pussyaddict: Sincerely a nagging wife is really bad I must say. All the men I know going through nagging from their wives describe it as having their self esteem battered

A nagging wife has been medically proven to be one of the causes of her husbands temporary impotence. A man's heart has to be in peace and must have an attraction towards the wife if he must have a full-blown er*ction

However it is usually a problem of rich women or women with almost a greater influence than their husbands. They talk so defensively at the slightest mistake and expect pampering when they're wrong.

On point.

Nagging is as lèthal as cheating. I'm talking about the kind of nagging that will make the spouse at the receiving end not want to come home. Pray to have neither.

Cheating is deadlier bt both is not Good sha

None of the above.

OracleHex: I heard a man say that he prefers a cheating woman to a nagging one.

According to him the tongue of a Nagging wife brings disasters.

What do you think?

nagging one is better for me. the only effect of nagging women in my life is lack of sleep. lol God won't give me any sha.

TOPCRUISE:
From your comments it shows definitely that you are either an extremely cheating or a nagging wife. Quote me if I am wrong. What an excuse! You just put the blame on men without any justification and say they all go into marriage with negative mentality and minus the women from your comment. What if women don't change their attitude they are good to go nagging and cheating

u clearly read the post with an intention to rebut but if u had just read it without a negative mentality you would realise im giving advice not blaming anyone.

They are both Poisons in Different Chalices.
I don't want any of 'em.

I actually get amused by my gf when she is nagginng thou there are times I tell her to shout the hell up of which I will have to later apologies for. I do prefer nag to cheat and day any time and if you know how sexy it make gf when she is nagging you go the want her to nag

Davidbee:


Imagine the level of your mentality

Low or High?

Believe me none is way better than each other, A nagging wife can make a man go crazy, don't ever pray to marry a nagging wife, believe me no matter the money you have you wont enjoy it. A friend of mine lost almost everything he had due to his nagging wife, don't forget most of these nagging women are violent and can go to any length to destroy or ruin your career or your business. A cheating woman on the other hand is Evil. infact both are disastrous, i rather stay unmarried than chose any of the two options

macpetrus: Cheating is worse.. Bt If your wife is not annoying and nagging she's cheating on you bruh.

means she doesn't even love u too

Ifebazz:
Your statement is vague, more light on positivity in marriage please.

i thought encouraging people to have a positive mentality about something is positive, but then again this is NL, its not positive unless its bashing women

for Christ sake, I don't prefer any of the above. both nagging wife and cheating wife are more dangerous than Ebola virus.

A cheating wife is a faster option (if you find out quickly) as you can divorce her or get seperated,BUT a nagging wife is a “long term terminal disease“ I.e you end up suffering in pain yet you likely die before your time.
Plus depending on your temperament and how “crazy“ she is on the nagging side its highly likely you become a chronic wife beater or even a murderer. (Reminds me of that guy accused of stabbing his banker wife to death multiple times.

Jamean: lol..So let us be happy too. Happiness is not restricted to the male gender.

Na so honey; though I av a "but" to add. I would av said it, but let me wait for my turn. #winks

Larow: Nooooooooooooooooo! I prefer a cheating wife to a nagging wife o. In as much as. Both cases are extremely bad, I still hv bases to bounce out a cheating wife and live my life in peace. Even God won't blame me for that, but for a nagging wife! O boy!!!!!! Probably most people don't understand that nagging is a nature and it could be so frustrating to the extent that you have to live with her all your life. Don't pray to have either sha, but if you have an option, go for a cheating wife. Chikena!!!!!

nagging isn't a nature. it pops it's ugly head when either of the partners refuses to listen and understand

GlorifiedTunde:

Not all Nigerian men are the same. Ladies should learn to understand a man before marrying him too. Get a man of maturity and understanding.

@OP: I want my marriage to last like forever, so none of those for me. How about a respectful and faithful wife for a loving, caring, understanding and faithful husband.

thank you for your post, but remember i didn't mention "all" nigerian men, i only directed it to those who actually get married with a negative mentality.

But i agree with you maturity and understanding from both sides is needed to make a marriage work.

Mintayo:
I think if Nigerian women change their attitude towards marriage and their husbands they will be able to enjoy the fruits of their union...

and whats their attitude towards marriage?

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RFella:

Hey babe! Nigerian men are one of the sweetest and the best in the world....we practically hustle for the family, and for our women or gfs as the case may be...just do a survey on this, u"ll attest.....although, a few bad eggs might exist, which happens elsewhere....#Naijarocks

hustling for a family is not all thats required to make a marriage work. Loyalty, understanding, love and commitment are what makes a marriage work. Trust me men anywhere else in the world can hustle for their family just as much, but thats not the only thing that keeps spark in a marriage.

lynpetra: i can see no man wants a cheating wife but their priiccck dey waka up and down like 404 .Today na amaka compound,that evening sef na ruka mama backya.hmmm!

that may be true,but there is also an urban saying that goes "A KEY THAT CAN OPEN MANY CHESTS IS A GOLDMINE,A CHEST MANY KEYS CAN OPEN IS USELESS"

All join

I think most men will generally prefer a nagging wife to a cheating one. Also, shown by the responses on this thread.

Cheating on a man is like stabbing him in the heart; they generally can't take cheating and they find it very hard to forgive.

Nagging, on the other hand, can be managed. After all, the man can decide to give the wife some space when she is in her nagging moods or exercise some patience by taking time to listen to the wife some more.

Nagging is a lesser problem, I think.

fadjnr:

happy birthday bruh. u go last Like first bank

lols....thanks for d wishes....am honoured!™™

sonyc00: that may be true,but there is also an urban saying that goes "A KEY THAT CAN OPEN MANY CHESTS IS A GOLDMINE,A CHEST MANY KEYS CAN OPEN IS USELESS"

and in case you didn't know marriage is a serious commitment thats meant for mature adults not juvenile people who compare themselves to keys and locks

patrickdarlins: am +1 today pipo...help me celebrate.....and also fp tinx.....its wonderful.....happy birthday to me...love ya guys

Many more years †̥ u..

Both

None of the above!

Mondisweets: and in case you didn't marriage is a serious commitment thats meant for mature adults not juvenile people who compare themselves to keys and locks

hey you are getting me wrong,i never said that i agreed with the saying.but its the way many people see it modern society,you cant just deny it.