BananaBender:


It can change, starting from you. Change your mindset, you are only thinking like the product of the society you grew up in. One way to do that, is my encouraging and teaching gender equality in social institutions.

okotv:
only someone with an open mind would understand this.

Fkforyou:
. Funny as it may sound,sometimes when am having all this random thoughts in my head,I use to wonder if I would be able to forgive my wife if she cheats on me,cos from that day on any attraction I have for her might wear off,infact I used to have this wierd this thinking that after our wedding am going to have a heart to heart discussion with my wife on the kind of husband and father she wants me to be in essence her expections of me. And when is my turn, am going to let her know(I.e one of my expectations on her) I prefer she ask for divorce than for her to cheat on me. This might sound wierd to some people esp for married folks anyway its just a thought as well as my personal opinion.

MzMariah:
I wish.

Well I love to dream big.

timawoku:

QED

MzMariah:
I wish.

Well I love to dream big.

timawoku:
no mind am o, peops in naija can't even smoke cigarettes outside in naija without being 'termed'...society rules Nigerians, it only takes an 'eagle eyes' to see your point MzMariah

timawoku:
no mind am o, peops in naija can't even smoke cigarettes outside in naija without being 'termed'...society rules Nigerians, it only takes an 'eagle eyes' to see your point MzMariah

BananaBender:


Not even close. The society is me and you. You might not see the change in your generation but it will surely reflect in that of your kids.

ihedinobi2:
If the fact that she had sexuäl partners before we got married can make me livid, we can safely assume that there'll be hell to pay if she cheats.

As far as I'm concerned, a woman's body is like the Temple in Jerusalem and her you-know-what is the Holy of Holies. And there cannot be two high priests in this matter.

Me fa, I respectfully limit my ministry to one temple. Too bad about my past but my future is spoken for.

MzMariah:
I believe it will change, there is never a day I don't say the prayer for Nigeria in distress even if i don't fo for mass so it will change.


Dreaming big is my dream.

BananaBender:


The problem is prayer cannot do anything to save Nigeria. Stop praying and start taking an active role like changing your mentality and that of everyone you can influence.

It's sad that gender equality and fairness is now a 'dream', equality between genders should be a mandated right.

F117A:
I kinda agree.
A cheating wife has just succeeded in destroying the psyche of the husband.
The fact that sex is emotional for women makes it worse.
The man will probably run mad overthinking it, especially if he was in love.

smokescreen4:
I like you banana bender it is dis kind of mindset mzmariah has that will continue to put women in Nigeria where they are now, prayer for Nigeria in distress my foot.

MzMariah:
And what has a cheating man succeeded in doing?

Cheating is cheating jor.

bukatyne:


If you a Christian that should educate the world is saying this, then all hope is lost

Thankfully, during the OT when it seemed women were worthless, God'a puniahment was equal for the adulterous men and women.

In the NT, we were told that our bodies was the temple of the Holy Spirit without been gender specific, then I do not get the women are more 'honorable, templelike etc'

@OP:

Jesus Christ that paid for us with His blood sef did not see it as a justification to do as He likes

It is all good

MzMariah:
I never said I support cheating from anybody, I only said the society where I am they believe a man can cheat but a woman can't so make nobody dey call my moniker like say I talk say e good for men to cheat o. Wetin concern abgero with overload.

okotv:
you have seriously been misunderstood so just take it in your stride....good evening ma

MzMariah:
Ok.

Good evening dear. Hope your day went well? Thanks for your suggestion (my diary name), God bless.

bebe2:
I kind of see ur point.

Se-x in marriage is sacred like u said.

Most men will never touch the woman again if they find out they slept wit someone else.

Call it bride or watever u like but the fact is wat drives a woman to infidelity is totally different from wat drives a man.

We will all agree that most men think wiy their pe-nis, once the thing done stand something need to bring am down regardless of the consequences. And most times these actions have no emotional involvement.

Buutttt before woman open leg for another man, e don weigh am, calculate am, manipulate and and decide say its worth doing.

And once she try am once, she go hardly stop am. Even science says there is a certain hormone thats secreted during se-x dats imbibes the memory of the man in her for a very very long time.

So which man wants to be competing with dat??