I create this topic some weeks back https://www.nairaland.com/1926248/event-planner-needed
So I added komfortojo with a frnds whatsapp number.. ill paste our chats below so you all can read and let me know what I said or did to warrant her insult.. cause I dont get it atal

[11:26AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Good morning my oga
[11:26AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Nice to have you here
[11:28AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Ok
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: When pls
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Your location
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Num of guests and budget
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: We work with clients budget
[11:34AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: Hi, good morning, this is amokeme 4rm nairaland
[11:37AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: Thank you.. I want to have a 21st birthday party
[11:43AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: 25th of oct... like 15guests, (I just want somthing small but really nice) the budget, Iv not done any planning b4 so I dont have an idea.. you could help me with a price range
[11:52AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: ??
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Dj
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: ​B3 low tho
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Where's d venue
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Let's it be a buffet party
[6:01PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Had a low battery
[6:01PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Hello
[6:01PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Sorry
[6:29AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Good morning.. is buffet possible? Cause I want the venue in lekki leisure resort
[7:26AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: We do varieties then
[7:32AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Madam, but I need to have a budget am working with pls to make things easier
[7:38AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Owk, so how is it going to be
[7:59AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Sorry mercy
[8:01AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Tell me what's on your mind
[8:02AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: D kind kind of party u want
[8:08AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: My name is mercy
[8:09AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Normally, how much ll cover, like I said, iv not done anything like this b4 so just give me a price range
[8:21AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: I just want it simple yet classy or if you have any idea you could help
[8:41AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Okay, let's do asun, chops, shawama, fried chips & chicken then drinks
[8:41AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Dj
[8:46AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Roasted goat meat
[8:53AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Whats asun?
[8:58AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Ohk... thats owk, buh I wont need a dj. I think they should have that at the resort
[9:04AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Ok
[10:50PM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Gd even ma
[8:12AM, 10/2/2014] Event Planner 2: I called your num, it was switched off
[8:13AM, 10/2/2014] Event Planner 2: Seems you just want to get information from me dats why I don't entertain on line business
[12:02PM, 10/2/2014] Event Planner 2: How can we chat then
[12:11PM, 10/2/2014] joyce majam: You cant reach me with the number, am in sch, covenant university.
[12:12PM, 10/2/2014] joyce majam: ill call in the evening after my classes.
[7:25AM, 10/3/2014] Event Planner 2: Gd morning
[12:35PM, 10/3/2014] Event Planner 2: You are very smart, thumb up for u
[6:51PM, 10/3/2014] joyce majam: Smart asin? I dont get
[7:45PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: Lies? Really?
[7:45PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Hello
[7:46PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: How was your day
[7:46PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Have not heard from you
[7:47PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Went to lekki resort but was told dat all the information you said wete lies
[7:47PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: Engage you?? Are you kidding me
[7:48PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Next time pls don't engage me in nonsense stuff like this
[7:49PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: Pls what information did you give me that I cant get online if I was not serious? This was the number I called07087925587
[7:50PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: I can give you rhe managers number
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Its a lesson for me sha
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: At least you have gotten d information u wanted
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Dats why I don't entertain clients on line
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: You need to be really educated whn it comes to business, cause yoy certainly know nothing abt it.
Am not replying any of ur msges.
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: You are talking to an ADULT pls
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Pls stop dose stuff
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Don't provoke me
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Enough of all these flattering pls
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Good nite
[7:57PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: You lack manners, I pray your parents don't gry over you cos you don't know how to talk to elders
[7:57PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Am not your mate and pls watch what you type
[7:57PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: A word is ebough for the wise

Hmmmm

naturally:
Hmmmm

was I rude in anyway?

Something's totally not right...... Tis gud diaz a big fullstop @ d end of dat chat.. It shud end dia

You prolly should've told her you can only communicate in the evenings. She actually thought you just stole her idea of an ideal birthday bash menu and went A.W.O.L on her butt. Having said that, a professional planner, with whom you should deal, will almost never show contempt, even if you insult her intelligence. Way forward is to reach a more professional person and let them know the only times they can reach you or you, them, from the get-go.

Rocktation:
You prolly should've told her you can only communicate in the evenings. She actually thought you just stole her idea of an ideal birthday bash menu and went A.W.O.L on her butt. Having said that, a professional planner, with whom you should deal, will almost never show contempt, even if you insult her intelligence. Way forward is to reach a more professional person and let them know the only times they can reach you or you, them, from the get-go.

I was just being honest whn I said ill reach he in the evening and I actually called her. Anyways, thanks for pointing that out

what happened is "self fulfilling prophecy" she had an unconcious (maybe concious) imagination in mind... that you were out to get info from her... as things unfolded and you just seemed to prove her imaginations right... its a psychological something...
even if you were out to steal info from her, dat isnt the best way to respond since she claims to be an elder.

moreover, what's so special about her idea?

Archmage:
what happened is "self fulfilling prophecy" she had an unconcious (maybe concious) imagination in mind... that you were out to get info from her... as things unfolded and you just seemed to prove her imaginations right... its a psychological something...
even if you were out to steal info from her, dat isnt the best way to respond since she claims to be an elder.

moreover, what's so special about her idea?

I still don't understand the 'idea' cos I could just have gotten what she told me randomly 4rm anywhere...

you can call me on 07034743243..am an event planner/decorator..or send me a mail on doyinposhevents@gmail.com with what you want and your budget.thanks


quote author=amokeme post=27061602][11:26AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Good morning my oga
[11:26AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Nice to have you here
[11:28AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Ok
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: When pls
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Your location
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Num of guests and budget
[11:29AM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: We work with clients budget
[11:34AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: Hi, good morning, this is amokeme 4rm nairaland
[11:37AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: Thank you.. I want to have a 21st birthday party
[11:43AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: 25th of oct... like 15guests, (I just want somthing small but really nice) the budget, Iv not done any planning b4 so I dont have an idea.. you could help me with a price range
[11:52AM, 9/30/2014] joyce majam: ??
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Dj
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: ​B3 low tho
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Where's d venue
[5:55PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Let's it be a buffet party
[6:01PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Had a low battery
[6:01PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Hello
[6:01PM, 9/30/2014] Event Planner 2: Sorry
[6:29AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Good morning.. is buffet possible? Cause I want the venue in lekki leisure resort
[7:26AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: We do varieties then
[7:32AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Madam, but I need to have a budget am working with pls to make things easier
[7:38AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Owk, so how is it going to be
[7:59AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Sorry mercy
[8:01AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Tell me what's on your mind
[8:02AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: D kind kind of party u want
[8:08AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: My name is mercy
[8:09AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Normally, how much ll cover, like I said, iv not done anything like this b4 so just give me a price range
[8:21AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: I just want it simple yet classy or if you have any idea you could help
[8:41AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Okay, let's do asun, chops, shawama, fried chips & chicken then drinks
[8:41AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Dj
[8:46AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Roasted goat meat
[8:53AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Whats asun?
[8:58AM, 10/1/2014] joyce majam: Ohk... thats owk, buh I wont need a dj. I think they should have that at the resort
[9:04AM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Ok
[10:50PM, 10/1/2014] Event Planner 2: Gd even ma
[8:12AM, 10/2/2014] Event Planner 2: I called your num, it was switched off
[8:13AM, 10/2/2014] Event Planner 2: Seems you just want to get information from me dats why I don't entertain on line business
[12:02PM, 10/2/2014] Event Planner 2: How can we chat then
[12:11PM, 10/2/2014] joyce majam: You cant reach me with the number, am in sch, covenant university.
[12:12PM, 10/2/2014] joyce majam: ill call in the evening after my classes.
[7:25AM, 10/3/2014] Event Planner 2: Gd morning
[12:35PM, 10/3/2014] Event Planner 2: You are very smart, thumb up for u
[6:51PM, 10/3/2014] joyce majam: Smart asin? I dont get
[7:45PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: Lies? Really?
[7:45PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Hello
[7:46PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: How was your day
[7:46PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Have not heard from you
[7:47PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Went to lekki resort but was told dat all the information you said wete lies
[7:47PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: Engage you?? Are you kidding me
[7:48PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Next time pls don't engage me in nonsense stuff like this
[7:49PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: Pls what information did you give me that I cant get online if I was not serious? This was the number I called07087925587
[7:50PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: I can give you rhe managers number
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Its a lesson for me sha
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: At least you have gotten d information u wanted
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Dats why I don't entertain clients on line
[7:51PM, 10/11/2014] joyce majam: You need to be really educated whn it comes to business, cause yoy certainly know nothing abt it.
Am not replying any of ur msges.
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: You are talking to an ADULT pls
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Pls stop dose stuff
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Don't provoke me
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Enough of all these flattering pls
[7:52PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Good nite
[7:57PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: You lack manners, I pray your parents don't gry over you cos you don't know how to talk to elders
[7:57PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: Am not your mate and pls watch what you type
[7:57PM, 10/11/2014] Event Planner 2: A word is ebough for the wise[/quote]

Now I fear contacting the event planners here.

You didn't do nothing wrong; let's just say you weren't very lucky with the event planner your thread got you.

New9jabeb:
Now I fear contacting the event planners here.

not all nigerian planners are like that.obviously the person she contacted wasnt a professionally trained event planner.every one just comes here claiming to be a planner meanwhile they lack professional etiquettes on how to deal with an intending client or bride to be.

amokeme:
I create this topic some weeks back https://www.nairaland.com/1926248/event-planner-needed
So I added komfortojo with a frnds whatsapp number.. ill paste our chats below so you all can read and let me know what I said or did to warrant her insult.. cause I dont get it atal

I c u a hebronite, y dnt u do it in scul, preferably caf 2, u pay d peeps dere 2 set it up 4 u. Unless ur bday falls during holidays u cud do it at elsewhr, bt 2 make it organizd u can do it at any eatry of ur choice, all u nid do is contact dem b4 hand, u dnt need any event planner.

prettyboi1989:

I c u a hebronite, y dnt u do it in scul, preferably caf 2, u pay d peeps dere 2 set it up 4 u. Unless ur bday falls during holidays u cud do it at elsewhr, bt 2 make it organizd u can do it at any eatry of ur choice, all u nid do is contact dem b4 hand, u dnt need any event planner.

thanks.... . What yr are you?

amokeme:
thanks.... . What yr are you?

m an eagle, done since 2yrs ago. U bn 2 d new eds building? Dat place is chilling I was der on tuesday.

prettyboi1989:
m an eagle, done since 2yrs ago. U bn 2 d new eds building? Dat place is chilling I was der on tuesday.

cool..

amokeme:
cool..

Yh, wbu wat year?

prettyboi1989:

Yh, wbu wat year?

3

amokeme:
3

Cool u almst done, op em rules aint much of a pain in d ass

prettyboi1989:

Cool u almst done, op em rules aint much of a pain in d ass

nah... they are not for me so I dont have a problem

amokeme:
nah... they are not for me so I dont have a problem

That's good, will get in touch wif u later. Off I go

amokeme:
nah... they are not for me so I dont have a problem

Hallo, ow ya doin, ow wz ur dae

prettyboi1989:

Hallo, ow ya doin, ow wz ur dae

fine thank you

amokeme:
fine thank you

Okies, Wat course u studyn tho

prettyboi1989:

Okies, Wat course u studyn tho

bus admin...

amokeme:
bus admin...

Oh rili, I was in cubasa too

prettyboi1989:

Oh rili, I was in cubasa too

:Dthats great!

amokeme:
:Dthats great!

Hiya, ow u doing? Been a while, ow has ur exams been? Yea I knw u guys av started ur exams. Erm do u knw any1 in eco 300lvl, am looking for som1 bt dunno ow 2 find ha bt she in eco 300lvl

amokeme:
:Dthats great!

Still waiting for ur response

prettyboi1989:

Still waiting for ur response

name?