad!

I feel like catching those molesters and with my bare hands I will asphyxiate them all.

jnrbayano:

Sad!

I feel like catching those molesters and with my bare hands I will asphyxiate them all.

Life goes on. Some people are just unlucky.

Rαpe is still thought to be a crime against women specifically, but men (boys especially) do get rαped. They most times find it difficult to come out of the problem because it’s a masculine thing to penetrate and not be penetrated. Men get rαped by both male and female but the it’s the rαpe from men that affects the boy more, this doesn’t mean when he is rαped by a woman he isn’t affected.

Let me share a surprising story, when I was a little younger I slept with someone older about 10 years, I wont call it rαpe cause it was mutual but that doesn’t mean I wasn’t scarred. For a long while the female body became an eyesore, it just wasn’t appealing but irritating. I think this is what ladies feel after the have been rαped, they have this sense of withdrawal that tends to make the male organ become more like an irritant. I felt that way, seeing nudes give me this sharp feeling of disgust. Eventually I got over it but I know its way difficult for ladies to get over things like that most especially if physical abuse and pain is involved.

Boys are also abused by supposedly caring adults and family, they are turned into objects of homosexual acts. I just wrote this to make ladies also understand that males could also suffer rαpe.

doublegift:
Life goes on. Some people are just unlucky.

Yes friend. Life goes on most certainly.

But as for the bold, please, don't pass that judgement on thy self.

It is well.

Things To Say To Someone Who Has Been Raped:

"I believe you."

"I'm so sorry this happened to you."

"This is not your fault."

"How can I help?"

"Would you like me to find a support group for you?"

"I'm here if you want to talk."

"I'm here if you don't want to talk."

"You are not alone."
- See more at: http://www.bandbacktogether.com/How-To-Help-Someone-Heal-From-Sexual-Assault/#sthash.tzcYVO5m.dpuf

jnrbayano:

Yes friend. Life goes on most certainly.

But as for the bold, please, don't pass that judgement on thy self.

It is well.

Exactly what this thread is to serve, encourage them to believe in themselves

yungchop: you don't know your mates abi? Don't try shitty talks with me, ok? Did I rap3 your mother? Your sister?? Your wife? Bloody scumbag

Relax bro

jnrbayano: Teeo,

Don't you think this thread has the propensity to open up some old wounds?

So I think..

Smh.

jnrbayano: Teeo,

Don't you think this thread has the propensity to open up some old wounds?

Nope. Actually the more I talk about them the more I feel relieved.

teeo:

Exactly what this thread is to serve, encourage them to believe in themselves

Maybe the mods should move it to health section.

woky: Relax bro

ok

woky: So I think..

Smh.

Most ladies don't talk about it and thats what hurts most. They dont share it and they keep thinking and thinking about it till it becomes a part of them and a daily nightmare. Letting it out makes it smaller and the fear less difficult, she just confirmed it

doublegift:
Nope. Actually the more I talk about them the more I feel relieved.

doublegift: A very ugly experience that I don't wish even to my enemy . I have been ganged raped by unknown men in my own house on two occasions by cultists and gunmen. The first incident people blamed me for not putting up a fight then on the second incident I fought back and that happened to be my worst mistake . When i told them over my dead body, i expected to be killed rather I was beaten mercilessly and they had their way. I woke in the hospital with scars all over my body and an almost blind eye.
Imagine meeting someone and he asks what happened to your left eyes, now I tell people I was born like that.

Sad tale, wat can I say

jnrbayano:

Sad!

I feel like catching those molesters and with my bare hands I will asphyxiate them all.

farabale, what is asphyxiate??

doublegift:
Maybe the mods should move it to health section.

More ladies are here, lots of them have been Rαped, and lots of guys who might have Rαpist tendencies could also learn and hopefully change their ways. We all need to be strong against Rαpe. I cant imagine the sexual satification a Rαpist derives when a lady is clearly over powered

Nice thread sha dats if it will serve its purpose nd not open up wounds as for me thank d lord I've neva had any cause to be raped nd I neva will. My love to rape victims may God heal dem IJN

Rozzay I see you viewing this thread, sorry for what happened the other day, my sincere apology.

teeo: Lets have a mini statistics. Ladies & guys please if you have suffered anything that is close to rαpe or the actual rαpe. Like this post

What's the point exposing once self on a public forum like this? This your thread will open wounds o. Make I dey learn sha.

To whom it may cöncern..just dress decently

yungchop: Rozzay I see you viewing this thread, sorry for what happened the other day, my sincere apology.

Its ok, am sowy too, maybe I over reacted

teeo:

Most ladies don't talk about it and thats what hurts most. They dont share it and they keep thinking and thinking about it till it becomes a part of them and a daily nightmare. Letting it out makes it smaller and the fear less difficult, she just confirmed it

You are right.

Kunleskey: To whom it may cöncern..just dress decently

So d chibok gals who were kidnapped nd raped didn't dress properly abi, pls let's comment reasonably abeg

teeo:

More ladies are here, lots of them have been Rαped, and lots of guys who might have Rαpist tendencies could also learn and hopefully change their ways. We all need to be strong against Rαpe. I cant imagine the sexual satification a Rαpist derives when a lady is clearly over powered

I think rapist get piss and enjoy it the most when you struggle, fight or try to beg them. If you as a girl noticed that help is not forthcoming just relax if you re not ready to lose your life or scarred physically for life.

Kunleskey: To whom it may cöncern..just dress decently

YOU ARE VERY STU.PID AND SENSELESS.

The reason I sometymes don't like threads like dis is becos some people will come out ...as usual nd blame it all on women, does rape have to occur becos she didn't dress properly, responsible men who r here don't u see women dressed scantily like everyday, pls how many have u raped? None so y give rapist an excuse, the robbers who come to pips hus nd rape dem did dey see dem dressed nude b4 dey came. Pls and pls let's stop blaming women for all d problems in d world. All ra pist must rot in hell. AMEN!

doublegift:
YOU ARE VERY STU.PID AND SENSELESS.

Its ok just ignore him, may God neva give any member of his family d reason to get raped.

rozzay:
So d chibok gals who were kidnapped nd raped didn't dress properly abi, pls let's comment reasonably abeg

there's nothing you can do about some issue of rap than to pray and dress decently not to be a victim of rape.

yungchop: farabale, what is asphyxiate??

Choke! Like "strangle" "snuff out oxygen"

rozzay:
So d chibok gals who were kidnapped nd raped didn't dress properly abi, pls let's comment reasonably abeg

Or the ladies raped by highway robbers on their way home didn't dress properly.

Or the student raped in her lodge or on her way to night class didn't dress properly.

Or a sister raped on her way home from night vigil didn't dress properly.

Or a house girl being molester by her oga didn't dress properly.

Or a pupil raped by her teacher didn't dress properly.

doublegift:
YOU ARE VERY STU.PID AND SENSELESS.

am not your type......what a bad attitude..