BABE3:




what does the highlighted mean? Why did you feel the need to put in that piece of information?

As a 'miss independent' that works in a multi national company, what are you asking for again? Brazillian hair? Are you a beggar?

thorpido:
Unrealistic comments from some ladies here.They're talking about a guy that cares.
Abeg,na wetin man dey take do this care?

FynBabe:
Ok! I agree, all women love money more than attention.

abeautifulchick:

Hmm.its difficult but i think i am out of options here.i have sat him down couple of time to discuss this matter but instead he bought me my own car so that i dont have to call him to take me around.i have tried breaking up before now but he went on his knees and begged me not to leave him.i truly love him and i know he loves me so much.Is there no other approach other than leaving him?

abeautifulchick:
@ babe3,so you were insulting me because you dint have an idea what i looked like right? Anyway,i just uploaded my pic.will take it down soon though.Its not every profile without picture that have an ugly handler.

abeautifulchick:
@ babe3,so you were insulting me because you dint have an idea what i looked like right? Anyway,i just uploaded my pic.will take it down soon though.Its not every profile without picture that have an ugly handler.

abeautifulchick:
@

beeevan:
OP this is not a good sign at all, most guy's will consider it a pleasure excusing themselves from friends to pick their fiance from the airport.


Seems you are enjoying the benefits and not ready to let go.

abeautifulchick:
@ babe3,so you were insulting me because you dint have an idea what i looked like right? Anyway,i just uploaded my pic.will take it down soon though.Its not every profile without picture that have an ugly handler.

TV01:


So let me get this right, this guy is all but perfect. Your soulmate and one you can discuss anything with on any level? He lavishes money on you and provides everything you need? He makes provision even before you articulate the need? The only problem is that you need more attention?

Let me advise you;

I appreciate that you are young, and perhaps not quite ready for marriage – even as everything seems to suggest you have landed on your feet if you want it.

But so is he, and by all accounts very focused and successful at a relatively young age. If he is the soulmate you claim, you should be able to work with this.

Become invaluable to him and a source of wise counsel, comfort and rest. That’s all you have to do – that and perhaps demonstrate a little patience. Be wise, why does he spend so much time with his friends/contacts. Is it because he is driven or because you don’t provide the same stimulus?

If your main driver is your neediness, I’d wager that not only are you not ready, you are probably not right for him. I shudder to think how you’d react if times got tough?

Your call. All the best


TV

BABE3:



awwww. Now I feel like a jerk.

but wait, how can you be that cute and reduce your level to the likes of the attention seekers on this thread.

With the way you were talking, one would have thought you looked like a 12 yr old boy with a shiny weave.

pretty girls like you don't crave attention. Guys give it to them free of charge.

Truckpusher:
Guys do not give it to you free of charge when they've seen everything about you in and out.

You make them go hungry for your attention but once you've been landed safely ,you'll become a regular.

This is nature for you.

C'mon ! we aren't that dumb.

Stillfire:
@OP
I'm an attention freak as well and it's all because the love is still 'shacking' you.
I guess when realities hit, we'll both wake up from the honeymoon phase.
If that's the only character flaw, you can work your way around it.
You can schedule the times you meet that would be solely for both of you, no phones or distraction.
You can also get to know what he likes doing and get involved in it as well. That way you kill two birds with one stone.
This will only work though if he indeed cherishes the relationship and is committed to it. I'm of the school of thought that if your partner raises complaints you find ways to alleviate her/his hurt. I hope he's that kind of guy.

abeautifulchick:

On the contrary,i know what i want

Then stick to it

naijaboiy:
Op don't tell me you want to marry a poverty stricken man

Take a chill pill

Lovettokon:


Lady, u lie. U can never stay with a man who can't pay ur bills. Better hold wot u av o else I will come for him and u go DEY pursue me with juju

That is what some of us have been saying since o

abeautifulchick:

Yes.What matters most to me is love.

coogar:

abeautifulchick:

I am.its just that i need maximum attention from him

audreybrian:

Wow,you are such a cutie,no wonder your boyfriend does not wanna let go of you.You are incredibly beautiful.

vivalableue:
I love this website because it helps me to understand the mindset of some (NOT ALL) women from your country. So the lady is saying that he gives a lot of things and doesn't spend needed time and even abandons her when she feels she mustn't be abandoned.

A) She's not ready for marriage, mainly because the manner in which someone act before marriage is amplified 10x after. And if she must complain on public forum, as though she doesn't have sisters and friends etc to complain to, this must REALLY bother her. It will most definitely cause HBP in marriage.

B) Finally, where I come from, we have something called AMBITION!!! Why does this girl care so much about his ability to earn and the methods it takes for him to earn it and not her? Doesn't she worry about keeping her own pocket big and juicy? Why is the measure of a man comiserate on how much he makes, cuz in that case, us women should be marrying Mutual Funds, Banks and Churches! She should worry about how she should make sweet sweet cash, how to stash it, and settle herself.... At least that way she wouldn't have to consider deep pockets as a quality for marriage. What if they get married and his business crash? Or he passes and his relatives take all inheritance leaving her and her children with a pittance? WAOOWWW if you can't provide for yourself, don't even think about adding another person into the mix...

okotv:
its a personal flaw and if you love him you would see beyond that.

Tallesty1:
What do women want?

TV01:


So let me get this right, this guy is all but perfect. Your soulmate and one you can discuss anything with on any level? He lavishes money on you and provides everything you need? He makes provision even before you articulate the need? The only problem is that you need more attention?

Let me advise you;

I appreciate that you are young, and perhaps not quite ready for marriage – even as everything seems to suggest you have landed on your feet if you want it.

But so is he, and by all accounts very focused and successful at a relatively young age. If he is the soulmate you claim, you should be able to work with this.

Become invaluable to him and a source of wise counsel, comfort and rest. That’s all you have to do – that and perhaps demonstrate a little patience. Be wise, why does he spend so much time with his friends/contacts. Is it because he is driven or because you don’t provide the same stimulus?

If your main driver is your neediness, I’d wager that not only are you not ready, you are probably not right for him. I shudder to think how you’d react if times got tough?

Your call. All the best


TV

prettiest1:
Love, care and trust. Understand our silent and Place nothing above us except God. Be there for us. Those are a few of what women want.

Tallesty1:
Owk...







What do women give?