coogar:
this zboyd must love family conflicts....she never gets tired of yeye threads such as this one.

Arsenate:
zboyd you are a very bitter human being. I don't envy yo
ur likes....

Arsenate:
zboyd you are a very bitter human being. I don't envy your likes....

zboyd:


ahn ahn...I don't do bitter...as I have NOTHING to be bitter about.

Now...why not just come out and say what it is you REALLY want to say?

I prefer directness, rather than beating around the bush.

Why do you say I am a very bitter human being?

What do you mean by "I don't envy your likes"?

Does this have anything to do with a character assessment?

Please feel free to expand on your opinion of ME - someone you don't know from Eve.

I'm not easily offended.

Thanks in advance!

oyihou:


Your right She is Bitter person

I Try not to Comment On Her thread because

Misery is contagious.

Just ignor Her Post and nothing will Happen.

coogar:


i think it's about the kinda threads you love to put up. can you dedicate one month just for the positive things in marriage, instead of the negatives?

your topics mostly bounce in & out of divorce, domestic violence, infidelity & other marital vices. if this is what you see all the time, then i think it's high time you move away from such noxious environment.

Odilafta:
Summary of thread;
Love gone sour. Zboyd would be like'' who send me open this thread? I don find their trouble''

cococandy:
I looooove zboyd's threads. They address issues bluntly.
And all these bad marriage stuff happens all the time so why not talk about them often?

I don't know why people have a problem with that.
Or what warrants the personal attacks.

Attacking an anonymous posters personal life with no proof(or even with proof) reeks more of the so called bitterness. IMO

SAMBARRY:
You dey mind them. When it's about women, they have a field day, when it's about men she must either be bitter, a sadist or a feminist. Me I like her threads too and I don't see anything wrong with what she's typed and fair enough she has asked them to point out what they find wrong about her post, cat has bitten their Tonge. Them no fit rant again

zboyd:


ahn ahn...I don't do bitter...as I have NOTHING to be bitter about.

Now...why not just come out and say what it is you REALLY want to say?

I prefer directness, rather than beating around the bush.

Why do you say I am a very bitter human being?

What do you mean by "I don't envy your likes"?

Does this have anything to do with a character assessment?

Please feel free to expand on your opinion of ME - someone you don't know from Eve.

I'm not easily offended.

Thanks in advance!

Misogynist2014:
Marriage is not between two people, get your fact right. As a man, if you are reading this thread, if your wife has became facts right o. make boring, marry another one. Don't let churches brainwash you, there is no place in Bible which tells us polygamy is bad. Monogamy itself is the cause of most problems we face in Nigeria. Most men live in perpetual state of self denial and have external affairs, which polygamy could have prevented. If your wife is not contented, let her divorce.
Therefore, zboyd, when next you write like this, put it at the back of your mind that polygamy exist.

SAMBARRY:
Same way polyandry exists, who even told you wives of polygamous men are always faithful to their husbands. Na them dey do play away match pass con hang am for their husband neck. Na quarter to get to the grave na im he go know



Get your facts right make them no call uyo oyo for you

Misogynist2014:
The fact is that when NL guys stop replying to these harmlessly stupid posts, that is when you will wither like the hairs of a dead goat. I don't know you, but I know you must be indigent, anencephalous, paunchy, ugly and stùpìd .

SAMBARRY:
chaiiii e pain am



hobiiii

Misogynist2014:
I think you are suffering from glaucoma, cos if your eyes is working, you will know that it was my first comment on this thread.
Wahala tie niyen.hobiiiiiiiii






















Sorry o.

Misogynist2014:
I think you are suffering from glaucoma, cos if your eyes is working, you will know that it was my first comment on this thread.























Sorry o.

Misogynist2014:
Polyandrists in Nigeria Who cares if my wife is loyal or not? Once she doesn't bring home bastards and STDs, she's free to fùck her stinky meat anywhere while I command respect with my joystick.





I'm gonna stop at 10 wives.

SAMBARRY:
Her posshie is stinking and smelling but you inserted your pheneese into that smelling phoosie and you still went ahead to marry her



So who's head is not correct. A beg go and sidan

zboyd:

Unfortunately, as a married woman, divorce, domestic violence, infidelity & other marital vices IS all around me. Long-standing marriages like mine are the exception, here in the States, not the rule. The breakdown of marriages in the Nigerian Diaspora has been pointed out time and time again, here on NL, other websites and offline as well and it's no joke. Truth is truth, bitter as it may be.

The marital issues I post about are very real in the Nigerian/African/Immigrant communities over here. These are issues which are usually swept under the rug - time and time again. It's all hush-hush. Not many want to talk about them, let alone acknowledge them. Why do you think more and more Nigerian marriage and family counselors are addressing these issues, in the Nigerian Diaspora? They don't want Nigerian marriages to go the way of Western marriages.

The positives of marriage are well-displayed in their level of happiness, longevity and the emotional health of the overall family. You can't fake that. It's the negatives of marriage that are causing unhappiness, separations and divorces and many immigrant couples need help navigating those rough waters. It's no easy thing trying to maintain a marriage in a foreign country. You know it's serious when churches and other organizations get involved.

Feel good topics are just that, to make you feel good, but sometimes they only mask serious issues.
The more you know - the more you know.
Knowledge is power!

coogar:


you? married woman?
unless you are married to a lesbian, there's nothing in your attitude that remotely suggests you are in a normal marriage. you pay far too much attention to the negativity in marriage for you to be in a happy one.



many don't want to talk about them cos you have talked & talked and you rarely provide solution in your monologues. what exactly have you done to reduce these issues that you claim are swept under the rug? scouring the internet to put up articles that scare off people from marriage is not how to go about it. if you once made a wrong choice of partner, it's your fault, don't drag others into your fückery!



so when have you ever showcased the positives of marriage? at least - a balanced situation report is what you should be arriving at. the message should be - "marriage, if worked upon, can be a blessing" but all we ever hear from you is doom & gloom.

you are happily married to a responsible husband but every other man around you is irresponsible, a lying cheat or a domestic abuser? you must be the luckiest woman in the world. it's funny how women like you put up a facade of a happy home & yet know more than 1 million friends having marital crises.




there's nothing you type here that we haven't seen before. the only thing you haven't done is to campaign that people shouldn't even marry at all because marriage is outdated.

i have never learnt a dime in any of your gloomy articles - at best, they are cringe-worthy, they lack a balanced perspective & it makes one think you have a hidden agenda when all you ever post is about domestic violence & marital infidelity.

i think you need a shrink to help you banish all the horrors you have witnessed in your adult life. it's people like you that become serial killers.

zboyd:

That's it?
That's the best you can do?

Now...when will YOU and your ilk contribute threads on..."The Positives of Marriage"..."Marriage, If Worked Upon, Can Be A Blessing", etc...etc...etc...if all you hear from me is doom & gloom (which is a straight-up lie, if you look through ALL my threads)? Why are you looking to ME to provide threads to make YOU and your ilk feel warm and fuzzy inside? Are ya'll's fingers broke?

And why is it that when it's topics pertaining to the antics of women, you and your ilk are co-signing each other like a passel of signifying monkeys?

BUT when the threads pertain to the dirty birds of YOUR gender, you and your ilk start foaming at the mouth like rabid dogs and in more denial than the River Nile?

Why is that, hmmm?

I have NO problems acknowledging the dirty birds of my gender - truth is truth. Some women can be just as scandalous as men.

And speaking of gender, you need to make up your mind - either I'm single, married, a lesbian married to a lesbian or a straight woman married to a straight man. I can't be all those things. All you're doing is making yourself look a bit dim.

And another thing, if my threads make you and your ilk's a-z-z-e-s itch so bad, then why do ya'll keep stalking me from thread to thread, name-calling, throwing insults, casting aspersions on my character and ASSuming things about me, without concrete proof, just because you disagree with my threads. Very immature AND dishonest, IMO, because you don't know me from Eve.

Anyways, opinions are like buttholes, everyone has one, so you and your ilk are entitled to yours.

No biggie!
Thanks for your response.
It's been duly noted.

coogar:


the best? you think this is about scoring cheap brownie points? i am the type to tell the truth your acquaintances dare not say to your face.



who's looking up to you? who are you? we said stop the negativity you exude or don't post at all. if what i said isn't the truth, why are you letting it get to you?



you are a laboratory rëtard!
think about it for a second - if you have a loving husband who cares about you & pleases you - you wouldn't be paying attention to the negativity in marriages. you would be too carried away with the pleasures of a happy marriage to bother about the people in your circle that are married to beastly husbands.

which is which? what ain't you telling us?



you are a verminous cretin!
your mission here is simple - fill up the whole bandwidth with nonsense on the internet & create a siege mentality against men. if you are happily married - how do you have time to have created 200 topics in less than 18 months - that's discounting the 6-month data loss. when exactly do you get the time to fück your imaginary hubby?



but you have never acknowledged it with your demonic articles - why?



you can be what you wanna be - it just doesn't add up you have a natural relationship. so you tell us which arm of sëxual deviance are you?



you are too insignificant to make anyone itch - stop getting ahead of yourself. all i said was you should tone down your negativity. even if you had a difficult childhood, hold a thought for people like me who's never had any cause to witness the family crisis you grew up with.



i would rephrase that for you.....
opinions are like clitorïs, every cünt has got one. i dunno why you are getting high temperature for a piece of advice.

zboyd:

Why not act like an online gentlemen, instead of an online cretin, when you respond?

coogar:


because i have belatedly come to terms that simpletons like you need the harshest of words to get a message.

so you really expect me to pamper you?

zboyd:

It's called 'Home Training' - not pampering.