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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by nerodenero: 5:49pm On Oct 09, 2014
This is an example of a family one should pray never to get married to.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Siga: 5:49pm On Oct 09, 2014
.... This grandmother don turn herself to International Fugitive... She has landed herself in hot hot soup... U fly enter UK to kdnap pikin... yawa... Even if una wan fight for custody of a child u didnt want years ago... No way to win now...

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Heyliesha(m): 5:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
#bringbackourcutechild.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by JuicyGee(f): 5:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
The granny face no easy o. Hard woman cheesy
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by samjbo: 5:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
The Lord is her strength.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by ifymusa(f): 5:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
This is not gud oh person wit her piki again? Were d gma dey wen her son give d gal belle? Why she no carry d gal n care for her that time but she fit come carry piki hmmmm

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by PRINCEHPXP(m): 5:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
na UK she dey dats why d Grandma Get power if na Naija *Hehehe u knw wat a naija woman can do in naija na* Dat Grandma for don dey even Beg by nw and d child self na dullert
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by natureblack(m): 5:59pm On Oct 09, 2014
olayincar:


how do you know she was instructed to abort the pregnancy

That's her side of the story which we know MIGHT be short of truth.Nonetheless,that has not warranted the adoption. sad


I believe there are some missing facts to this story undecided

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by buoye1(m): 5:59pm On Oct 09, 2014
Calculated wickedness!!!! May God help u woman

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by fireforfire: 6:04pm On Oct 09, 2014
May God punish d granma and her yeye son.
imagine d pain dis lady wil be going thru now
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by morbid: 6:11pm On Oct 09, 2014
Grandmothers wanting grandchildren since the time of amalgamation of Northern and Southern protectorates.Grandmothers are responsible for fifteen percent of tensions in marriages and ten percent of occasions of divorce in many failed marriages in Nigeria;research has proved.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 6:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
every story has two sides and as far as i'm concerned i have only heard one,secondly the child does not belong to only you,it belongs to the father and the mother in that order as Africans,so please dont think uk law applies in nigeria.if you have a problem with his family,i advice you go and mend fences not come online

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by ugoezeik(m): 6:21pm On Oct 09, 2014
Raymondenyi:
She should give aa bettter description of d grand mum's locaation; so I can go on a bounty hunt; wth my dane gun... N bring them to her...



(I hope she's rich n can pay well)
so na evritin u de use play ehhhh? let me c ur let on nairAland again u wil c werin I go du u
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:22pm On Oct 09, 2014
Story is not adding up. How come she cannot name the father and grandmother? How come she does not know their Nigeria address or relatives? How is it that her own family are not involved? And how did the grandmother get on the plane with the child? Just like that?

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by ugoezeik(m): 6:23pm On Oct 09, 2014
Kunbee:
She is going about it the wrong way, so if i see Lili's dad tomorrow will i just walk up to him and shout 'kidnapper'

I feel her pain tho
lol u no well I swear
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by NwaNimo1(m): 6:23pm On Oct 09, 2014
If true, Nigerian EMBASSY (london) needs to call Govt House, (Rivers) who then need to dispatch a 'kidnap recovery team' to the grandma's address.

Hope the woman at least knows her surname and rough location in 'Port'

I have pity for the girl but also sympathy - seems she had unprotected sex out of marriage with a useless man with a wicked mother.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by abbakacici: 6:25pm On Oct 09, 2014
fireforfire:
May God punish d granma and her yeye son.
imagine d pain dis lady wil be going thru now
why you guys like going to conclusion before hearing the whole story. let assumed he actually ask her to aborted the child but she refuse that does stop him from being the child father. and after 2 years he realise his mistake and want to take responsible and for some reasons he can't stay in the uk. you guys should know he has zero chance of winning a Child custody in UK because he has to proof that Nigeria is better environment for the child to grow than UK and the term ‘parental responsibility’ is used to describe all the rights and duties that parents have towards their children, for example, in making choices regarding:
Their education
Choice of religion or atheism
Acceptance or refusal of medical treatment

What will happens in the court room?

If he go to court he will need to explain his reasons for wanting custody. This is done in front of a ‘family panel’, which usually consists of three magistrates.

The magistrates will ask each parent questions about why you want custody and what your proposed arrangements would be. They will ask about how you will care for and provide for the child.

What will the solicitors ask me?

The solicitors for the other parent can ask questions about his lifestyle, finances, home arrangements, etc. They may also bring up any potential problems, such as violence, neglect or poor communication.

A court welfare officer may be appointed to assess the family home life (which will be in Nigeria) and provide a report to the family panel on how he care and interact with the child. They may also speak to the child to learn where they would like to live and why.

If he can't reach an agreement, the courts can make orders under Section 8 of the Children Act 1989. It is always advisable to have representation in court since appeals to the court are very expensive if something goes wrong on the day. Getting it right the first time with a specialist solicitor can save you time and money in the long run.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by echobee(f): 6:25pm On Oct 09, 2014
Wicked world
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by ugoezeik(m): 6:25pm On Oct 09, 2014
bigt2:
Nairalanders spring to help with posts. We have many emotions warriors here now! Lol smiley
hahahahahalol u no well

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:26pm On Oct 09, 2014
D grandma looks lyk a witch sef, evil soul.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:27pm On Oct 09, 2014
Bleep. The ehiemeres are a family friend.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:29pm On Oct 09, 2014
How do you guys know the lady herself is saying the truth? Does she has any credibility? If care is not taken, the baby was taken away from her because she was deemed to be unfit to raise the baby.

More over, I'm not sure she is the sole custodian of the baby, let alone has anything to offer the little girl. If she had a case, a lawyer would have taken it up by now.

This might be another case of free-loader desperately using unsuspecting victim to take care of her ravish lifestyle, by using the baby as a blackmailing tool.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by 50calibre(m): 6:30pm On Oct 09, 2014
Off course she's heart broken, her meal ticket was seized from her, this could affect the housing and child care benefits she gets.

Temmy you need to calm down, your baby is safe hands, her nan obviously wants her to have a proper upbringing which arguably, you're unable to provide.

Lets not get carried away, we are Nigerians & we know according to Nigerian custom, the man owns the kid.

Be nice & focus on your Uni, with time you will re-establish contact with your kid

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by ugoezeik(m): 6:30pm On Oct 09, 2014
morbid:
Grandmothers wanting grandchildren since the time of amalgamation of Northern and Southern protectorates.Grandmothers are responsible for fifteen percent of tensions in marriages and ten percent of occasions of divorce in many failed marriages in Nigeria;research has proved.
lol. my popcorn nd akara don fall troway wen I dey laff. u no well I swear
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by ugoezeik(m): 6:31pm On Oct 09, 2014
how I wish sun, punch, vanguard and it brodas go carry dis news.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:34pm On Oct 09, 2014
cry undecided
aww wicked indeed
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by EbolaParasite: 6:39pm On Oct 09, 2014
I really don't know the guilty party and frankly, i don't care.
What i care about is how the grandmother was able to board the flight with the baby. This is a pure case of Kidnap. If you take somburris child without their consent, it is called kidnapping and you could be jailed for it. All she needs to do is report to the police and they'll take it from there.

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by shizzle11(m): 6:41pm On Oct 09, 2014
Now this is sad
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by homesteady(m): 6:41pm On Oct 09, 2014
how did she manage to pass through airport security?

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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 6:41pm On Oct 09, 2014
I just don't understand the granny's plan.
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by markfish10(m): 6:47pm On Oct 09, 2014
#Bring back our girl

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