About a year ago I met this great guy
and we had the most amazing time
together for weeks. We connected so
well and from what I could tell we had
perfect chemistry that every minute
together seemed so perfect. Then
suddenly he changed into a different
person. It was as if he started shutting
me out of his life. He never said why.
He just started treating me like a
nobody loser as if nothing ever
happened between us. Every time I
contacted him or he contacted me I
would share what was happening with
me and do my best to hear what he
said, but it seemed like he just didn’t
really care or have any interest about
me. It was so painful and I felt so
worthless like I was beneath him. I
asked him if everything was okay and if
he didn’t want me to be in his life
anymore but he said nothing was
wrong. Eventually I started feeling like
all that happened between us was a lie.
Eventually I came to terms that
whatever I thought was going to
happen between us was never going to
happen. It wasn’t easy but I accepted it.
Also I realized that the only way I
could love someone else again was to
let go of wanting to be with him. It
took me months but eventually I found
a way.
Now after a year of no explanation,
and rejection he suddenly wants to be
with me, and be part my life again. He
started changing back into the guy I
was falling for, but I feel almost
nothing for him anymore. He has
become nothing more then a shallow
acquaintance and the idea of spending
time with him feels more like a chore
then anything else. Even if he had a
good reason for shutting me out and
even if it wasn’t personal, I don’t think
I could care about him the same way.
If anything I would rather him just go
away so I can start fresh again.
So I guess I am asking. Do you feel it’s
possible to pick up with someone after
you have been rejected by them and
then suddenly wanted by them again?



andyblaze student

Happens all the time. Its even happening to you now. You just cant help it

I will advise you when you graduate.

He might have "stories that touch the ear" issues of the heart maybe from his previous relatnshp and he hasn't been able to push it aside...Now that he has come to realisation,







*No sane dog goes back to it's vomit*

Oh,andyblaze's candidate,rubbish.

Once I've been rejected, I don't want them anymore.

Not until he tells ya what went wrong and why he treated you like one who worth nothing, one can't just walk out of a person life thinking they can always have their way back, even if they do they have to explain; why they left, reason why they are back, why they think they deserve you to have them back and a considerate form of assurance that they won't be a re-occurrence. Ordinarily, its not advisable to get back together with an ex especially when they left without any reason but then we all deserve a second chance in life. All the best!

^^^
For real? You took the op seriously. Are you a novice in this section?

After a while of dating u, he met wit a "great girl" whom he felt ws beta dan u, after she (great girl) ws tru with him, she dumpd him, nw he is bak to u.

smh...............

Tallesty1:
I will advise you when you graduate.

ÚŔ ŤŐo ŔĔÁŚŐŃÁßĹĔ, PĹČ ĎŐŃŤ ŴÁŚŤĔ ŶŐÚŔ ÁĎVĨČĔ ŐŃ Á ČĹŐŴŃ.

No matter what he tells u..just move, cos such event is likely to re-occur again in the near future...its termed the law of diminishing returns...u used scarcity to retrieve back you respect in his life but I don't see him as a matured fellow...so just move on!

Op called herself andyblaze student and peeps here are still taking her serious.

Nice story, good trolling effort. You are learning fast.

Response 4rm an andyblaze(tot d name used 2 b andybest but wateva) graduate:
He's smooth, saw a fresh babe he wants 2 conquer, conquered her in no tym and moved on 2 d next target. Kept on wit dat trend until he met some1 dat wasnt easy 2 conquer, remembered his recent easiest prey, went back to her wit his usual smooth guy act again(dis was d mistake, he shoulda used another format) so as 2 reassure himself dat he's still in d game. But i guess d prey's smarter now(i could b wrong though).
This is just d end of part 1. Plz let us know wen parts 2, 3 and 4 come out. I'm sure 3 and 4 will av a different title.

Now these girls know there is something likd "don't ever do that".
If a guy had seeked this same advise,they'll all be like; "Op,she might hv a good reason", "maybe she was testing you" or hell"Op,if you love her,just take her bck"




anyways,on topic-...Op,if you don't really feel anything for him,then you don't really need any advice. Or,if you think you might develop those feelings again. Fine

WTH is this?!?!

Lies as usual...