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7 Truthful Things We Men Don't Tell Women by worlexy(m): 9:50pm On Oct 05, 2014
When you communicate with men you should always keep in
mind that we don’t tell you girls everything we think. I must admit
that women are considered to be more talkative and emotional
than men. Sometimes it can be a real problem for some men to
express their feelings and emotions. We can’t find appropriate
words to tell the woman we like. However, it is possible to find
a man who will easily share all his thoughts with you. But even
these communicative guys can’t speak about all the truthful
things. Here you will find some of them.
1. You are so beautiful
Certainly, women melt when men tell them compliments. But
there are some guys who can do that perfectly, while others find
it really difficult. A girl once said "I met different boys in my life. Though, only one
of them could make me happy with his pleasant words." It’s so
important for girls to hear how pretty and beautiful they are.
After that, their self-esteem increases greatly. Sometimes a girl
can be extremely disappointed as she tried hard to do an
excellent make-up for some special occasion and nobody
appreciated her great efforts. In contrast to this, there can be
such situations when she doesn't pay much attention to her
appearance, she simply get up in the morning, do not do any
make-up or hairdo, but still some men can find lots of ways to
tell that her she's beautiful.
2. "I miss you"
I’m sure that if a boy really loves a girl he will always tell her
how much he misses her. No doubt that all the girls become
excited on hearing or reading words about that. If your boy can
easily say to you “I miss you”, you are really lucky. Usually, it
costs a lot of efforts for men to admit their true feelings. For
most of us, that is the matter of their pride. Most guys will
never say they miss you as we consider it to be a shame and
weakness. Predominance in the relationship is the most
important for us. Such men do everything possible to hide
their true emotions. What should you do if your boyfriend is one
of them? Simply take the initiative in your hands, break the ice
and say first that you miss him. This tactics works perfectly.
3. "I can’t be alone"
A lot of women get nervous of being alone when they become
older. It will be a big surprise for you, but some men also worry
about this issue. Most men are
afraid of being alone when they grow older. We can see that both
men and women have the same fears and feelings. The
difference is that men won’t always express all their emotions
and thoughts.
4. We don’t like your male-friends
If you go out with your friends among whom there are also male-
friends, don’t expect that your man won’t be jealous. Certainly,
he will. Just he is strong enough not to show you all his worries.
Besides, when your boyfriend feels jealous about you that means
he has some doubts concerning your love. You should remember
that there are two types of boys: those who can be mad because
of their jealousy and those who will never express their real
feelings. Perhaps you think your man doesn’t love you enough as
every time when you meet with your male-friends he doesn’t tell
anything and never objects. Don’t jump to conclusions, maybe
your boy find it difficult to speak about that subject with you. Be
sure, he is always jealous even without any good reasons.

5. Our nights out are not always great entertainment for us
Whenever we go out to see our friends and spend a night
with them at a club or some bar, we become crazy and jealous.
Usually, girls imagine that lots of women will be around their guy
and speak all night and flirt with him. Actually, this is wrong
opinion. In most cases, men go out for boy’s night for relaxing
and chatting with the mates. A lady narrated "When my boyfriend
comes back after such meetings, he says that he was bad
without me and it would be better for him to spend the night out
with me in some cozy restaurant."
That’s why you should not get angry at your sweetheart when he wants to have some night out
with his friends.



6. Concern about the right choice in their life
All people think about their achievements and success they’ve
reached at some certain age. When we become mature, we begin
to analyze what was right and what was wrong and what could
be changed. We men are also the same. Our worries and aims
are not different from yours, we only don’t speak often about
them or don’t speak at all. It happens so that sometimes we
need more time to understand what we want in our life and
make right choice. It is necessary for men and women to figure
out their life path and follow it until they are 30 years old.

7. You are too emotional when you have Premenstrual Tension(PMT)
If you have a caring and loving man in your life, he will always
understand that involving you in some meaningful conversation
during your PMT is not a good idea. It’s not a secret for you how
nervous, irritable and scary you can be these days. But your
ideal man will never tell you that. He will try hard to keep calm
and reserved even at such terrible moments when you can cry
and shout at him without any reason. Ladies should be proud of us
patient men as that is really hard work to cope with your your monthly
mood swings.
Now you can understand that for some men, it can be hard to
show their feelings and share their thoughts. You should never
make your boyfriend guilty because of that. He surely loves you
very much and he is quite emotional guy, just he can’t speak so
easily about certain things. In order to know men better you need
some time and experience. Do you have a boyfriend? Does he
often express his feelings and emotions or does he try to hide
them from you?
Re: 7 Truthful Things We Men Don't Tell Women by ERCROSS(m): 9:55pm On Oct 05, 2014
Broz...
Na only u type all diz tinz ?
Mehn. U try ooo..
Moral of the story...:: learn to shorten ur essays next time
Re: 7 Truthful Things We Men Don't Tell Women by Nobody: 9:58pm On Oct 05, 2014
Not all though .
Re: 7 Truthful Things We Men Don't Tell Women by oluwato69sin(m): 9:59pm On Oct 05, 2014
You want the chick to be feeling like mbgnabi mtcheew
Re: 7 Truthful Things We Men Don't Tell Women by Nobody: 9:59pm On Oct 05, 2014
ERCROSS:
Broz...
Na only u type all diz tinz ?
Mehn. U try ooo..
Moral of the story...:: learn to shorten ur essays next time


dear readers are leaders , I learnt that in the hard way .smiley
Re: 7 Truthful Things We Men Don't Tell Women by urcutecrush(f): 12:07am On Oct 06, 2014
Tanx OP.learning ways to understand my future husband better wink

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